Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

Why I am asking is because my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The 1st 3 months were CRAZY. It was sooooo much fun and absolutely nothing was wrong. I was the one who was initiating everything and hoping to make plans for a long future...

3 months ago I woke up with this thought that I had fallen out of love with him. I was scared to death. Didnt eat or sleep for at least a week...was just a mess! I had to take 2 weeks off work because of the anxiety...It felt like it was the end of the world....

I dont feel like I love him as much as I have loved some of my ex's (abusive relationships...mostly emotionally) Now I just have fun with my current beau but for some reason am having doubts. I feel as though I have 2 ppl arguing about it. One telling me I love him the other telling me I dont....

Is it normal to feel this way? Am I just not in love with him yet? I don't think that it was just infatuation and then fizzled down and realized who we both really were together. There is no reason that it could have fizzled down cause he is everything I want...
This is my 1st non dramatic relationship and my friends say I seem so myself! I dont want to have to break up with him and I dont want to have anything to do with "bad guys" anymore

Does this mean that we are not compatible and he is not the man for me?

Thanks

2007-03-14 03:43:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Summary - Married for 11years, 3 kids, last one is 2yrs. Anonymous caller says hubby at hotel with co-woker, called 8 times not answer on cell phone; 2 hrs after calling and 4 hrs after he went missing from work he calls to say he was liming with another co-worker. Anonymous caller gives details of my life, my kids and specific situations of 3 years ago. Relationship going on for about a year. now he knows i know, he says its somebody else, and is investigating to find out who squealed on him. his phone records show calls at all hours, text messages. she dosen't feel guilty cause he lied about our home life and portrayed me as the worst wife. he dosen't want to tell me about his so-called investigation; blames me for the entire scenario and is now trying to kiss up and be the attentive spouse. his business profitability rests entirely with me. i have no more strength for this.

2007-03-14 03:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by Brown'n 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 03:43:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Boyfriend of 6 weeks said he wanted to talk to me last night. So we talked and he basically just told me that he's never felt this emotionally attached to someone after such short time. I was like, ok....but I didn't ask for him to explain more. What does this mean?

2007-03-14 03:41:33 · 14 answers · asked by Katy S 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy a few weeks now, things are going pretty good, however he has a bad past, and the more I get to know him the worse I am realizing it was....first and foremost he has been out of jail for 10 months now, (not for anything too bad lol) but he said previous to being in jail he cheated on his girlfriend of 6 years and did lots of drugs. Now that he is out of jail he has a suspended license, so I'm the one driving us around when we go out.

Is the saying true "once a cheater always a cheater?" or should I believe that he is a changed person??

2007-03-14 03:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel sad about being with my boyfriend. we have been together for three years, and i love him to pieces, i never felt about anyone this way.

We had a really rocky year, but we made it through. Neither of us ever wanted to call it a day. Still we hurt each other. it broke my heart, and now there is nothing actually between us, but something isn't right.

I go away and instead of saying he misses me, he'll say 'why haven't you called me, why dont you want to know how i am' Sometimes everything is so nice, and then something comes up from nowhere.

We want to get married, have children eventually. but i cant help thinking, 'why am i sad if we are still together'

2007-03-14 03:41:18 · 9 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Singles & Dating

My mate threatened me with surprise sex the other night. I had no idea what he was talking about. Does anyone else?

2007-03-14 03:41:09 · 9 answers · asked by nick b 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked the other day for help and people help me but now she is completely avoiding me and im so depressed iv never been like this after a break up im sick i have not eaten in 3 days now im hungry but when i look at food i get disgusted, i love her very much and i really want her back wut else can i do

2007-03-14 03:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) A little chubby
e) Fat

2007-03-14 03:40:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok when i walk up to a 13 yr old girl (at church) tonight what do i say. i like her. im 13 also. see i figure i just want to be friends cuz my parents don't let me date anyways. so how do i make it seem that i don't want a girlfriend but i want a friend who i can hang with, joke with, you know a best friend kind of friend.

so my question is "what should i say to her to get her to be my friend?" i know her name is sarah (i asked her last week) she is like an inch or so shorter than me.

2007-03-14 03:40:04 · 2 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 03:38:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, im 23, we have been on and off for the past 7 years for various reasons.
Hes seen other girls and iv had other serious relationships with other guys.
Its always come back to being together, wheni meet other amazing guys that offer me the world i think about him and end up contactin him and movin back.

I love him, but right now cant think why? we broke up 2 weeks ago he was so nasty, i left him cause he did wat he wanted,didnt take me out,ignored me when he got drunk up town,he was very nasty to me and my friends when i dumped him, even thru a drink over me in a club. no one wants me back with him.
But again i have been in touch with him, even tho i said to myself i wasnt gonna again and its never gonna work.
Whats wrong with me?? Hes never changed since i was 15 but i still go back.
I think hes gorgeous but thats all, he trys but then gives up.
What can i do? Do i meet him and talk about it to be let down again?
Cant help it tho. Always end up going back x

2007-03-14 03:37:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 03:37:02 · 15 answers · asked by ?!?!? 2 in Singles & Dating

I just paid 14K for my daughters wedding, we drove my daughter & son-in-law to the hotel & then to the airport to fly to Mexico for a week (we paid BTW). At the end of the reception my son-in-law sat us down to assure us they won't make the mistakes that we have made (WTH) but he said he didn't want to offend me. I listen and said "1st I'm not offended) 2nd I've been thinking about your job, I think you should sell twice as much and work 1/2 the time you do, I would change this and that etc, then he said WAIT...you can't do that, no offence he said but you don't know what your talking about, I said I know I've never done your job but I think I could do one hellva better job than you...see I won't make all those mistakes you have...but please don't be offended. He said, you just don't have the experience I have, your ideas would never work. I said yes they will, see at your age (25) I put myself through college , owned a home had 2 children and made better money than you do..I'm smarter

2007-03-14 03:37:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My daughter is 15. We had kids young and I only 33, so I am about 8-15 years younger her friend's fathers.
I picked her up at a friend's house from a party. She started hugging everyone goodbye (corny). Then she hugs me. The INSTANT I let go of her one of her friends (I think 15 herself) snuck in and hugged me and hung on for about 10 seconds. In front of everybody (although no adults in the room). My arms stayed put! I didn't do anything bad.
I did tell my wife; if I didn't my daughter would tell her anyways. She laughed and said this will become more frequent. My daughter's friends think I am hot (according to her). They always want me to pick them up (with my daughter) from the movies or the mall, and hang around our house.
Another of her friends was REAL flirtatious with me at our house and I was VERY uncomfortable.
I am afaid someone is eventually going to say or think something bad. I now avoid them but I can't always. What is the best way to handle them?

2007-03-14 03:36:27 · 33 answers · asked by Disco Stu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for almost 21 years but only married for 8 years. We have 2 kids, a 20 year old and a 17 year old. My husband refuses to admit he is an alcoholic and has chosen a beer can over me. I don't love him and can't even stand to look at him and there definitely is not any sex in this situation. This has been going on for a very long time and I am very unhappy. Please help.

2007-03-14 03:36:23 · 26 answers · asked by My_ina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it?

2007-03-14 03:35:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 03:34:25 · 29 answers · asked by stacey p 2 in Singles & Dating

I love them, even when im sad they make me feel a lot better, especially when im laying down in bed...many people say rain can make u sad or sadder, this is not true for me how about you?

2007-03-14 03:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by rayray34 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 03:33:29 · 14 answers · asked by hariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like something is missing, and I'm not sure why. With my boyfriend i feel sad now, i'm totally in love with him and have been with him for three years.

We went through some rough times and made it through, and now everything should be good. but the times when we nearly broke up broke my heart, and i'm not sure that it mended fully. i feel distant from him almost, i'd like it to almost be like the start of the relationship, because we are starting over, so i'd like there to be more romance, or just more fun. i just feel sad and i'm not sure why, or how to explain to him. he used to fight for us alot more, now he doesn't fight at all.

If i put it this way, if i was to go away, he would miss me but instead of it coming out that way, he says things like 'why dont you call so much, dont you want to know how i am'. i'd like tenderness, love.

he still wants us to be together, get married eventually, have children. but i dont know what's really wrong

2007-03-14 03:32:41 · 3 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Singles & Dating

i am breaking up with someone and ineed a poem that will let him know that he cant get me back any more.

2007-03-14 03:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by T_baby_09 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl that have been friends forever are starting to get much closer, but even though she wants to make this happen she says she can't cause of a cousin of mine she was married too. They had a horrible relationship and broke it off. Now she backs off when i try to make certain "dating-like" moves and i notice her try also. I tell her i notice these things and she says i remind her of him. I need some female advice, help me make her understand that im not him and that she is being unfair.

2007-03-14 03:32:01 · 12 answers · asked by me_myself125 3 in Singles & Dating

I was friends with him for 12 years. His name was Cameron and i loved him more than life itself. We never dated and we had no intentions of it. But when he died i didnt want to do anythign and i cried for hours on end each day. I didnt go to school for like 5 days after the accdient.He died 3 days before my birthday and i was in shock. So i want to get a memorial tattoo for him. I know the design i jsut dont know where to put it! A little help please?

2007-03-14 03:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by rkobabygurl 1 in Friends

2007-03-14 03:30:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a wedding planner who has been helping me a great deal. Although I am not paying her (she was assigned to me by the hotel in which I will be married) she has been working very dilligently to help plan my day.

My question is: since I am not paying her, should I get her a small gift ($75-100)?

I'm thinking a nice vase from Tiffany or something?

Here's what I have in mind:

http://www.tiffany.com/Shopping/item.aspx?sku=13229058&search_params=t+-s+2-p+1-l+-h+-c+-r+204-x

or

http://www.tiffany.com/Shopping/item.aspx?sku=16780502&search_params=t+-s+2-p+1-l+-h+-c+-r+204-x

2007-03-14 03:30:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He and I have been dateing for 4/5 yrs. Sometime he's there for me more often he's not.I think he is dateing an x friend of mine.Cause she has a good job and she just bought a house. I feel this way cause awhile back I need some money for fuel for the tummy. He said OK when he get's off he was kinda pissed but any way two seconds later she shows up with money.Well I never ask her or even mention things were tight and I just wonder how she knew and why did she just happen to show up at that moment.Then once I went over to her apt and she ran down the step to cut me off with accuse that she had to get her run on weird.He getts all strange when ever I talk about her in a negtive way whice he never does about me.So am at a lost cause I don't know what to do at this point I really love him,and we got history.

2007-03-14 03:30:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

stating that she is a pretty girl and ask if he wants her to send him some pictures and he said that it was through spam should i believe him

2007-03-14 03:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by candid y 1 in Singles & Dating

I can never tell until it's too late, because they can really act well? They say/do the right things, act nice etc, and wham you fall in love, then they cheat/neglect/abuse you?

2007-03-14 03:29:43 · 1 answers · asked by Alone 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been 2gether for a yr (next month) but guys call his phone n he says they are old friends n they never call back. Am sure he tells them he has a girlfriend n stop calling. Maybe its something he tried before but he swears he hasnt ever been w/ a male. I called back one of the guys pretending i was his sister n i was curios to whether my brother was gay n he replied..." i havnt met him yet...His always busy...but from what we talked about his confused." He also said he also lied about his apperance completely... So am beginning to think he was confused but now his not. But what if he decides to come out when were already married w/ kids ??

2007-03-14 03:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by nenaargentina0411 1 in Singles & Dating