2007-03-22 02:38:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to that get a partner i have one thanx my fella is not into dressing up and he much older than me so the sex is the same all the time where im younger and i love sex cant get enough fo it and i love being adventuress but me fella.
2007-03-22 02:54:33 · update #1
to that get a partner i have one thanx my fella is not into dressing up and he much older than me so the sex is the same all the time where im younger and i love sex cant get enough fo it and i love being adventuress but me fella dont. what can i do?
2007-03-22 02:55:47 · update #2
you cant get alot more exciting than sleeping with someone else but then thats just naughty should really keep my thoughts to myself,
2007-03-22 02:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by gwoods1210 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to be sensitive to each others needs, first of all talk to your partner he may feel the same as you or he might not have noticed that the sex has got 'samey'. Talk over with him about what you are prepared to do for each other.
And maybe you could get some bath oil and scented candles and afterwards may be a little sensual massage, I hope this is useful.
2007-03-26 13:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not into sex toys or anything like that, but dont mind the small stuff such as porn, handcuffs, massage oil, blindfold, etc.
different positions throughout the session helps you not to orgasm too fast, oh and always start off with oral- really gets a woman going.
2007-03-22 09:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fella is obviously turned on enough by you not to want to dress up etc.....................
you need to stop all this fantasy crap and just learn to enjoy what it is you are actually doing - the intimacy with someone you should love ................
please don't go down that road of fantasy it is a dangerous one!!!
Sophia
2007-03-30 08:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sophia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a partner that was 20years younger than me,we spoke one day before i went to work and she said tell me what you want,i will do anything for you tonight,and i had all day at work to think about it.we had a fantastic time from then on.u must communicate,its worth it.
2007-03-29 10:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by john t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dressing up you can buy loads of stuff from ann summers to spice up your sex life
2007-03-22 09:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by K5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your man and tell him you need some good lovin' ... try some new positions and doing it in different places, outside, on the stairs, in the shower etc etc... Can't be many men who would refuse that??
2007-03-29 09:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take at least fifty quid with you to the nearest ann summers or sex shop. buy things with batteries and latex. and a nurses uniform
2007-03-29 12:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by fat momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can buy all the books and dvd's in the world but it starts with the correct communication between you and your partner..just let your imagination run wild and explore each other's bodies..
2007-03-22 09:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mercia L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
suggest things to him, try using toys, open up to him what u want and ask if he has any fantasys then act them out go have sum fun
2007-03-30 05:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by vickylou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋