Someone told me that he tried to get in her pants, but he SWEARS up & down that he never saw this girl nor heard of a girl with that name. He has little or no contact with me unless it's for sex every 2 weeks. I've been dating him for 6 1/2 months & STILL don't know him that well. He's too ashamed to introduce me to his family, & our communication is spreading farther & farther apart. It's like he's nonexistent & imaginary. 1/2 of the time I forget I have a boyfriend & think I'm single.
Does this sound like a sign of controlling & abusive behavior? Well, he's 4 yrs. younger than me. He told me that if I chose to leave him & believe the girl over him, then I'd have to see a side of him that I've never seen before. I take that as a threat. I have a college degree, & he's a sophomore. He's 19, & I'm 23, & he thinks he has more sense than I do. I'll be DAMNED if a younger guy was to beat on me! I never before saw his temper, but the way he describes it sounds scary.
2007-03-20 08:23:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, you ARE single. The silent treatment and sex every 2 weeks does not constitute a boyfriend. He's a jacka**.
Tell him you're not leaving because of the girl, but because he's a jerk.
2007-03-20 08:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's thinking your are too controlling. you ought to choose some area on your relationship to do issues with persons and have friends. A relationship the place you spend all some time at the same time is basically smothering. there is many times some thing incorrect once you ought to have all of somebody's time and you do no longer have faith them. terrific examine your self out while you have the time. specific you're unhappy. You did no longer get your way and you probably did no longer pay attention to what he grow to be attempting to enable you realize. And now you ask your self why you're sitting there on my own. Sorry yet i'm going to wager you have no longer have been given numerous friends.
2016-10-02 11:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have issues to hash out with yourself. A 23 year old female dating back far is a new one on me. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but more than likely if you only see him every 2 weeks just for sex then you are not his girlfriend. He may be your bf but you aren't his gf, you're his practice girl or thing on the side. How could you be with someone for 61/2 months and not meet his people or know about this behavior. He isn't fooling you, you're fooling yourself. Get real!!!!
2007-03-20 08:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by killab773 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of him. He's an immature young man. If he's too ashamed to introduce you to him family and doesn't even talk to you unless you have sex with him, then it's clear that he has issues.
2007-03-20 08:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rewind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I did not even finish reading your question......Just from the first couple of sentences, my advice is to LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!! If you have been with him fof 6 months and you still dont know him, nor does he contact you unless he wants sex.......child I would tell his azz to BEAT IT!!!!!!
And he is 19 y/o? Honey, are you serious!!!!??? Why are you wasting your time.......
Good Luck
2007-03-20 08:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I read was that you see him every 2 weeks and it's only for sex.
Why do you call him a bf? He's a sex partner, no more no less.
2007-03-20 08:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't boyfriend/girlfriend...you're a booty call. And he just doesn't want someone else getting with his booty call. Get over the dude...reread your question and ask yourself if that is a relationship you want to be in. Almost any girl would say no. Move on...
2007-03-20 08:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tax retard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's already this bad, do you really want to get more involve with this guy?? Get out!!!! Sounds like a controlling player to me! You can do much better!
2007-03-20 08:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sam F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out while the 'getting is good' as the old expression goes.
2007-03-20 08:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he sounds like el creepo.
2007-03-20 08:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋