Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

I'm 6 weeks and 6 days pregnant. Adoption is not an option for me because if I have a child, I want it to always know who their mother is ( I never knew mine, she left when I 6 months old and died when I was six). I don't think that I'm financially, mentally, or emotionally prepared for a child. And the father (my ex now) told me that our relationship isn't going to change just because I'm having a baby (we're friends but I'm still inlove with him).

2007-03-14 08:32:22 · 34 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 08:31:53 · 3 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Friends

during a sleepover at my cousin/double best friend's house, i overheard my aunt telling her to take her ADD pills, i tried to ask her what it was and the only answer i got was "What's your favorite cereal, Ginny?" answer please

2007-03-14 08:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by Crazy sweetheart 3 in Friends

So there is this girl I have been dating whom I met on myspace. We have been talking for two and a half months and dating for a month and a half of that.

Suddenly since our last date, I am getting like two friends requests from SINGLE girls a day! I got requests before, but never like this!!! This is really unusual. Do u think somethings up? Is she trying to see if I will hit on these SINGLE girls who are my own age? Some of them are new to myspace, most have been on there for a while.

What do u think is up? Coincidence or trap? We aren't officially committed or anything, but we had both mentioned to each other that neither one of us is seeing anyone else. I don't have the time to date more than one person at a time anyway. I like her a lot so...

2007-03-14 08:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is about sex well oral sex ........... ok well if your still there im wondering what yall think about ice you know i have ice in my mouth then go down do you think that would be good to cold what do you think being serious not a perv just wanna do something new with my girl

2007-03-14 08:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One boy's name is Corey he has blond hair and blue eyes, he's one grade ahead of me.........and the other boy's name is Eric and he is in my grade and he has brown hair and brown eyes.....both of these boy's love football ...........but I NEED A CHOICE.........they are both hot....please answer

2007-03-14 08:30:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 08:30:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im going to a wedding in April and my boyfriends the best man. Hes going to be dressed really nice so I want to buy a cute dress. Ive got about a month so I want to see if I can order something original online. I dont want to spend over $150. Can you help please? What are some good websites?

2007-03-14 08:30:11 · 1 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 08:30:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have read and heard it before but to shy to ask what does vanilla sex mean ????

2007-03-14 08:29:37 · 7 answers · asked by flipper 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I keep having dreams about her at night and they are dreams on the beach!

2007-03-14 08:29:30 · 3 answers · asked by Tony m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 08:29:27 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my husband talking w/ another girl. He's 36 she's 20. He wrote her a note that was something my 4th grade son would write to another 4th grade girl. "I'd like to get to know you better. What do you think." Real suave, I know. Then I guess he was calling her all the time. Her fiance found out and told her to call me. He wasn't mad, just a lil upset. I confronted him, and he played it like it was nothing. I must add we are and have been having major marital issues for 2 years now. So, now just the other day, his phone is vibrating on the counter I'm sick I go and check it I don't reconize the number so I read the text. "not much...between joing LA weight loss and curves." and then it vibrates again in my hands. "what r u up to?" I had no clue who it was. So I wrote the number down and decided to call it and see who it was when my husband left. It was the girl who told me that he was calling her before.
He acted like it was not a big deal.

2007-03-14 08:28:25 · 35 answers · asked by sher_bear28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there is this girl at chruch she say i was cute and she start stareing at me alot sometimes she stares at me alot i stare back and i do noting i go back to sit she sill stareing in my eyes and when its time to shake everyone hands she comes closer to me where i am siting and know her firends look at her and then you what does it mean?

2007-03-14 08:28:07 · 7 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a sticky situation here. My husband and I have 5 children. Four are his from a previous marriage, one we had together. His ex lives 3 states away, and rarely pays the minimal amount of child support required of her. I helped him set it up so that she had to pay through the state. There divorce papers say that her income is suppose to be withheld, however until recently she hasn't had a steady job. Because of our little one I work and my husband stays home with him. I am financial bread winner in our family so it makes sense. Recently I find myself very angry at the fact that my oldest children's mom gets all the benefits of being a mom but has none of the responisbilities. I have traveled across states for this woman for several years now and its just wearing on me. I have talked to my husband about it and he says he's going to request for child support to be enforced but he never follows through. I find myself being resentful and feeling taken advantage of.

2007-03-14 08:27:28 · 13 answers · asked by Euphoria 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Oh, and by the way it is all true. Opinions are welcome...

2007-03-14 08:27:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost a bet to a girl and now i'm her slave and she told me to ask if ne1 has ideas on what she can do to me?????

2007-03-14 08:27:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-14 08:26:34 · 16 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

u want to get physically closer with them but it'd be nice also if u started to like eachother more...so......is it lust?love?a crush?

2007-03-14 08:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by Queen of ♥'z 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 08:25:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i just asked the same question but now i would like some guy as well as female opinions on this.

what do you think of this and would you like to recive it from a guy? (obviously if u are a straight guy you woudnt want to recive it from another guy)

love is a thing shared by two
love is a thing for me and you.

love wonders searching for fun
love tells me you are the one.

love is experienced by all who dare
love lets me know when you are there.

love is in my heart only for you
love will keep me faithfull and true.


please give me your honest opinion.

2007-03-14 08:24:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are dealing with his ex-wife... who holds thoughts of grandeur that they once had something for a relationship. His version: she was abusive (mental, emotional, physical, et al) and psychotic with her behavior (literally... mental hospital patient, folks!). He finally got out of the house for good and she went bezerk... breaking into his car, ripping up his things, finally stealing his car and sending negative emails pretending to be him to all his business contacts.

My question is this: now that she knows about me... his fiance... she's now on a mission to copy my behavior.... my hairstyle, my MySpace account profile, etc... and she's obsessively clicking into my webpage to read my blogs and such. She speaks negatively about me to the two daughters, and even blames me when she destroys their personal items saying that it's my fault. I'm all about ignoring her and just living my life... but frankly... she scares the pants off me! What would anyone else do?!

2007-03-14 08:24:44 · 16 answers · asked by Dawn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I had a really great sex life in the beginning. He brought me to heights I had never known existed before. Problem is he is fat and very unattractive. Also, he has never really had much size in the hoo hoo department. That is why I cannot understand how I was able to achieve such a feeling with him. We had great foreplay and roleplaying, everything, but I just could not get around the fat thing.

Now we barely have sex and all he can bring up is that he is so great in bed. The last 6 years really haven't been that great anyway.

How can I get him to not show off so much as it is really turning me off.

2007-03-14 08:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is not very affectionate. He says it's the female's responsibility to be affectionate. How do I get him to be more affectionate?

2007-03-14 08:23:38 · 13 answers · asked by Lucci 6 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think about it? big deal? not? what age?

2007-03-14 08:22:45 · 25 answers · asked by jesus-lives! 2 in Singles & Dating

ok soo i have this family thing and both of my parents are like completely ignoring me! its all b/c of my brother! they are sooo proud just b/c he is going to become a priest! sooo how do i get there attention? (and i dont want lie or anything)

2007-03-14 08:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Hot•Babe♥ 3 in Family

Me and my guy had a misunderstanding,he doesnt want to talk to me,he told me to wait for him to call after month,its too long..lol. what i did to him is just a minor.Is he over reacting?How can i tell him that i cant wait that long?Why is it easy for him not talking to me that ?

2007-03-14 08:21:58 · 15 answers · asked by vanesa 1 in Singles & Dating

the biggest regret of his life cause he can not see himself with someone. His excuse is he has been hurt before in the past and that I am going to hurt him as well. We always have a good time together, we go to football games, hockey games ect together, and the bar. We dont argue and we consider one another bfs. Lately his ex from high school has been calling and the other night he called her at 12:30 am. Booty call or not who knows. I dont know whether to just let things ride and hope we get back together or just close the book on this chapter and move on. We all have been hurt, people do move on so why not him??

2007-03-14 08:21:56 · 3 answers · asked by PIGPEN 1 in Singles & Dating

All I want to do is find god and be happy. I have family problems what do you think? I need help!Today honestly I feel sad. I got into a huge fight with my mom and well this morning I was like I don’t know why I try if nothing in my life gets better. She was angry and she thought that yelling was going to solve things and I told her to stop. She thought that was defying her and so forth. To make a long story short she is mad at me and well I told her that I felt like she has taught me a lot of my fear. I don’t know why I get so scared to speak to people to tell them what I feel maybe its because every time I do something bad happens. I tell my mom how I feel and she gets hurt. Maybe its my delivery but its like I get to a point where I just explode. I mean a lot of years I really felt like I was there for my mom instead of her being there for me. I always held my pain and my anger and my frustration for the sake of not offending anyone. I do pray, but when is it going to get better. Like yesterday she found out that I wanted to help my cousin to get a job and she said I was stupid cause no one ever helps us that they don’t help us and they she was going to take my job
Now tell me where do I get my fear? Its not all her fault but it starts in the home. I am so confused!

2007-03-14 08:21:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-14 08:21:40 · 33 answers · asked by Crazykisser 1 in Singles & Dating