here it is i have felt unwanted and not loved. so my freshman yr of high school i was sleepin with a few people the same people like 4 or 5 but then i met this guy and we started dating for almost a yr. and i stop doin everything that i did. i was only sleepin with him and loved him to death and would do anythin for him. but we broke up now and im scared that im goin to go back to the way i was. me and my ex- still talk. it all happen so fast he just told me that he couldnt be in a realtionship right now so i dont no what is goin to happen. i just hate being by myself so what should i do??
2007-03-20 07:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by lil2late_2008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have no self respect. You need to get involved in something positive, music, sports ,writing, art anything to boost your self esteem. You don't want to be remembered as the easy girl in high school. You want to be remembered by your name and your accomplishments and what a good person you are.
2007-03-20 08:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know being alone sucks but it's not all that bad. Someone out there wants to be with you, but it might take some time to find the one. I broke up with my ex and was single for three years before I found the love of my life. Since it happen so fast It's going to be harder to deal with but don't worry and don't stop looking for the right one. Keep your head up and smile. Guys love it when you smile. Best of luck.
2007-03-20 15:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find lots of males to be friends with and do some causal dating and have some fun but leave the physical aspect out of it until I found someone who wanted me to love them and they wanted to love me.
Don't fall back into that "finding love" in all the wrong places phase!
2007-03-20 15:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it is about respecting yourself.. you need to find a new way to get confidence besides finding it in a sexual relationship. (I have been there). What I did to help me was I got involved in activites and hung out with friends alot, ones that help build me up and showed me that I don't need a man.. It really is about having that respect for yourself that you are not going to let people use your body in that way.. that that person has to be special for you to go that in dept in a relationship with them. (Every person you sleep with takes a piece of you when it is over) How much are you going to have left to give to that special someone when you meet them?
2007-03-20 15:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by littlemama882003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to a professional about your feelings, you need to work on that in order to stop feeling that way.
2007-03-20 15:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would just worry about school, and hang out with your friends
2007-03-20 14:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only go back to that lifestyle if you choose to
so don't choose to go back to it
go out and make some friends...find things to do that build you up not tear you down
2007-03-20 15:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would rather be by myself than be a whore
2007-03-20 14:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋