This is complicated but here goes. For the last year ive been getting it on with a chick in the work. We started off as best friends but then it escalated after work nite outs. I knew she had a bf but it didn’t seem to bother her so a neva let it bother me. but now a think am havin deep feelings for her but I know nothing can ever happen and I don’t want to push. Were havin deep convos everynite bout these things but its put a strain on our friendship which has made work even more stressful. I was convinced that I was going nowhere and then I met someone last week but nothing hapend. Neva swaped numbers either so nothing ever will The girl from work found out that I was out wif some other girls and is now refusing to talk to me. Confused? So am I! I cant leave my work cos its alot of money and im in the middle of a huge promotion push or I'd leave to make it easy for us. Also its her bday on fri. She got me a load of gf/bf gifts for mine 2 months ago. Should I still get her something?
2007-03-20 08:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by worker jc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is cheating on her boyfriend to be with you? She will do the same to you some day with someone else.
2007-03-20 09:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Defunct 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r confused? man the girl is more confused than u. she clearly likes u! u fill an empty space her bf has left so carry on, get her! get her a gift too.
ive been into three realtionships/affairs at work. its great while it works buts its annoying when its over... even after a 1 month shag!!! but id say the good part outweights the bad part so do it!!! r u gonna let a great girl go and her lousy bf win???? itd be different if u were chasing her and she loves her bf. but she clearly likes u so go for it.
earlier posts are right though. she plays games and chances r shell plays the same game w/u shes playing on her bf. c what happens though. get her!!
2007-03-23 01:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by chokito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games, if she was serious about you she would leave her bf. She doesnt want you to have a gf cos she just likes the attention she gets from you. Dont waste your time on her,get on with your life and have fun!
2007-03-20 16:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's using you mate
trying to have her cak and eat it
you have your own life to lead, tell her to chose and no she cant have both
if you dont then your work will be affected, and your life is gonna be pretty messed up as well
2007-03-20 17:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋