Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. As much as I honestly LOVE him.. I second guess myself and our relationship. My boyfriend is not the most affectionate man. "I love you" is not in his vocabulary. I've told him that I can live with this for now, but if/when we get married and start a family it is something that is important to me. Even if I know it in my heart it's nice to hear.
Now, with all that said, my problem is that he is never serious. He is always "joking around". He asked me to go shopping for him, to buy him something non-specific. My goal was to buy something, but I didn't know what TO buy. When I asked him if he had any suggestions he said to me "I give you 1 responsibility and you can't even do that." His words hurt my feelings. When I told him, he told me to stop being a baby, and he was only kidding around. This is always how he "jokes".

2007-03-14 08:21:15 · 20 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 08:21:12 · 7 answers · asked by Dusty 1 in Friends

But when its the women getting the strange STD's aren't an issue?

2007-03-14 08:21:09 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

both of my ex boyfriends have recently found out that i have plans of marrying the guy i am with now. they both have told me that they now want to marry me, and one has even went as far as to want to start a family with me?????

why why why, they both had a chance to do so when we were together.

2007-03-14 08:20:57 · 5 answers · asked by KK 2 in Singles & Dating

We were friends for a long time and it turned out that she is attracted to women and I ended up sleeping with her. Now I understand that she was more a man than a woman. It happened only once. I had not even kissed anybody before that. That was 15 years ago. I was 24 Since than I kissed a few guys but never had sex.
I've never been attracted to women. I like guys. I just can not meet the right one. But when I masturbate- I'm sorry but I have to speak up- I often think about her. I know this is totally sick, but how do I get rid of this obsession? Also, why can not I meet anyone? I'm a pretty woman. Please, talk to me. Thank you

2007-03-14 08:20:40 · 1 answers · asked by pinkink3131 1 in Singles & Dating

mi life is a little screwed up right now, mi mom is constantly complaining about bfs, mi bro is complaining about ex gfs, mi dad is furious cause im bi, mi bestfriend wants to be mi friend, i just got a bf i cant see, and on top of all that, i just found out mi crush LIKES ME! so tell me, is life seriously worth living?

2007-03-14 08:19:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this guy (let's call him Carl) and he is the hottest guy I've ever seen. Carl so so hot, but on the inside he is a total jerk. He would make fun of (let's call her Mandy) Mandy because she has terrrets. He's never mean to me. He's actually really nice to me. But I'm not sure if he likes me. We went to the pool the other day (Carl, Mandy, and I) and we were swimming and he started with the whole mean act. Mandy went to the other side of the pool and I went with her. Then we came back and he did it again. Mandy went underwater and he smiled at me. She came back up and he looked mean again. Please help with this! I don't know what to do? Does he like me or is he just teasing me to get to Mandy?

2007-03-14 08:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Friends

2007-03-14 08:17:34 · 20 answers · asked by nomarsdude5 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 5'1(almost) and my husband-to-be is 5'10 whom I haven't even seen in person yet since this is an arranged marriage. Is this weird? I wish there was a way I could see how we would look together.

2007-03-14 08:17:32 · 17 answers · asked by blush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother was dating this woman for awhile even though she was married. I went to visit her and stayed with her for a few days and I think I realized that I love this woman. I don't know what to do with my feelings. I want to go see her again...like now. I am in Virginia and she is in California. I am a woman as well and I don't know how she will feel about these feelings I have for her.

2007-03-14 08:17:09 · 22 answers · asked by SNK 1 in Singles & Dating

mines dead, god i miss that daft woman...cant look at mothers day cards :(

2007-03-14 08:16:59 · 62 answers · asked by ginger 6 in Family

im in 6th grade and he's in 4th. Went to bed@ten last year, now 9:30, cos he says it's unfair!! What should i do??!!

2007-03-14 08:15:42 · 9 answers · asked by nomarsdude5 1 in Family

2007-03-14 08:14:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me if I sould take her out or buy her something or I don't know... Be cruel on me, (even tell me that I have to read more) Save me please...

2007-03-14 08:14:44 · 5 answers · asked by Angel K 1 in Family

I need the help of guys who have sex with women to answer this question!!!!

2007-03-14 08:14:37 · 52 answers · asked by Emma P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 years old and have had a crush on a guy who is 35 for quite a while now. We started talking and getting to know eachother and now all of a sudden everyone is saying that he's too old for me. I really like him and I know he really likes me but I'm worried that all the talk around town is going to ruin things for us. He has 2 boys of his own which are 13 and 9 and I have a son who is 3. We fit so well together and I've never been happier. What do we do? Do we give up or ignore all the comments? Please help!!!!

2007-03-14 08:14:27 · 29 answers · asked by very_proud_mommy 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been seperated for 2 years. I do not know where he is living. I don't even think he's in the same state. All lawyers I've talked to say I need to locate him. I have tried. I have come up empty handed though.

2007-03-14 08:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by kalyope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 08:13:13 · 22 answers · asked by Nichole 3 in Weddings

2007-03-14 08:13:09 · 19 answers · asked by James W 1 in Singles & Dating

She has been acting like as if I am a stranger in the house. Yet when she needs her day to day material things she want me to be the provider. I am the sole bread winner, she does not want to work. Isn't it a torture. And there is nothing I can do because of children.

2007-03-14 08:13:09 · 31 answers · asked by DilPickle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically, I think this guy likes me, and we used to talk a lot but don't as much anymore because we switched classes. There's this other girl in a bunch of his classes that he might like, but I'm not sure. I see him talking to her in class now and then, but nothing too serious. When I do see him, he stares at me a lot and acts really weird, but what if he likes that girl? How do you tell? Does he like me?

HELP!!

2007-03-14 08:13:03 · 13 answers · asked by Neesha 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you happy?
Do you believe in marriage vows?
Have you ever cheated/been cheated on?
If so, have you forgiven?

2007-03-14 08:12:41 · 39 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this girl I have been dating whom I met on myspace. We have been talking for two and a half months and dating for a month and a half of that.

Suddenly since our last date, I am getting like two friends requests from SINGLE girls a day! I got requests before, but never like this!!! This is really unusual. Do u think somethings up? Is she trying to see if I will hit on these SINGLE girls who are my own age? Some of them are new to myspace, most have been on there for a while.

What do u think is up? Coincidence or trap? We aren't officially committed or anything, but we had both mentioned to each other that neither one of us is seeing anyone else.

2007-03-14 08:12:20 · 2 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

My frnd who had been avoiding for a long time and always used to say that she was busy. She remembers me only when she needs to talk to some1 abt her probs and when I want her to b there for me she was always BUSY. This made me feel used so I thought to avoid her so since 2 weeks, I have been avoiding her like I stopped texting her ( I used to text daily) and when she calls me I dont answer her call immediately either I text her later some excuse or I dont do anything at all and reply next day.
Now she told me that she missed me on a particular day and that she feels something is wrong with me.
It seems she has not understood yet. what should I do shall I continue avoiding her or is it a way of her to get me back. I was like a pet and doormat to her.
please help

2007-03-14 08:12:07 · 22 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Singles & Dating

she went to the club without my permission yesterday, she said she needed to let some steam off,but she knows better than not to ask the big boss (me) ,should i cheat 4 revenge???

2007-03-14 08:11:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

maybe some of you have had read my post about the guy that i hooked up with who left his phone number on a post-it note.

well, i've decided that i do want to keep this guy around for friends-with-benefits sort of thing, since i do like regular nookie but do not have time for a relationship.

he's coming by later today in the evening, and i wanted to ask:

EXACTLY how do i bring this subject up and ask him, without sounding too crass?

2007-03-14 08:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by caraibes_cate 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, Ive been married for 9 months. He cheated on me time after time after time. I can't belive I let myself take him back every time. The worst thing is that it was with the same girl.(his ex). I don't understand him. Why dose he do this to me. ive tried so hard everytime this has happend to forgive and forget. I moved to IL from another state and yet he has done nothing good for me. I want to make it work. bUT i don't trust him. I do admit he has changed in the last 2 months. But we are having problem cuz of trust. I wish i could make him feel what i feel or just be able to let go of him or of the past. what should i do.

2007-03-14 08:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by lost1985 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just ended my three year long distance relationship about three months ago. She claimed she loved me, that she wasnt unhappy, and that I am her best friend. since this all happened she wont even talk to me. Do I still try keep communication open or should I just let it go forever

2007-03-14 08:11:07 · 2 answers · asked by darkcarnvil46 1 in Singles & Dating

We're getting married in August of this year, and I just found out that the place we're eating in isn't air conditioned. This is changing what we were thinking of having for a light lunch. It was going to be a hot meal, but now we're thinking more on the lines of cold lunches but all we can think of is a cold cuts buffet. Any other ideas that would be nice for a wedding? Or additions onto a cold cuts buffet that would make it a little classier?

This is also an semi-formal wedding, and the lower price the better!

Thanks!

2007-03-14 08:11:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-14 08:10:16 · 16 answers · asked by James W 1 in Singles & Dating