Should I stay or should I go without and explantion from him.?

Question

He and I have been dateing for 4/5 yrs. Sometime he's there for me more often he's not.I think he is dateing an x friend of mine.Cause she has a good job and she just bought a house. I feel this way cause awhile back I need some money for fuel for the tummy. He said OK when he get's off he was kinda pissed but any way two seconds later she shows up with money.Well I never ask her or even mention things were tight and I just wonder how she knew and why did she just happen to show up at that moment.Then once I went over to her apt and she ran down the step to cut me off with accuse that she had to get her run on weird.He getts all strange when ever I talk about her in a negtive way whice he never does about me.So am at a lost cause I don't know what to do at this point I really love him,and we got history.

Answer 1

Yea and if the history has always been like that you're paying a price for not loving yourself. Plain and simple. Keep up the relationship and you'll suffer not by what he does but by what he doesn't do for you. You deserve more compainship and comfort then this fool is throwing your way. When you get to a certian age be there sometimes isn't going to work. We need a constant relationship to feel good about ourselves not a fair weather compainion.