Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

it is a beautiful day , a little gloomy , but still beautiful, should you try to make everyday a beatiful day , or should you just be negative?? you know how I feel ???

2007-03-20 08:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

2007-03-20 08:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he seemed to like me back cuz he was always flirting with me but then when itold him i liked him he did nothing and acts like nomthing happened between us... i don't wan tto bring it up again though ..how do i get him to like me?

2007-03-20 08:27:59 · 11 answers · asked by lawyergurl92 2 in Singles & Dating

My Prom is coming up I broke up with my boyfriend and now I do not have a date!!!! I do not know what to do every one is cuopled up already and those with no date are not going and said they do not want to go... What do I do?????? Please Help.. Prom is in 6 and 1/2 weeks....

2007-03-20 08:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 08:27:27 · 7 answers · asked by homadebiscuit 1 in Singles & Dating

give detail!!!

2007-03-20 08:27:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i like this girl in my school. we're both christians. she will probly go out with me. what should i say to her to get her more opened with me. and what do i say when i want to ask her out like in a cute way. oh and i would want me to go to her chuch. what should i do and what does that mean

2007-03-20 08:27:03 · 1 answers · asked by David R 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday was the 2nd year anniversary of my friends brother dying. He was hit by a train on his way to getting a haircut. The day after he died I found in my textbook a peice of paper from him that said stuff about a train and going 60 miles per hour and coming around the bend.That was the exact same thing that happened. Lucas was 2 years ahead of me and its hard to believe that no other student or teacher found it before I did. So I gave the letter to my friend and he kept it. Today I got another textbook and it said his name and it was his handwritting. I miss him alot. It still pains me to think about him and everything that happend. His family had suffered alot. About 14 years ago their family had suffered another lose. His baby sister had died drawning him a winter pond - icy and everything. Him or my friend wasnt born yet but its still hard for them even to this day. What does this tell me? Why me? Why now? Why after he's dead?

2007-03-20 08:26:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im talking about asking lady friends that I have known for a while. Sometimes I see them peeking out and just think wow, l'd like to have them. But how do I ask? Do I offer to pay? From a woman's view, whats an acceptable reason?

2007-03-20 08:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We talked about marriage, we are buying a house together, and we're having a baby. I looked on his history a couple of weeks ago and he was taking out a lot of personals. Every email he gets is from someone contacting him about it. He works construction and is gone during the week. He wrote on most of his personals that he was just looking for one on one sex. He's been searching for girls in the city he works in. And they are going to be moving to a different city and now he is looking up girls there too. He even pays for personal adds. The last one I read was to a girl in the city he is currently working and it said, "Wuts up, I'll be back for work on Monday." What should I do?

2007-03-20 08:25:00 · 22 answers · asked by Shy Violet 1 in Singles & Dating

Im talking about asking lady friends that I have known for a while. Sometimes I see them peeking out and just think wow, l'd like to have them. But how do I ask? Do I offer to pay? From a woman's view, whats an acceptable reason?

2007-03-20 08:24:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Sooo I like my friend for a long time already, and almost everyday she would call me and we would talk for a couple of hours for the past 1.5 years. I like her a lot, but she can't date because she's muslim and im non-muslim. However, friday i texted her to see what's up and saturday i texted her that i missed her and she texted me back late late at night saying she just came back from her family's gathering and shes really tired and she said plz dont expect me to call everyday... Soo im feeling kinda hurt from that and I don't know how to respond. i just texted her back i know i understand. How do I go to approach this? I really like her and she tells me literally everything in her life and I would be willing to marry her and convert to islam if she really does like me (i have no religion as of now), but I'm afraid to tell her because everytime i tell a girl that i like her, it fails..

*edit she called back yesterday but i kinda didnt give her a chance to talk about it.....

2007-03-20 08:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want to seduce my man this fri night and give him the time of his life. what can i do to make him blow his mind? also is there any thing i can do t tease him n make him want me so bad that he cant keep his hands off of me??

2007-03-20 08:23:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone told me that he tried to get in her pants, but he SWEARS up & down that he never saw this girl nor heard of a girl with that name. He has little or no contact with me unless it's for sex every 2 weeks. I've been dating him for 6 1/2 months & STILL don't know him that well. He's too ashamed to introduce me to his family, & our communication is spreading farther & farther apart. It's like he's nonexistent & imaginary. 1/2 of the time I forget I have a boyfriend & think I'm single.

Does this sound like a sign of controlling & abusive behavior? Well, he's 4 yrs. younger than me. He told me that if I chose to leave him & believe the girl over him, then I'd have to see a side of him that I've never seen before. I take that as a threat. I have a college degree, & he's a sophomore. He's 19, & I'm 23, & he thinks he has more sense than I do. I'll be DAMNED if a younger guy was to beat on me! I never before saw his temper, but the way he describes it sounds scary.

2007-03-20 08:23:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend is in the Navy and lives a few states away from me. We will be seeing each other every couple months this year until I move down there with him. Have have been together for a few years now but I am still not able to get used to him going out to sea for anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months. Everytime he leaves it gets harder. Our only comunication at that time is email that is delayed 3 days. He does the typical thing of telling me not to worry but I can't seem to help it. It scares me so much knowing that he is out to sea and I am 10 states away from him and if anything happened to him I wouldn't be able to be down there by his side right away. Can anyone help me find ways to ease my mind about him being gone so much? I work and I go to the gym and go out with my girlfriends but once I get home and I lay down in bed to try and go to sleep all that worry just sort of comes back to me. How do I relax and try and calm down?

2007-03-20 08:23:47 · 4 answers · asked by Jacki 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that life is just to short to waist , I think that happines, love
and patience and understanding, is the key , what do you think?? please be honest ,

2007-03-20 08:23:37 · 3 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i posted a question about my friend being threatened by her now ex boyfriend....today she went to his house to get her stuff because he said she could. On her way over there she found out that he really did cheat on her and gave her HPV, and he started to threaten her again.

He said that he was going to bash her car and come after her and that she was going to die...she told him to stop and that she was going to call the cops, but he kept comming back up to her, throwing her stuff out of his house and threw a couple of knives at her (thank god they missed) and then he threw a statue at her car and broke her windshield....that is where she drew the line and called the cops

the neighbor and her ex's dad watched the whole thing and did nothing, she was on the phone with her friend and he did nothing (the guy on the phone is also friends with her ex though)

the cops did NOTHING, they said that all he would have to do is pay for the windshield and THEY GAVE HIM BACK HIS KNIVES...

2007-03-20 08:23:16 · 2 answers · asked by strgazer9113 3 in Singles & Dating

When i was in my past relationship with my ex girlfriend, i realized that i have a huge jealousy problem, and that more or less led to our brakeup. whats my problem? i couldnt stand seeing her talking to any other guy, and if her ex came up, i would cringe. i hated the thought of her doing something with any other guy in the past. please help me! get me out of this!!

2007-03-20 08:22:39 · 19 answers · asked by bobman 1 in Singles & Dating

Would a older women be intrested in a 20 yr old male. Very Mature and ready for anything??

2007-03-20 08:22:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a low self esteem and I am really jealous I always worry about my husband and other women but he is right we have a really awesome love life and we have so much fun together. i am worried because i don't want him to find anything better and to me everything is better. I need to really boost my self esteem before it kills my marriage i love my husband and trust him help me

2007-03-20 08:22:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The wet spot! husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend my wife and i had an argument last night after sex she says i always make her sleep in it and i said all women have to sleep in it but she still disagrees. who is right the wife or me?

2007-03-20 08:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by bluemist 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is a little bit about us. Currently we are getting drunk together and having sex but, Im so in love with him so im okay with this. He touch and kisses tell me that he likes me too, Im one of the people who are like omg i think he likes me and jumps on it. even if they dont. I have good advice for other people and it always works out for them but, i dont take my own advice. so i need some help here. He has lots of friends and there is always more than 3 people over at his house all day, sometimes all night. When we wake up in the morning he still kisses me the same way and touches me the same way. He plays with my hair and rubs my back. and he respects me when i say no. What does this mean?

2007-03-20 08:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when it comes to guys, i seem to be cursed. the longest relationship i have had was 4 weeks. most of the guys i date only last 1 week. i dont know what wrong w/ me. it's like, i like them, but when we become b/f g/f, i decide i dont wantta go out w/ him anymore. i really hate this about me, and im tryin to change it. also, the guys i like SO dont like me. and the ones i DONT LIKE like me. so,im cursed. well there is this guy, cody who i REALLY like right now. but he said about a month ago (right after him and his g/f broke up may i state) that he only likes me as a friend. but i always catch him looking at me.why does he do that? also, i try to have talk w/ him, but we cant find much to talk about cuz i feel awkward around him cuz i KNOW he feels awkward around me. a different cody told me the cody i like was talkin about me w/ some chick over the weekend. when i asked cody, he said he couldnt remember what it was about? what should i do, and how do i really find out if he likes me?

2007-03-20 08:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

When I'm trying to go to sleep, I can't just go to sleep quickly, it's hard for me to do that.

So, I just imagine my own dream world and talk to my dream guy until I sleep.

One time, my sister ask me, why I talk to myself when I'm trying to go to sleep.

If friends saw me doing that, they'll think I'm crazy. How do I stop this and just go to sleep?

2007-03-20 08:20:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How does a guy behave if he's really into you? I believe he has fancied me for ages but he's not asking me out! He wants to know my romantic situation and asks serious searching questions about it. I keep saying I am now single and ready for another relationship and lightly flirting with him. I am always polite and look into his eyes, I laugh with him and create opportunities but he's not following through! It appears like he's in love with me - my daughter (aged 13) saw us together once and he made a big effort to talk to her and she said "God Mom, he fancies you!" I have only ever had a relationship with my daughters Dad and he left quite a few years ago so I'm a bit clueless.I really fancy him too but I want to be clear that he's into me so I can maybe drop some more hints or ask him myself! Do you think he does?

2007-03-20 08:19:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His name is Paul and he's so sweet and caring. I've known him for about 4 and a half years and I see him pretty much everyday now. But things started to change around us. He started acting weird. All the time now he wants to be alone with me. He sometimes picks me up from school. Even on vacation he asked me if It was past my bedtime (jokingly) and said that he's going to go and hit the sac also. His room is right next to mine. And did I mention his girlfriend was also there? I told him no and he said that he can wait a little bit longer seeing that all of us were playing uno. One time he told me that he loves me and that I mean everything to him but he's 23 and I'm only 15 I know that age doesnt effect love but how can i tell just from this if he really does love me? How can I tell at all?

2007-03-20 08:19:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and i'm not gay so dont ask

2007-03-20 08:19:15 · 13 answers · asked by vollyball9 1 in Singles & Dating

I sometimes feel a strong urge when Im talking to a woman I find attractive. I wonder if they can tell what im thinking by looking in my eyes? How can I pretend sucessfully that Im not interested. cause I wouldnt try it on in my situation

2007-03-20 08:18:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now after 20000 tries to understand ,after living with a mind controler who is never wong and always blames me for any and every , i finally relised that i cant take more abuse, since i am filing for divorce ,he is still making me feel as if i am the blame , after having a break down and after recovering,i really want to love for the first time, but as i finish this process, he still tries to make me feel the whole fault of the divorce, i am not an angel, but i did marry my mother and now i want out, need to heal and relise that its ok, we are talking 14 years of mind games,and stalking and spying and lieing.and going home to his mom when he is mad,never wrong ,i do feel better knowing that he has had enough of begging to come back FINALLY, i mean since he does live in another state,now that i have raised my children most of there life by myself, i relized i am a agoraphobic with anxiety disorder, it looks like i am doomed now,and he is able to be free with no guilt, how do i crawl out

2007-03-20 08:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by wisper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 08:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by missi 3 in Marriage & Divorce