Sooo I like my friend for a long time already, and almost everyday she would call me and we would talk for a couple of hours for the past 1.5 years. I like her a lot, but she can't date because she's muslim and im non-muslim. However, friday i texted her to see what's up and saturday i texted her that i missed her and she texted me back late late at night saying she just came back from her family's gathering and shes really tired and she said plz dont expect me to call everyday... Soo im feeling kinda hurt from that and I don't know how to respond. i just texted her back i know i understand. How do I go to approach this? I really like her and she tells me literally everything in her life and I would be willing to marry her and convert to islam if she really does like me (i have no religion as of now), but I'm afraid to tell her because everytime i tell a girl that i like her, it fails..
*edit she called back yesterday but i kinda didnt give her a chance to talk about it.....
2007-03-20 08:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should tell the girl that you like her. Maybe she feels the same with you but she's just too scared about telling you like you are too her. Well if you guys have been friends for a long time she should understand that you like her. It might fail but then it might not. But if you don't tell her you like her she might find a guy she likes and you might never get a chance to tell her and then you would never know how she feels about you. So try and tell her and maybe she'll understand and maybe she might feel the same way about you. Good Luck
2007-03-20 08:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is Muslim.........you are not. How old are you anyway?Pretty young I would suspect.
Muslim's have different traditions than christians and I know you don't understand but her family mean a lot to her and her traditions also. That is likely why she can't text you as often as you'd like so don't feel so hurt.
Maybe you could take time to do some research on her culture and her traditions and you would understand more about her life.
Let her be your friend in her own way and take it from there.
And for now...........you can tell her you like her as a friend and
see where it goes.There's no rush.Good Luck.
2007-03-20 15:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a great basis to start a relationship, however, religious preferences could cause some turmoil. First make sure she knows how you feel about her. Then find out if this is even something her family will except. Muslim families are very strict, and this may be a factor in her distance. They also are very Honorable. You may choose to speak with her father, and ask what you would have to do to court his daughter.
2007-03-20 15:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, converting to Islam is more than a notion so do your research before you committ to such a thing...As for your friend, I think she's probably feeling the heat from her family and/or religion and feels that she needs to back off for a bit, especially, because she's connected to a person who doesn't share her beliefs. If she's as good a friend as you say, you should feel comfortable expressing your feelings to her...give it a try and be real with her.
2007-03-20 15:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u shouldnt take it to urself if she sayz she cant call/text u everyday. she was probably just really tired that night but i still think u should have given her a chance to explain herself(maybe it would have made u feel better too) . now as far as marrige goes u should take some hints to see if she really likes you and if she does, then impress her by saying that u want to convert to islam(if you are really up to making a big desision in ur life) after that go with the flow i guess...u may get to her family if you convert depending on how strong they are in religon.
also after you "convert" if she has a brother or sister you can get close to them and ask them wat they think of her liking u
maybe the she is scared of denial too.
hope this helps
ttyl
2007-03-20 15:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by mursall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try to understand her more. ma bye she like you and love you too maybe she dreams to be with you and share her life moment with you but she could not tell you about all that because she know that she would never be able to be with you since you are not Muslim and you could not married her. Muslim girl could not have bf because the rule of their religion does not allow them to do that. Try to know more about islam from her and read more about this religion because I think she would be happier if she know that you would be muslim because you like her religion. talk with her more about islam and in somehow try to know from her by how your relation would be if you are muslim.
2007-03-20 15:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a little bit of space. She seems to have a lot on her plate right now.
2007-03-20 15:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look my friend she was probably just really tired and didn't want to talk to anyone even you, Don't mix friendship with relationship. learn how to be just friends or Ill mess it up trust me. trier other girls for you and from your religion to.don't become somebody that your not for someone
2007-03-20 15:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by claudiasulecio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay it all on the line and tell her how you feel. Then make your decision form there.
2007-03-20 15:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by CHIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thik it might ruin your friendship. and i dont know but do some muslim backround b/c it might not be worth it and you might have to go through alot of ritual stuff.
2007-03-20 15:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by coocoo4cocopuffs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋