2007-03-14 04:19:19 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
date other people
2007-03-14 04:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dated someone for over a year, I actually thought we would marry.
One day I came to him with a question. Would he give me a few weeks to date someone I had wanted to date for quite awhile. I didn't want to break up, I just wanted to see what this other guy was like.
Unfortunately, he told me to go. But he did say he was not sure if he would be here when I came back.
I dated the other guy a couple of months and of course it was not what I wanted.
When I went back to my first bf his whole demenor chaged, he was mean, insensative, rude, it lasted only a few weeks and I could not take it anymore.
I still hold a part of my heart for him to this day. Sad thing, it has been at least 20 years.
2007-03-14 11:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should see how it goes. When I first started dating this guy, I was 15 by the way, I was like whatever you know he is just this summer fling. So we started hanging out and going to the beach and eating dinner alot together. Summer ended and years went by. I am now 20 years old and engaged to that same man. My advice to you would be, see how it goes, expect the unexpected because thats exactly what you're going to get. I wouldn't break up with them just because you thinkj there not the one, give it time.
2007-03-14 11:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Mrs. Graham ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest if in your heart you know he is not the one then that means your with him because he might have other qualities you like about him. He may be resfectful, honest, kind, loving etc.
I honestly believe you need to let him go because u both deserve to be happy. It seem like ur unhappy and you can't pretent to be happy for long...
Just tell him you need some time and mean time don't see anyone else...during that period see if u really miss him, see can u see urself giving him back that love he deserve.
If ur not feeling the same about him then by being with him ur cheating him of finding someone who loves him and ur cheating ur self for finding someone u love
2007-03-14 11:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him?! Well, if you're still in the developing stage I suggest you talk to him about what you think and explain to him why. If, after the conversation, you feel that he's still not the one... then I say just cool out for a bit and try to find "the one".
2007-03-14 11:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not see that he is the one right away...he may be the one but keep on dating until you are sure because you may lose a good one
2007-03-14 11:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one for what? Marriage? Sex? Children? I believed as a youngin that there was just ONE person for me.. now i'm starting to think there are several people for me for different times in my life. If you love someone and want to spend your life with them, you will just know. I know that's not a straight answer, but when you feel it, you'll remember this and think "Wow she was right. You just KNOW". ha. Good luck !
2007-03-14 11:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't sure if my fiance was the one, but I married him anyway. 1 1/2 years later we were divorced.
MAKE SURE!
2007-03-14 11:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure then he probably is not the one. Why don't you just date (not have sex) and play the field until you are sure.
2007-03-14 11:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...tell him that you don't know what's there -- be upfront with him -- NO LIES! keep dating him for a few months, and if you still see or feel nothing there, then consider dating other people. it may break his heart, but at least you will be honest and if you cheat on him that will hurt him even more.
2007-03-14 11:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋