Ladies, do you still want your husband to tell u ur fine when u no ur 10lbs over or u want him to work out with you and encourage the weight loss.
2007-03-14 04:16:15 · 15 answers · asked by Brown'n 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There ain't no safe way for men to answer this question. So ladies, please stop asking. You likely already know the answer.
2007-03-14 04:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will want him to work out with me although I will be happy that it don't matter to him that I'm 10lbs over but if I don't like the fact that I am I will lose that weight
2007-03-14 04:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were 10 pounds over weight and he said something, I would be mad. If I were 40 - 50 pounds over, than yea, I would want him to talk to me about and offer to work out with me. It's not really about the look, it's about health and life style, and I certainly wouldn't want him to stop having sex with me, cause then he would probably go some where else!
2007-03-14 04:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when he tells me that I look fine. To me it means he cant notice the few pounds, but I can. It is actually encouraging to me that he thinks I look great with a few extra or without, he loves me either way. Even if he does notice it, sometimes I feel that he is sparing my feelings, but he knows I will take care of it on my own. Call it fiction or whatever, I know the reality of my own body, its just nice when someone thinks you look great either way.
2007-03-14 04:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a loving hosband would do both becuase hes afraid that could cause some problems in your health but 10 pounds over weight is NOTHIGN try being 200 pounds over weight thats what some people do, i would say don't worry about your weight untill your ATLEAST 20 pounds than you could work out and if your uhsband loves you he loves you for YOU not for your looks
2007-03-14 04:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always want the truth to my questions so if I'm over weight I don't ask such questions that I know the answer to. My man tells me I look good without me asking anyway.
2007-03-14 04:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best; working out together would be a great couples thing to do. I believe, in out hearts, we'd rather hear the truth.
2007-03-14 04:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not lying... I'm sure to him you're beautiful and he doesn't see the extra 10 lbs the way you do. Encourage yourself to workout, it'll make you feel good. Good luck!
2007-03-14 04:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Katie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His weight is not going to stay the same all his life. If he brings up my weight, he better learn to handle it if I say...hey there chubby...time for you to hit the gym and I'll be watching his weight with eagle eyes.
2007-03-14 04:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have him work out with me and go for walks and hikes. I, of course, want the truth.
2007-03-14 04:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 pounds you've got to be joking if it were 20 plus then maybe he could say something safely I would want him to work out with me.
2007-03-14 04:27:17 · answer #11 · answered by firecrackertx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋