2007-03-14 04:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by Mark N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question suggests the answer. Most people subscribe to the "what they do" part, but when you're just getting to know someone, all you have to rely on is what they say. So, for most of us, it's a little of both. And some of us want to hope so badly that someone has "changed" or whatever, that regardless of what we say we believe, we'll rely on promises and pretty words even if we secretly know better! ;-)
2007-03-14 04:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Who Knew? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'm paying attention to both. People will say anything, but what they do will tell the story. I learn more about people when I listen to what they say, but at the same time, watch their actions. Helps me see what kind people I may be dealing with. So you should pay attention to both.
2007-03-14 11:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to both. This way you know whether they are consistent in what they say and what they do.
2007-03-14 11:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by togashiyokuni2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pay attention to them both equally
2007-03-14 11:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by tommy two tone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying"walk the talk" In other words if you say something make sure you carry through. I guess my answer to you is I listen first than wait for the action so both are of equal value to me.
2007-03-14 11:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both cuz u gotta pay attention 2 their body language just 2 c if what their saying is what their saying. hope that makes sense
2007-03-14 11:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by stefstudy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pay attention to everything. You learn alot about people by being an observer. I've learned alot by just sitting back and watching a group of friends or people dating interating with each other. How we handle ourselves with other people tells alot about how you use your emotions and how you treat people.
2007-03-14 11:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by p_shell1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, used to pay attention to what they say, with age, come to pay attention to what they do... If if isn't on paper, doesn't mean shitttt!!!
2007-03-14 11:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words!
2007-03-14 11:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ariba148 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions always speak louder than words, especially if they are words that have been repeated over and over and over and over with no action to back them up. Ths is a continued form of manipulation and abuse that no one needs in their life.
2007-03-14 11:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋