My husband has decided to live in Philippine for six monyhs of the year and doesn't want me to live with him. He said he wants freedom to have girlfriend or fear and wants me agree ton it. He said in some country men has few wives. Anybody has husband like mine and was told like that? If any will you tell what did it about.
2007-03-20 08:58:43 · 11 answers · asked by Viva joice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it's ok with him you can be my girlfriend until he comes back
2007-03-20 09:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide what is best for you. It is true that in some countries men have several wives, but it is usually in countries whose culture have a lot less rights and respect for women. It does sound like your husband isn't respecting your feelings or wishes. If he won't talk to you about his decisions or respect your feelings, you need to really think about and decide whether he is good for you. You deserve someone who loves you and wants you to be happy.
2007-03-20 16:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lappet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband said he wanted to live apart half the year so he could have "freedom", I would give it to him. By divorcing him, I would be giving him his freedom full-time. Do not stay with him as he obviously has no love or respect for you.
2007-03-20 16:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, Kick his butt to the Philippines. You don't need a man like that. And if you agree to it, your crazy. Let him go file for the divorce and find a good man who wants only you.
2007-03-20 16:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go to the Philippines and while he is there, have him served with divorce papers. Let him know he is welcome to live in whatever country he wants with as many wifes as he wants but you will not be one of them!!
2007-03-20 16:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a jerk.
Let him go to the Phillipines. Divorce this knob and live a good respectful life.
2007-03-20 16:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id totally kick my husbands A$$ if he even thought of asking me that crap! You deserve sooooo much better than that crap! Divorce his butt and find a man who will love you and respect you like u deserve! He is selfish-and totally out of line! GET RID OF HIM! Asking your wife permission to cheat is a load of crap!
2007-03-20 16:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband told me that I would be slamming divorce papers in his face. That is truely disrespectful.
2007-03-20 16:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your "husband" to go to one of those countries & stay there then!!! Forget this guy! Tell him what YOU want.
2007-03-20 16:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sam F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe i say sell his crap and divorce him,thats so disrespectful to tell ur wife that,leave him,im being honest,never heard of that,well divorce him, u deserve better
2007-03-20 16:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Antonio R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋