whut else can i do about my ex?

Question

i asked the other day for help and people help me but now she is completely avoiding me and im so depressed iv never been like this after a break up im sick i have not eaten in 3 days now im hungry but when i look at food i get disgusted, i love her very much and i really want her back wut else can i do

Answer 1

i am sorry about your break-up but hun you now have to try and sort yourself out. i am not suggesting for a minute that you 'get over it' as that is easier said than done. BUT you do have to get a hold of the situation.
She is avoiding you maybe because she can see that you are hurting and that it may be too much for her to see. She has cut her losses and has moved on.
try and get out with a friend so that you are not at home alone moping. You must eat otherwise you will become unwell. At the moment i am sure you are not feeling like eating but you must. Even if it is something light.
Unfortunately you may not be able to get your ex-girlfriend back as she plainly does not want to get back with you.
You would be better off keeping away from her and not showing her that you are a wreck without her.
start living again otherwise you will become depressed.
Phone a Friend now and arrange to go out. i guarantee you will start to feel a little better in a few days by keeping busy and not moping.

Answer 2

text her asking to meet up some where take her some thing she would like as a gift then sit and let her explain why she is being the way she is with you when she has told you do the same and tell her how you feel about her and the way you have felt since the break up ask her to think about giving the relationship another go but give her time if you have not heard after 3 days calll her and ask if she has made a decision if not then i don't think she is worth al this grief so find your self someone that will be and start eating again i starved my self over a man before and ended up very ill dont cause this to yourself

Answer 3

I'm going through the exact same thing. I miss him a lot. And it is taking me time to get over him. I have done it all, thought about funerals, forcing myself to eat, and feeling sick afterwards. You name it, i've done it. But looking at your question is helping me to realize that I am not the only one has similar problems like this. Yes, time is a good healer, but it is also matter of the heart. Go ahead and mourn over the loss a little bit. And try and talk to her. If she doesn't want to talk maybe she feels uncomfortable, or maybe she doesn't want anything to do with you. This is really painful. But there is always more people. Don't rush into another relationship, because your going to spend your days comparing them and wishing that you were with them instead. But one day, when you know you can handle it, step outside and breathe the fresh air. Because there is always a tomorrow. Always a new day. And love can show up at the most wierdest times.

Take my word if it's meant to be, she'll come back. If not, stop hurting yourself over somebody. It's not going to make anything better.

Answer 4

In the exact same situation the only thing that helped me was vast amounts of booze and drugs for a month solid, then a solid month of detox and healthy living. By the end of the two months you don't really know who you are, where you are, why you're there, how you got there or what the hell happened to make you go on that month long drug binge, all you know is you feel better than you have done in weeks, and feel like you're at the start of a new life, your old one already seeming like it was years ago.

Answer 5

If it's anything like my case, you'll move on ok, but she'll eat away at your heart for years to come.

As for advice, try to swallow the pain. Eat something (force it)!! Whatever you do, though, DO NOT let her just walk away. If she will not stay with you, you have to love her enough to give her that choice.
Swallow your pride, and try to keep her as a friend. That way, she doesn't have to stay with you, and you don't have to bear the pain of never seeing her again.

Answer 6

if you have a myspace account, Click on this

http://www.myspace.com/sweetbabyoctane

go to the blog entitled "relationships: an observation"

It helped me out A LOT

Answer 7

homie i feel you i felt the same way when my x left me for a b.s reason first ask her why then leave her alone cause the more time you spend with her and she not with you you gonna realise she a a**hole and you gonna wanna beat her a** but still want her so..... just leave her alone

Answer 8

dude, dont give a stekkie(woman) style, as we say in South Africa....show her that you are over her, you are not a Dog, lanie(friend) come to South Africa I'll hook you up with pleanty lekker(good) stekkies(woman) who are game for the things(who are up for a good time)
See now you learnt how to talk SA style as well!!
Just move on my bru!

Answer 9

write down all those resenments that you have with her,and wish her all the best in the world and that she may have what is best for her.
IF YOU LOVE HER LIKE YOUN CLAIM YOU DO THEN LET GO WITH LOVE,and eat sleep and be gratefull

Answer 10

will you go out with me plzzzzzzzz i am 19