I feel like something is missing, and I'm not sure why. With my boyfriend i feel sad now, i'm totally in love with him and have been with him for three years.
We went through some rough times and made it through, and now everything should be good. but the times when we nearly broke up broke my heart, and i'm not sure that it mended fully. i feel distant from him almost, i'd like it to almost be like the start of the relationship, because we are starting over, so i'd like there to be more romance, or just more fun. i just feel sad and i'm not sure why, or how to explain to him. he used to fight for us alot more, now he doesn't fight at all.
If i put it this way, if i was to go away, he would miss me but instead of it coming out that way, he says things like 'why dont you call so much, dont you want to know how i am'. i'd like tenderness, love.
he still wants us to be together, get married eventually, have children. but i dont know what's really wrong
2007-03-14 03:32:41 · 3 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do care passionately about him, that's the thing. i wanna show him all the time.
2007-03-14 03:43:56 · update #1
Sometimes we fight real hard for something then when we get it we find out it has lost it's value. You say you love him but everything you say after says that you love being a relationship but that your partner is not what you're looking for.
Why marry someone with whom the magic is already gone? Would you really want to bring a child into a relationship that has no joy. Be fair to your unborn offspring break this sham of a relationship off and move on.
If you think leaving will be too painful. Imagine how lonesome it will be to wake up in bed with each other for the rest of your life knowing you don't really care any more.
It's time to get honest, real honest.... with yourself.
2007-03-14 03:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to comunicate exactly whats wrong, you need to figure it out in your head first, Communication is the Key to making a stronger relationship. If you do talk with him, if you live with him, just set him down when you know he has some free time on his hands. Tell him EXACTLY what you want, don't be scared, men love this. Be completely honest with him and make shure you let him have some insight on the situation, it will definatly save your relationship if you simply talk. :)
2007-03-14 10:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want more romance and fun and she what he says.
2007-03-14 10:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋