My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We talked about marriage, we are buying a house together, and we're having a baby. I looked on his history a couple of weeks ago and he was taking out a lot of personals. Every email he gets is from someone contacting him about it. He works construction and is gone during the week. He wrote on most of his personals that he was just looking for one on one sex. He's been searching for girls in the city he works in. And they are going to be moving to a different city and now he is looking up girls there too. He even pays for personal adds. The last one I read was to a girl in the city he is currently working and it said, "Wuts up, I'll be back for work on Monday." What should I do?
2007-03-20 08:25:00 · 22 answers · asked by Shy Violet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is cheating to trying to. Time to move on with someone else.
2007-03-20 08:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what to do but maybe you're scared that you can't make it financially without him.If thats the case you'll need to make some arrangements to get help with your expenses.Unfortunately he sounds like a big fat lying ho. If you confront him about it he'll probably deny it as many men are prone to do.Don't take his cheating personally either.It's not about you it's all about him.Do you really want to spend a huge part of your life worrying and wondering who he's sleeping with? You should also go to a clinic and get tested for a sexually transmitted disease.I'm sure you don't want to get seriously sick from something that he might have brought home because of his cheating.It'd be awful if you and the baby got sick because of this loser. My advice? Can you move back home with your folks or in with a friend?You're in for a long haul if you think you can make something like this work out.he's required by law to give you financial support for the baby once it comes.Make sure that you contact a lawyer or get help with free legal advice to inform you of your rights. Good luck.
2007-03-20 08:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has every intention of cheating if he hasn't already. Have you confronted him with this information?Scratch that, yknow what? You shouldn't even bother discussing it with him, you should just dump him! You two are having a baby together and he's out looking for other women to have sex with. He could be bringing home diseases that you are unaware of, he's putting your life and your unborn baby's life at risk. Get out of this relationship, this is obviously not the kind of person you want to start a future with.
2007-03-20 09:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you a question. Are you joking? You can not seriously be wondering if he is cheating! What other reason would a person have to look at personals? Why would he say that he is "just looking for one on one sex"? YES, HE IS CHEATING!!!
2007-03-20 08:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by SNT76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that,I would say: LEAVE THAT BASTARD ALONE,but the picture changes when you're already having his baby.
I think that you should sit down and talk to him about it,and I think some counseling is very much needed.
He can't be chasing other women and hook up to do the do while you're having his baby.
He seems to be very immature and scared of growing up.
He needs to be responsible and support YOU now,
he seems to be all talk and no action.
Demand your respect for you and your unborn child,you deserve it.
It will be ok!
2007-03-20 08:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet. Put an personal ad in the paper he would read that is for you. Really embellish it so that he can't resist responding. SWF looking for buff man in construction. Must be good with his hands and wants a man as she has been looking for love in all the wrong places........
2007-03-20 08:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-20 08:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Miley Cyrus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's cheating or TRYING to find whores to sleep around with. He's dumb! Y'all have a baby on the way. See? I'm about to lose my damn temper! That's EXACTLY why I resent men! I'm about to cry for you. I feel your pain. I just found out my boyfriend is cheating. My heart was BROKEN. & when I tried to leave him, he threatened to have me see an evil side of him that I've neve seen. I consider myself single whether that mama's boy likes it or not! 'Da HELL with those coward @$$ punks!
2007-03-20 08:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad to say, he is a cheater! You have to confront him and do not listen to the lies. He needs to know that you WILL NOT live this way. He is not only cheating on you but on your child too.
2007-03-20 08:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by julie j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is cheating, I would advise that you do some deep soul searching. I would most definitely not sleep with him any longer and I would talk to him about his cheating and what you intend to do about it.
2007-03-20 08:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋