Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

can a guy smooch a girl through the phone. i was really shocked when my bf did it 2 me. do u think that he is a good bf?

2007-03-14 04:20:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A year ago she, who used to be a good girl, got jealous of her lil bro, disrespectful and did bad stuff like drinking and joining bad crowds. She apologized and showed regret but was grounded for a month and didn't rebel. When the grounding ended she told us she was very sad cause she felt we didn't trust her. We, especially me, were still upset and were extremely harsh, probaly a mistake. I ended up telling the girl maybe I would never trust her again, I was really harsh though she was in despair. She got depressed, her grades dropped, lost weight, quit sports. My mom tried to help, told me without accusing we 'd been cruel and suggested the girl spend some time with her. She accepted and mom gave her what she neded most, trust, and she's been with her for a year. She like started living again, resumed swimming, great greats, a brand new and wonderful girl. Incredible how she got mature in 1 year. But she doesnt want to come back home, now it's her who doesnt trust us, shes scared

2007-03-14 04:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by Lynda 1 in Family

Well he was at my drama rehearsal last night. I was in the lobby of the church we are performing the play at with my friend Fiona, quizzing her on some test she had the next day. My boyfriend was standing really close by with two other guys, Dewaine and Corey. Then there's this guy in my drama class, Glenn, who is an extrovert and all the girls like him, and he was wearing this shirt for the play that had big baggy sleeves. Well he came out into the lobby with his arms out, making a big entrance. So I laughed, obviously, because it was funny. And then I was like "glenn, you're so funny, you're like 'whoosh'!" and he laughed and was like "yeah, I'm pretty smooth". Then I remembered my boyfriend standing there, and I looked at him and he was looking at me with a blank expression. Uh, whoops? Did I make him jealous?

2007-03-14 04:20:14 · 24 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 04:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by Mark N 2 in Singles & Dating

i told my mom i didnt do it (and i didnt)and my brother always yell at me! hes my older brother by the way.And the Zoidiac, am a tiger, hes a monkey!but, am so sick of it how can he stop??

2007-03-14 04:20:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anguluu 2 in Family

My husband and I have been married for 9 years and have two small children. We have been having problems due to his inability to talk to me or pay me any attention whatsoever. When I talk to him it is as if I am talking to the wall. He seems angry all the time and refused to go to therapy and says that he is completely happy with me. I have told him so many times I am not happy and finally I gave up and went onto the computer and met someone and have been talking to them for 8 months. I have never seen him he is more of a friend than anything. My husband found out and accused me of cheating. Even though it was just talking I know it was wrong. I just felt so lonely and alone with my husband and felt extremely trapped in a bad marriage that would never get better because he refused to work at it. I have now filed for divorce and now is is trying to change but I have lost the love I once had for him. I have never been unfaithful but just wanted someone to hear me. Any advice.

2007-03-14 04:19:48 · 19 answers · asked by L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 04:19:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 04:19:19 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 101 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 04:19:14 · 32 answers · asked by Ã?â?¥Ã?ÄPixie Queen~* 3 in Friends

2007-03-14 04:18:39 · 3 answers · asked by treversweet 1 in Singles & Dating

I subcontiously crave drama and have always been in dramatic relationships in the past. Now I am finally in a healthy one and I dont find it as exciting etc...

I dont feel like I "have to" hold his hand while walking in the mall cause maybe he was with that blonde last night. I know where he was last night cause he was with me....

So I feel as thogh I cannot "fall in love" with him current boyfriend who is so nice to me....What can I do to want this...I dont want to have to worry about cheating and lies when we are married, but I also want to feel that strong bond of love?!?!?

2007-03-14 04:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been engaged for 5 years. Problem is, all I can think about is my ex. We had a short relationship, then broke off and became close friends for a year and a half. We were still very physical at times, though. Eventually, she disappeared into the ether with one of my best friends, and moved on. I had no choice but to do the same. Unfortunately, I'm having trouble doing that, cos I can't get her out of my head. Even after 5 years, I'm still broken up about it. My fiancee knows nothing of this, because I don't want to break her heart. As for my ex, I haven't got a clue where or how she is, and I don't know anyone who would possibly know. Help...

2007-03-14 04:16:43 · 9 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, do you still want your husband to tell u ur fine when u no ur 10lbs over or u want him to work out with you and encourage the weight loss.

2007-03-14 04:16:15 · 15 answers · asked by Brown'n 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say you're a girl I like but you don't want to talk to me anymore. So I decide not to try to respect your wishes out of respect for you and hope that maybe later we can start talking again. (This next part hasn't really happened, yet) Then, I decide to start things back up between us again but you feel offended because you think if I really wanted to keep you as a friend at least in the first place I would have tried harder to get you back. I thought girls didn't like persistant guys...? Wasn't I just doing what "you" asked?

2007-03-14 04:15:47 · 9 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

i have this nice loving bf but he is always at work and wen he come in he just wants to sit and chill out but i want to do some thing nice for him when he get in from work so i can relax him or something nice and he would love

2007-03-14 04:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-14 04:15:46 · 3 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 04:15:33 · 4 answers · asked by arshad tahir 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

where is the oddest place you had sex and what details can you share?

2007-03-14 04:15:27 · 12 answers · asked by Xavier Q 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-14 04:15:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend (of 15 years), is like a sister to me, which is why I asked her to be my matron of honor. She is giving me a hard time about the type of dress I want her to wear, which we haven't even started to try on yet. I prefer either the strapless, spaghetti strap, or halter style. She says that she is not comfortable, and I said that she could wear a shaw with the dress. She said that she wants nothing more than to stand by me in my wedding, but if I choose to not have her in my wedding over a dress, then she is fine with it. She is totally playing on my emotions and making me feel bad for something that I want. It is MY Wedding, and she is trying to control it, and I hate that she is making me feel this way! I want my girls to match...I do not like the style where every girl wears something different....that just isn't my style. How do I handle this and still save our friendship....if it should be saved? She is also giving me problems over hair, makeup, and shoes, too! Please help!

2007-03-14 04:14:44 · 21 answers · asked by Mrs. Connors! 4 in Weddings

Im putting in a pic of the golden girls (maybe dvd) goldschlager, maybe some chocolate gold coins. Any other ideas. Also real gold may be too expensive, so more along the theme than actual gold. This is for a shower/bachelorrette on St. Patricks Day.

2007-03-14 04:14:18 · 3 answers · asked by lillilou 7 in Weddings

I am 20 and a virgin obviously. I am so nervous about the first time. I am very uncomfortable with my body. This is embarassing but I have long labia and I feel like the guy is just gonna be grossed out. This is a big reason why I have not had sex. Also I fear getting pregnant. Also how painful will it be?

2007-03-14 04:14:17 · 7 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife recently implied in a fight that she loves her mom and her family more than shes loves me....and I get the feeling that if she had to choose sides she would go with her mom instead of me. I really am crushed by this because I have worked so hard (she is still a student and I support her with a full time job, she doesnt make a dime) and sacrificed so much for her (broke off long-term 6+year male friendships and moved into a less-than-affordable apartment) and I feel like it amounts to nothing now.......!!!! Extremely frustrating....

Is this normal for a wife to think this way?? I would never ever ever put my parents before my wife, so why should she? I have devoted myself to her compeltely, but then she gives me the idea that she is more devoted to her mom than me? Has anyone else run into this problem?

2007-03-14 04:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by jebul 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright my ex girlfriend and i just broke up about a month ago, after being together for 3 years. Well when we broke up she wanted to remain friends with me but at that time i said i didnt want to be friends, because i was still in love with her, so we ended up having a nasty breakup. Well now im no longer in love with her and its has been a couple of months since we spoke, and i miss her and im wondering is it okay for me to call her let her know that i do want to be her friend instead of losing her completely. But like i said it did become a nasty breakup and i said some mean things so im kinda scared to call her, but she is and always will have a part of my heart and im sure she feels the same about me.

2007-03-14 04:13:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok when i walk up to a 13 yr old girl (at church) tonight what do i say. i like her. im 13 also. see i figure i just want to be friends cuz my parents don't let me date anyways. so how do i make it seem that i don't want a girlfriend but i want a friend who i can hang with, joke with, you know a best friend kind of friend.

so my question is "what should i say to her to get her to be my friend?" i know her name is sarah (i asked her last week) she is like an inch or so shorter than me.

2007-03-14 04:13:05 · 4 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 04:12:33 · 13 answers · asked by assweetasiam 2 in Singles & Dating

So theres this guy @ school that I really like but I'm not sure if he likes me.

Hes pretty quiet and reserved but whenever were together in a group I catch him looking at me but if he see's that I caught him he wont look at me again.

Whenever we pass eachother in the hall he'll always tease me of poke me with a book and look me in the eyes then quickly walk away.

Also one time we were sitting next to each other and we were talking and he reached out and brushed my hair away from my face but then he quickly apologized and said "I'm sorry I dont know what came over me" then looked at the floor and was all embarrased.. All of our friends were staring but didnt say anything..

I need help. I really like him and don't know if I need to make it more obvious that I like him or what. HELP!

2007-03-14 04:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by the_shadow 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 04:11:35 · 9 answers · asked by Brad M 1 in Singles & Dating

My firend met a nice man about a year ago and he asked her out on a date. He was with someone else at the time although he had told my friend that the relationship was over. She later found out from a friend that he was still living with her.
The problem is that he is a special copper and seems to just keep turning up at her home and ringing her on her mobile. She has asked him to stop calling and turning up at her home but he still continues to do so every now and then often at 2am in the morning!!!! He will leave it a few weeks and then turn up randomly. He rings from many phones so when she answers she is not aware it's him.
The friendship ended when she relasised he was still living with his girlfriend of 12 years.
This man does not listen to what she is saying. she has even threatedned to go to the police as this has not frightedned him off. It's like he is stalking her. She things there is something wrong with him!!!

2007-03-14 04:11:24 · 13 answers · asked by laplandfan 7 in Friends

2007-03-14 04:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating