Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

Ok..short story..

Married for 11 years, been together for 13.

3 kids, aged 12, 10, 9.

Wife has admitted to cheating on me with 2 different guys, happened about 3-4 years ago. Thats is not the problem I have today, though, that is a longer story, that I dont have time to get in to.

Recently, in the last 2 months, wife has "befriended" a young man at work, who is single, and 7 years her younger.

When I got our cell phone bill, and noticed she went over her minutes, I looked to see what, who, where was called, as we had a mistale before on our bill. I notice a number which I had not noticed before.

The number was this young man's number. No big deal right?

I didnt even ask a question, just let it rest at, please keep a closer eye on when you use the number , as the bill was 50 dollars higher than normal. Shes says ok.

Now, the last couple of weeks, she has became very irritable and moody. I have tried repeatedly to talk to her..she wont hear of it.

2007-03-20 08:58:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has decided to live in Philippine for six monyhs of the year and doesn't want me to live with him. He said he wants freedom to have girlfriend or fear and wants me agree ton it. He said in some country men has few wives. Anybody has husband like mine and was told like that? If any will you tell what did it about.

2007-03-20 08:58:43 · 11 answers · asked by Viva joice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is going to sound corny but...

i really like this guy and everyone thinks he likes me. after a class we walk toward eachother down the hallway. he is with his friends and i am with my friends. what should i do? not talk.. because we hardly know eachother and that would be really awkward. any ideas?!?!

thanks!
=]

2007-03-20 08:58:35 · 3 answers · asked by Emma 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you caught your little brother trying on your clothes, your skirts, pantyhose, heels?

2007-03-20 08:57:54 · 19 answers · asked by blythkd 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 08:57:44 · 9 answers · asked by lilpimpett 1 in Family

2007-03-20 08:57:36 · 6 answers · asked by lover 1 in Singles & Dating

i am pregent ?????????? i not!!!!!!!!! never had boy friend!!!!!!!!!!!! why????????????

2007-03-20 08:57:28 · 2 answers · asked by tinkg07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do u have sex. can u tell me in steps

2007-03-20 08:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by Kelley T 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are in love, but sometimes we get beside ourselves and try to go all the way...He wants kids and so do i but, how do I know when the time is right? I'm finacially and mentally ready, but how do i know if he is? Then tonite he's comming over, and i wanna rock his world....but i don't go below if u know what i mean...any suggestions as to what to do????

2007-03-20 08:56:36 · 9 answers · asked by *KrazyBeautiful* 2 in Singles & Dating

i have sretch marks all the way down my biceps from weight lifting. will i ever be able to gain substantial muscle from lifting weights without ever getting stretch marks?

2007-03-20 08:56:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is complicated but here goes. For the last year ive been getting it on with a chick in the work. We started off as best friends but then it escalated after work nite outs. I knew she had a bf but it didn’t seem to bother her so a neva let it bother me. but now a think am havin deep feelings for her but I know nothing can ever happen and I don’t want to push. Were havin deep convos everynite bout these things but its put a strain on our friendship which has made work even more stressful. I was convinced that I was going nowhere and then I met someone last week but nothing hapend. Neva swaped numbers either so nothing ever will The girl from work found out that I was out wif some other girls and is now refusing to talk to me. Confused? So am I! I cant leave my work cos its alot of money and im in the middle of a huge promotion push or I'd leave to make it easy for us. Also its her bday on fri. She got me a load of gf/bf gifts for mine 2 months ago. Should I still get her something?

2007-03-20 08:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by worker jc 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 years old, single from NJ, I meet a guy on the web he is from DE, 41 years old, single dad, I found him very sexy and attractive and dare him to do a one night stand one of these days. Should I go for it or not?

2007-03-20 08:55:42 · 20 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 08:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by big burts bollox 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have so much to fix
what i have torn
threw away most of it
when i was born
now i've learned
from what i've done
hope to change
what i have become
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
before i leave
tears on this page
i love you all
so much i wanted to say
in my heart
memories will always stay
love will neva fade
when i'm far far away
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
life is 2 short
times always fly
wanna make the most of it
before i die
hope to be set
from the plans i have made
i wont be back
til that day..
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
2 your one n only thug

2007-03-20 08:55:09 · 6 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Family

i have so much to fix
what i have torn
threw away most of it
when i was born
now i've learned
from what i've done
hope to change
what i have become
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
before i leave
tears on this page
i love you all
so much i wanted to say
in my heart
memories will always stay
love will neva fade
when i'm far far away
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
life is 2 short
times always fly
wanna make the most of it
before i die
hope to be set
from the plans i have made
i wont be back
til that day..
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
2 your one n only thug

2007-03-20 08:54:51 · 6 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Friends

2007-03-20 08:54:50 · 22 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm having a redneck wedding and i'm stuck on how to word the invitations.

2007-03-20 08:54:48 · 0 answers · asked by redneck_goddess96 1 in Weddings

i have so much to fix
what i have torn
threw away most of it
when i was born
now i've learned
from what i've done
hope to change
what i have become
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
before i leave
tears on this page
i love you all
so much i wanted to say
in my heart
memories will always stay
love will neva fade
when i'm far far away
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
life is 2 short
times always fly
wanna make the most of it
before i die
hope to be set
from the plans i have made
i wont be back
til that day..
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
2 your one n only thug

2007-03-20 08:54:37 · 3 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have so much to fix
what i have torn
threw away most of it
when i was born
now i've learned
from what i've done
hope to change
what i have become
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
before i leave
tears on this page
i love you all
so much i wanted to say
in my heart
memories will always stay
love will neva fade
when i'm far far away
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
to your one n only thug
life is 2 short
times always fly
wanna make the most of it
before i die
hope to be set
from the plans i have made
i wont be back
til that day..
this is my last day
i love you all
havin you in my life
i would neva fall
my visits will increase
so will the love
its time to say
good bye
2 your one n only thug

2007-03-20 08:54:26 · 5 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I thought this one sophomore liked me, then i "heard" that he said he liked another girl... then this other guy, another sophomore, started talking to me all the time in our spanish class and we laugh and smile all the time, like the other guy did... I'm a freshman... in highschool!!! what in the world is going on??? Give me ideas and suggestions!!!! lovepink8080@yahoo.com about anything relationship wise!

2007-03-20 08:54:11 · 1 answers · asked by lovepink8080 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know how to get a cute boys attention because i really like this boy and i want him to see me and flirt with me!!!

please write me back

2007-03-20 08:53:51 · 22 answers · asked by cutiepie 2 in Singles & Dating

im 13 and i fancy this boy who is funny ,fit and soooooo out my league what should i do. (im not the best looking girl in the world but im not repulsive)lol

2007-03-20 08:53:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so the guy i am like totally saw me at the fair awhile ago. i was behind the arena looking 4 friend and he came running up over a dirt hill 2 talk 2 me. i waited and then 4 like an hour talked. well the fair was on again the next night and we saw eachother again. i went to talk to him & congratulate him on 1st place steer. so we talked and walked around a bit, then he had to go back 2 the arena 2 show again for champion or reserved champion. well he didn't win, but i still went back.
we made a bet 2 see who could keep their ride ristband on the longest (a friday night). so then on mon. i noticed he didn't have his on and then cause the class was playing bingo and i told him through a note he said outloud "dang it". well every now and then we write notes, we walk 2 lunch together every now and then, we talk at least once a day. i really like him and even today when we played kickball he was pitching and went totally easy on me, hime run easy.
do u think any of it means anything?

2007-03-20 08:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by Shannon 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband loves his sister madly he abuses me verbaly because of her. he says her name in dreams (in night). he can't hear even a single word against her. she is married but he gives her money. i m beautiful but he always insults me and he never listen to me. he stares her badly. i dont understand wat is going on?please help me.

2007-03-20 08:53:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whould you like it if you were in middle school and a guy asked you to a high school dance? I am trying to find out where to take this girl and the best place is a high school dance. I already have two free passes there and it is really fun. I have snuck in many times ( not actually snuck in, I prentended to be in high school) and I know we wont get caught. We are both in the 8th grade. I am pretty sure I should ask her but I need someones opinion.

2007-03-20 08:52:36 · 13 answers · asked by jake 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you forgive your bf or gf if you love them for just about anything. Say you got another phone line and didn't want to give them the number but they found out what the number was anyway and when you caught them they were at least honest about it. Would you forgive them for this or is this grounds for a break up?

Or what would you consider to be unforgiveable, it's not a heart was broken or u cheated and some people move on past that. So is what i did so bad that he should break up with me. I was just curious as to what the number was. I called it to make sure it was the right number, I called private but he assumed it was me and when he asked I was honest. Shouldn't that account for something?

2007-03-20 08:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

To me if a giril is sweet and kind. Thats all you need but cant finf one like that. Were are they?

2007-03-20 08:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

i got a F on my test in math and we have to get it signed and bring it back.... how do i tell them?????????

2007-03-20 08:51:50 · 14 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Family

There was this guy from my old school and i havent seen him in about 4 years.. but then the last week or so we started talking and he started callling me every night and wanting to talk for like an hour... and i dont wanna be rude so i talk to him.. and i kinda was starting to have a crush on him... but he just told me that he thinks he is falling in love with me! and i didnt know what to say.. i told him that i dont know him that well anymore and we needed to get to know each other better... but he is still trying to force love on me! what do i do?!?! i just turned 14! im not in love with him! help me please idk what to do. or say. or act like.

2007-03-20 08:50:55 · 22 answers · asked by Amberlee :D 3 in Singles & Dating

He refused to help out with cleaning up or even yard work. All he wanted to do was sleep. Why should I have to do all the work? I am a mother of 2 and have a full time job..

2007-03-20 08:50:31 · 13 answers · asked by living this life 2 in Marriage & Divorce