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i am a little worried, what do you think he meant by this? too much sex therefore not interested anymore...?

2007-03-20 07:54:34 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

p.s. I did talk to my hb about it to make sure that he was just joking and yes, of course, he was just joking or being a bit sarcastic. It's my fault actually, I was sexually torturing him for the past few month: I think every day is too much especially for a forty-something year old. I wish I hadn't asked my question so BLUNTLY and included more detail...he reeeeeaaaaally loves me and we have a good marriage.

2007-03-20 10:02:15 · update #1

47 answers

i think its high time for a reality check ;> good luck

2007-03-26 07:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Firstly- to be husband and wife you don't have sex instead gear to make love which is not done by demanding on either party. If you oblige anybody to do anything for you the interest or the enthusiasm is lost but he will do it as a matter of obligation. There is nothing wrong if you feel that you should have more "physical " contact with your husband but leave a room for the eagerness to do it by start the seducing and let him do the chasing on the condition you will be ready.

2007-03-28 04:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by bodaritz 1 · 0 0

Well..........if you had cooked him dinner and afterwards he said you took his appetite away, I would assume he meant he's no longer hungry! Job well done! If he's referring to sex and it's been a few weeks since the last time you two "did it" then I would worry! In which case you might want to give him sex in smaller doses! Doesn't sound like he can handle you as it is right now!

2007-03-20 07:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Yesss! it will make u worry n a lot of y! U will get surprise about it y suddenly s there anyone giving better than u just observe him , what his doing behind ur back , ages 40 are more active of sex .everyday is normal or every other day, no big deal but not in for you nope i don't agree ,and i will clea it up. so go ahead n clear it up .

2007-03-28 02:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by amwid-u:) 2 · 0 0

You obviously have a High Sex drive and there is nothing wrong with that at all. I think he probably meant he cannot keep up with your needs and needs a break in between. Use your Vibrator in between times if you have a need, and maybe twice a week with your husband will be enough to satisfy you both.

2007-03-28 04:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0 0

Rejecting sex with your mate would definetly give him a turn off in some cases. One trip to the love shop would cure this, take a night out to the hotel room.

2007-03-20 11:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0 0

I would say the problem is too easily gotten.

Men have this "hunter" mentality. It's the trill of the hunt that excites us.

Him getting it without making any effort is too easy and can make it too routine/boring. (try imagining the lions at the zoo as compared to one in the wild.)

I would suggest try seducing him and then fight him off. ;p

Make him work! Then he won't think it's a chore.. :)

Good luck!

2007-03-27 16:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by Unassuming J 1 · 0 0

Hey I read your other question about your husband & "angie" and well is he a fan of Angelina Jolie? if not, it's either he's working with someone named Angie that he usually calls her name which makes it just slightly a coincidence. But if not, then you should be worried. & Sorry I don't have an answer to this question that really makes sense. So yeah.. ;)

2007-03-20 11:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Believe you asked the question because you were worried. I'm glad you now believe you have no need to. Does your husband often say mean things like that to you and afterwards says he's only playing?

2007-03-24 14:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Before I read the additional..I would say congratualtions on satisfying your husband appetite....that can be hard for some....obviously there is nothing to worry about..other an hoping he recovers quickly and begins to crave again

2007-03-24 16:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dennis J 2 · 0 0

Doesn't sound complimentary to me but your best bet is to ask him. Communication is very important in any relationship so find out what he meant, and if there's anything that can be done to make a positive change in it.

2007-03-20 08:00:36 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 1 0

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