when it comes to guys, i seem to be cursed. the longest relationship i have had was 4 weeks. most of the guys i date only last 1 week. i dont know what wrong w/ me. it's like, i like them, but when we become b/f g/f, i decide i dont wantta go out w/ him anymore. i really hate this about me, and im tryin to change it. also, the guys i like SO dont like me. and the ones i DONT LIKE like me. so,im cursed. well there is this guy, cody who i REALLY like right now. but he said about a month ago (right after him and his g/f broke up may i state) that he only likes me as a friend. but i always catch him looking at me.why does he do that? also, i try to have talk w/ him, but we cant find much to talk about cuz i feel awkward around him cuz i KNOW he feels awkward around me. a different cody told me the cody i like was talkin about me w/ some chick over the weekend. when i asked cody, he said he couldnt remember what it was about? what should i do, and how do i really find out if he likes me?
2007-03-20 08:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
T this is so not drama where you should be stressing yourself out. 1st of all, you shouldn't claim to be cursed thats a big no no. You can't help the guys that you like which probably are the bad boy type and the ones that like you are probably the good guys. Now, I have been wrong so if I am I do apologize. Anyway, you say your relationships don't last after about a month. Well, maybe you should date the guy that likes you for a change maybe it will last longer. Opposites attract you know. I don't know you T. and I don't know about your father but sometimes when a female isn't comfortable with guys she date its usually because she is looking for a father figure in the guy now don't get that twisted all i'm saying is that when a father isn't present in the household or if he is and isn't paying much attention to the daughter then she tends to look for qualities that her father has in the guys that she date sometimes not always. It could be that you are scared of rejection and before you begin to fall for the guy you dump him so that you want get hurt. It could be that you don't trust men and that you have been hurt so much that you want to hurt them before they hurt you. If you are young please work this out because when you get older you are going to go thru men like water and you are never gonna be happy. God Bless
2007-03-20 08:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend Cody to go out as a FRIEND. Go to a movie, to starbucks, to a cool book store or bowling, make is as generic as you can so that he is spending time with your without realizing he is actually on a date with you and then he will be like, hey I enjoy being around this chick! Make him want to be around you as a friend first then proceed into a relationship slowly to get the guy you want.
2007-03-20 08:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by bex920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a while. have some patience. the saying, good things come to those who wait, really is true. besides, the guy should be the one to make the first move in the relationship. but make sure he has an idea that you like him i made the mistake of waiting for a guy and he took it as me ignoring him. do a little flirting with him to see if he opens up with how he really feels. if nothing happens then either you just need to wait a little longer, or you need to give up on the guy.
2007-03-20 08:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him......
all of this he said she said is just gossip probably relayed wrong...go to the source HIM and ask him straight on.
If you are into him ask him if he'd like to go for a bite to eat on night or to a school function...sports event or dance...
2007-03-20 08:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u afraid of better to settle down
2007-03-20 08:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by kidi_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab his crotch and tell him to give it up...
he'll be putty in your hands after that!
changing your hair color might be an improvement too.
2007-03-20 08:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Chris P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you become an adult, you'll not worry as much about this as you do now
2007-03-20 08:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
booty call
2007-03-20 08:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋