he seemed to like me back cuz he was always flirting with me but then when itold him i liked him he did nothing and acts like nomthing happened between us... i don't wan tto bring it up again though ..how do i get him to like me?
2007-03-20 08:27:59 · 11 answers · asked by lawyergurl92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to go up to him and say straight up i have feelings for you do have them for me if he doesn't then stop waisting your time and move on to someone else.
2007-03-20 08:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by jack 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply put...guys are from Mars. Don't smother him with attention and I would bet any amount of money that he will miraculously undergo an attitude adjustment. Even if he doesn't express a desire to pursue anything further he will more than likely want to test the situation to see if he is "losing his touch." Don't try too hard! Just be yourself and if he can't see the qualities that make you unique someone else will.
2007-03-20 15:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Undisputed Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think you need to bring it up again. Have coffee with him. Invite him.
While you are there, just say something like "Hey, this feels really akward for me, but I wanted to talk to you about our conversation when I said that I like you. You didn't take a chance to respond, so I wanted to ask how you felt/thought about it."
You need to recognize your insecurity about it. Also it helps to disarm him when you do it, by saying something like, "Look, I understand that this might be awkward for you too. If you don't like me back, or maybe just are not ready for anything like this, it's totally cool. I just wanted to hear how you were feeling/ or what you were thinking."
You can also let hime know that you feel like you put yourself out there, and really would like some response.
Then no matter what he says, it's okay. Your identity should not come from whether or not people like you. You identity and self worth have nothing to do with his response.
His behavior might be b/c he has no idea how to act or respond. Many of us guys are not masters of the obvious, so we need to be told "respond to what I've just said".
Good luck
2007-03-20 15:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the exact same problem just a few days ago. i really liked this guy, but i told him i liked him and he acted like i never said anything. this means he doesn't like you 'like that'. and no matter HOW MUCH we like them, there is no cupids arrow we can jab em in the *** w/. the only thing i can say is, let him go. act like you never said anything. avoid him for a couple of days, and when you see him again, say something like "hey, how have you been these past few days?" keep the conversations short and friendly. the key "FRIENDLY". treat him like all your other guy friends. and once you get a feed back from your question, say, "well i gotta go. see you around." give him a 'friendly' smile, and walk away. just treat him like a friend, no matter HOW HARD it is! and trust me, it's HARD!!! oh, major important! whatever you do, DONT KEEP STARING AT HIM!!!! it gives him a sign that says, yep, she likes me. and it'll scare him off. but dont worry, things will get back to normal soon. and there are plenty of fish in the sea. you'll catch one soon enough! good luck to you and i hope i helped!
2007-03-20 15:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really make a guy like you. All you have to do is make him interested. Maybe the reason he acted that way is because he likes you but is shy about it or he likes someone else. You have to find out if he likes you then you can take him.
2007-03-20 15:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl ....
just b ur self. if he doesnt like u he just wont get to n joy u like that maybe flirt a little back oooooooooo , also try the eye contact test , look him in the eyes then look away if hes still looking go for it . 1 of my teachers said to like maybe get a group of friends and invite him too so then u wont take it as personally
2007-03-20 15:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by jayelle jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took your best shot, and it didn;t work, I think you need to move on, he is not the only guy why waste your time on some one who obviously doesn't care
2007-03-20 15:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go straight up to him and tell him once more and ask if he feels the same way...if he doesnt...then move on...im sure you'll find someone else...but seriously just go up to him and be like "listen here buddy i like you and i want to know if you feel the same way...if you dont then stop wasteing my time!!" lol jk but you can say that if you want
2007-03-20 15:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by rootbeerrox2121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing get over it and move on
2007-03-20 15:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can`t make him......are u sure it was flirting ? do ur girls agree with you ? if so ........well....you could do certain things to well um IMPRESS him but ........well actually that might work!
2007-03-20 15:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by I hate pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋