2007-03-20 08:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to get it in your head that the girl you're talking to is no big deal. You get nervous because you like her & care what she thinks about you. Just try treating her like any other girl.
2007-03-20 08:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you try to talk to the girl always make eye contact. That's one of the reasons you are choking. Also think about what you are going to say before you say it when you are meeting new girls. Once you guys get in a conversation you won't have to think about what you are going to say. Soon you will be really conferable around girls.
2007-03-20 15:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by love to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is be yourself. most women are intrigued by a man who doesnt feel like they have to put on a front. if a woman is going to like you they will like you for who0 you are.
i had this same problem in my younger teenage days. ittook me untill i was 25 years old before i over came it.
strike up a normal converstaion. talk about what your intersted in. avoid talking about yourself to much. find out what she is intersted in.
also when talking to her about anything that she appears to not know much about ... try making a joke to make her laugh.
show a bit of confidence.
try it it wil work.
2007-03-20 15:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by K2K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to learn to be sure of yourself. Find girls that are like minded, and you'll have something to talk about. That'll make it a lot easier. Also, if you go into it to make a friend and not necessarily a "date", you'll take the pressure off yourself.
2007-03-20 15:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Moon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just relax and use peppermints and be sure to swallow.....she wont bite....its ok
2007-03-20 15:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋