Im 32 yr 0ld man being sexual relation with a guy of 30 from last 7 years. He got married 18 months before and little bit i dissappointed and again i controlled myself thats his life let him go. after days mentally i flustrated because i cant call him . i cant meet him i dont want to disturb him. because of lonlyness i also decided to get maried . i did makeup my mind and i married. But still im thinking and want him too much. I have doubt that can i love my wife honestly sincierly heartly.
2007-03-22 02:33:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to come clean to your partners and be honest about what you really want and what you really are.
All will end in tears and regret otherwise.
Think of these poor ladies you have lied to!
2007-03-25 13:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have gotten married if your heart was somewhere else. It's not fair to her or you! You were hurt and made a bad decision. Regardless of love, you may very well love her but the question is are you in love with her? Also, how would she feel if she knew that you settled for her? You need to be a little more open and honest, if only with yourself!
I think we all know we don't always get what we want and that things don't always turn out how we expect but when someone else's feelings are involved you need to take that into consideration, especially if they are the innocent party.
2007-03-22 02:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely.. i assume maximum experience love because of the fact confident.. our form of .. objective, like all different animal, is to reproduce... That being mentioned sexual choose and genuine love are veryyyy distinctive issues. i think of maximum toddlers are too youthful to comprehend, and that i do think of that gets interior the way. yet i comprehend there are some toddlers that have genuine love, and there are some those that have been at the same time considering that teen years. In end...... you're actually not immediately in love with human beings you're truly involved in..
2016-12-19 11:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh this is scandalous. I hope with all the gay sex you to have had that you wore condoms to protect the women you now call "wives".
I think that the both of you are selfish, despicable men for lying to the women you both call wives about everything that you are.
If you are gay be open and be gay . It's wrong to use these women to hide behind.
I hope the two of you get what you both deserve.
2007-03-22 02:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can be with the person you love is to live your life honestly. You're both living a lie. You're not only hurting yourselves by living this way but now you've dragged others into it who inevitably will be hurt as well.
Get honest, with yourself and your wife. It will not be easy, but you CANNOT love her honestly and sincerely this way. This isn't fair to anyone involved.
2007-03-22 02:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Javed, you want to know if it's love or desires?, I think its both because theres no way you will think of him if you only wish for sexual desires from him. I will not judge you for who you become,but I will disappoint you when I say that your wife does not deserve this kind of heartaches from you. You must face who you are and admit to yourself who you really want.
If you married your wife because your lonely, that will not be fair to her, be honest with her to your own self. And when and if you do this, you will find peace,.............just tell her and let her go,so she find happiness that she deserve..
2007-03-22 07:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man this is Brokeback Mountain scenario, lets hope you won't end up like the characters.
2007-03-22 02:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Booooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋