Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

My boyfriend is in Iraq. He gets home in the beginning ofJune - and I want to have something sexy ready for him when he gets back. I have to pick him up from the airport, so i would really like to be able to walk through the door with him and treat him to something extra special - considering we havent been able to make love, or anything sexual at all for over 6 months.
Any thoughts or ideas?

2007-03-20 07:56:20 · 1 answers · asked by beckyvincenzes 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in a studio apartment with my boyfriend. The lease to the apartment is under my name and not his. For the year he has lived here he has only paid the rent twice and the rest of the time he has been unemployed and not able to contribute. He lacks motivation and I am tired of taking care of everything. I want him to move out but he refuses. My issue is he moved out here from another state so he has no where to go. What are my options? He does not want to take a plane ticket (which I offer to purchase) to go back with his family.

2007-03-20 07:56:19 · 11 answers · asked by lolzsmpenis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive only been with my boyfriend now for 2 months and i already feel like he's the one, how soon is too soon? im not planning to marry him tomorrow or anything but how soon do you wait b4 you know it's right?

2007-03-20 07:56:09 · 23 answers · asked by tj 3 in Singles & Dating

here it is i have felt unwanted and not loved. so my freshman yr of high school i was sleepin with a few people the same people like 4 or 5 but then i met this guy and we started dating for almost a yr. and i stop doin everything that i did. i was only sleepin with him and loved him to death and would do anythin for him. but we broke up now and im scared that im goin to go back to the way i was. me and my ex- still talk. it all happen so fast he just told me that he couldnt be in a realtionship right now so i dont no what is goin to happen. i just hate being by myself so what should i do??

2007-03-20 07:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by lil2late_2008 1 in Singles & Dating

Just shy and confused!

2007-03-20 07:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by willys 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl... Lets Call Her "Jamie"... "Jamie" has this friend named Jackie you see, she's obsessed with me. But I Don't Like Jackie, I'm in love with Jamie.... Me and Jamie was gonna keep our relationship a secret but Jamie didn't want to hurt Jackie by going out with me.... so we decided to keep our love a secret from her. but one night i got mad at Jackie and told her everything... jackie and jamie are still friends, but now Jackie loves me even more, and you would expect since i hurt her that she wouldn't like me anymore... but while all this was going on jamie got asked out and she said yes because the both of us thought we couldnt be together because of jackie. and now that we can be together... her new boyfriend is in the way. and ik she still loves me because we talk every night and sometimes while she's on dates with him. But The both of us dont know what to do... she wants to be with me but she doesnt want to hurt the BF... Please Help... I Could Really Use It

2007-03-20 07:55:23 · 1 answers · asked by philrocks2009 2 in Singles & Dating

Im always nice to everyone and help them in any way i can even if i have to stay all night texting them.

2007-03-20 07:54:45 · 15 answers · asked by MARY J 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a little worried, what do you think he meant by this? too much sex therefore not interested anymore...?

2007-03-20 07:54:34 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 07:53:03 · 48 answers · asked by Chris 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I remember hearing those having to get a blood tests, I wonder why it was needed. Now it's not required and I wonder why.

2007-03-20 07:52:40 · 9 answers · asked by JBWPLGCSE 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How would you feel if a guy you see in school / work comes up to you and says hi and then says he likes your eyes and thinks you are beautiful? what would you say to him?

2007-03-20 07:52:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sent a package to a person priority mail with delivery confimation and it says it was delivered, but the person tells me he never got the package
what could the problam be??

2007-03-20 07:52:13 · 14 answers · asked by sara w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why r u people ready to stay with each other yet afraid to commit? when u have opted for this,did u prepare for something bad to happen in the end like say,break up? how can u love each other at the same time r not ready to commit? how can u call this true love?

2007-03-20 07:52:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this boy that i like and he likes me but he a a big flirt everytime i see him in the halls he wit another girl but when we talked in class he told me he liked me and if we was together he would leave all those girls alone and his brother said he liked me alot but should i trust him to think that he would really leave all those girls alone or should i just KEEP IT PUSHIN!!

2007-03-20 07:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by nExT tOp MoDeL 2 in Singles & Dating

That is to not call me during the hours where my minutes are charged. She spends money to call me and that's her talking point when we have arguments over who calls who the most. So what can I do to make her acknowledge me not being cheap. I'm just trying to make ends meet and not have to pay extra fees when she calls.

2007-03-20 07:51:34 · 6 answers · asked by ELDreamer81 2 in Singles & Dating

Does Anyone have a good poem to send to A Step- Grandmother that treats my kids like they are dirt, when she treats the other 3 BLOOD grandkids like gold. She used to treat my great, because my kids were the first grandkids, then when the other kids were born, mine were place on the WAY FAR BACK burner. Then she made a comment to my sister-in-law, that it is hard being a step-grandmother. I say it's only hard if you make it hard, and my kids don't go around calling her step-grandma..... they only know her as grandma.

2007-03-20 07:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by shelley337 2 in Family

My ex bf and i have been together for 4 yrs. Last month I decided to call off the relationship and move back to the state I orignally am from. I feel as if we both hold each other back from what we want to do. I still love him to death, but I don't want to continue this relationship. Since letting him know, our relationship is actually better. We have more sex now than b4 (kinda strange). I know that our paths will entwine in the future as friends or as lovers, but is it wrong to sleep with him even though we are actually not together? When the time comes, I just don't want to make it harder for the both of us. I still care for him passionately, but I can't be with him. I just love having sex! What should one to do?

2007-03-20 07:50:55 · 19 answers · asked by NLNLN 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 3 months now and are very serious (as in marriage and engagement talk). Just recently 2 of my younger cousins (ages 25 and 21) have gotten engaged. My boyfriend want to propose, but is aprehensive now because 2 of my close family members just got engaged. They are getting married in September & October of this year. His concerns are that no matter when he proposes he will get compared to them. If he proposes soon, then he will be seen as a copycat, if he waits until right before their weddings then he thinks that we will be in a sense stealing the lime light, and if he waits then my family will question why he is taking so long to do it. He feels a lot of pressure right now. We are going home to see my family in a couple of weeks. Do you guys have any advice on this situation or on ways that he can propose to me so that we won't be doing any of the aforementioned things? Thanks so much for your help!

2007-03-20 07:50:34 · 25 answers · asked by Case 3 in Weddings

2007-03-20 07:49:45 · 18 answers · asked by Mike S 2 in Singles & Dating

My old college roommate and best friend of nearly 10 years was my instant choice as my MOH when I got engaged to a boyfriend that I would never have met without her. We dreamed of sharing in the joy of each other's weddings for years. Since my engagement, she has become so distant and completely uninterested in being a part of the planning process to the point that I am worried if she will even show up on the big day. She wouldn't take part in looking for bridesmaids dresses and won't return any of my calls when I've asked for help with anything. She lives a few miles away from me and yet I've seen her once in the last year. I chose her over other close friends and family who can't seem to offer enough help, even though they live all across the country. I feel like I made the wrong decision in asking her to play such an important role in my big day, but how do I address it without ruining whatever we may have left for a friendship?

2007-03-20 07:49:36 · 26 answers · asked by bummed_out_bride 1 in Weddings

2007-03-20 07:49:18 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Weddings

Me & bf broke up 1 week ago after 2 yrs cause it seemed we werent as close. He said he still wants 2 be friends & i was still happy for me 2 come on holiday with him & mates. We just had a fight on msn cause he miss understood something i wrote in a comment to a friend.. I have a nickname for him and what i wrote looked like his nickname + insult but it was something completely different. He wiped me off his site & i had a go at him for being so silly, then i accidently screamed about how i was so stupid for thinking we could have another chance together if i showed how i had changed. He seemed surprised and asked me if i thought wed get back together and i said "no not now" then i said "forget it" he then said fine and left msn. I called him & told him to forget everything id said and he said ok. Have i ruined everything now? altho hes the one who shouldve appologized for misreading and wiping me out! Should i still go on holiday? Is there still a chance we could get back 2gether...

2007-03-20 07:48:53 · 13 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Singles & Dating

this guy i'm seeing is saying we're going to hug and kiss a lot. Its not what i do on the first date. i'll hug but kissing on the first date is a no-no. so what do you do on your first date with your mate?

2007-03-20 07:48:29 · 8 answers · asked by Inneed 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to put the daughter of a family friend as my flower girl, but I fear that she's too old, can someone tell me what is the largest age I could go?

2007-03-20 07:48:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister-in-law is constantly saying bad things about my sister to me. My SIL tends to exaggerate things or flat out lie about things. I know half the stuff isn't the truth but I hold my tongue. My sister tell me bad things about our sister-in-law but I tend to believe her because she's my sister. I feel caught in the middle cause I do feel a loyalty to my sister but also to my sister-in-law. If I tell the other what was said then I hurt either my sister or sister-in-law. Either way I don't know how to handle this. What should I do?

2007-03-20 07:47:36 · 14 answers · asked by Kimmy 4 in Family

was only earning person in family ,now sister & bro in edu.institute is good sister is supporting her in her non sense things.she is maharashtrian. she is emotionly black mailing my husband saying that her brother & father are not good. she is mad, call girls are better than her. she has spoiled my huby,her bro. is not good so she stay in office till11:30 night& since last one &half year my hubby goes & drop her to her place. which cost 100 rs. every day .after that till 2 o'clock they both sms,call,misscall each other, she sends sms like +++.../hu tamane khup khup pyar karu chhu, i cannot read my husband' sms . before all this he was good.rascal girl if he donot call her ,she calls on my cell/landline. day time she is seek so she come by auto from Mira Rd'midnight she sends sms like she feels insecure after making me insecure. she is after money .i"ve supported my huby lot due to his health probiems,i"ve 9 y r old daughter, that girl has spoiled our life what should i do

2007-03-20 07:47:03 · 7 answers · asked by shrina p 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I are trying to plan a wedding get-away.. we would like to go on a cruise, but it is way to expensive!! We want to have a nice wedding, honeymoon. I would like to stay in a nice hotel with a hot tub in the room, I want to wear a nice dress for my wedding.. And want to have pictures.. even if family is not there.. any ideas?

2007-03-20 07:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by littlemama882003 2 in Weddings

I am a 41 yr old women who owns her own home. I work professionally and have an older teenager living at home with me. Three years ago I met this gentleman who is apx 10 years older than me. He has an older child as well. They moved in with me. He has no property as he leases everything. He hsa a home/office that he leases and has to maintain. He has little money to contribute to our life at home. He periodically pays for wine and gives my daughter a few dollars every now and then. I find it very upsetting. If him and his offspring were not there, I would have the money to give to my child and buy my own wine. In all other ways, this man is wonderful. He is sweet, kind and caring but in ways I resent him because I am paying for all the food he eats, the heat he uses and so on. I feel angry and frustrated. He is also in debt. He has a credit card that he owes over 15, 000 on at a rate of 18% interest. And he owes Revenue Canada for 2 years of taxes. Should I dump him?

2007-03-20 07:46:00 · 28 answers · asked by angryjan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See i kinda have this boyfriend and he really wants to do it but im not really sure if im ready or if hes the one What should i do

2007-03-20 07:45:57 · 22 answers · asked by Rae 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm putting the final touches on the planning for my wedding in a week and five days and I've got all the lovey hokey music but I was looking for good wedding music to dance to. Anyone have any ideas?

2007-03-20 07:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by neve_freak2001 5 in Weddings