Me and my guy had a misunderstanding,he doesnt want to talk to me,he told me to wait for him to call after month,its too long..lol. what i did to him is just a minor.Is he over reacting?How can i tell him that i cant wait that long?Why is it easy for him not talking to me that ?
2007-03-14 08:21:58 · 15 answers · asked by vanesa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he doesn't like you.
2007-03-14 08:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye to him. If he can do that then he doesn't like you. Now, come on ladies if we were in love would we be able to be without that person for month because we choose to just because I doubt it. You either break up or you get over it and keep your relationship. A month seems more like..give me some space see what else is out there see what other A** i can get and then If all falls for me I'll come back to you (the sure thing). A month is too long, a few days a week maybe but damn not a month. Unless he's going of to military he needs to get back to you ASAP before you move on to a one minute man lol (he can't be without you for a minute) ......so cheesy lol. Good luck anyways I hope he just moves on and forgives you or just let you of the hook so you can find someone better.
2007-03-14 15:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be a bit more specific? Hard to determine whether or not someone is overreacting without knowing what it is that they're reacting to.
Also confusing is the fact that you start out by saying you had a misunderstanding and end up saying what you did to him is minor. Apparently not to him.
There's a very wide range of offenses you could have committed. (Did you accidentally scratch his car or were you unfaithful to him?) I can probably give you a much better answer if you provide more info.
Without more info I'd say just leave him alone until he's worked it out. It's probably not any easier for him, but obviously he is very angry with you.
I'll look for added details...or if it's too private/embarrassing you can e-mail me through my profile.
2007-03-14 15:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ann F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whatever you did, you hurt his pride and his ego. Depending on what you did answers if he is overreacting. Don't tell him that you can't wait that long. Instead, find something else to do. How is it that we as humans want someone, but we don't know how to spend time entertaining ourselves? It's easy for him not to talk to you because whatever you did will remind him of that incident so, he needs time to clear things in his mind. You never know, you could be distracting him and his grades in school might be falling so maybe not talking to you is the best thing that is going help him get his grades up.
2007-03-14 15:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Careatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he sounds like a sensitive guy, and we dont know it, but there are ALOT of sensitive guys out there... maybe you meant it in a lighter tone, but he took this misunderstanding, more seriously...give him some time, i highly doubt he wont call you for a whole month...i would just appologize, tell him you love him, and just lay quiet for a few days/weeks...im sure he will call you within the same week...guys are full of ****, trust me...he'll call you, just dont look desperate to hear his voice and like you cant wait that month...it wont even last a month...guareenteeeeee IT!
2007-03-14 15:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he used a minor argument as a chance to get you off his back. He doesn't want to be with you, get it? Don't tell him anything - move on and look for a new guy. If he calls in a month, tell him you're seeing someone else - but I bet he will never call.
2007-03-14 15:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly could't wait either. I'd say to give him a call and ask how things are.If he gets smart with you; you'll know your answer and to move on. But if he's willing to talk things through; see waht he has to say. What I do is listen for tone, watch body language and facial expression. In this case if you call him; listen for his tone. If I'm the one calling to make ammends and the person gets smart with me; that's my deciding factor right there. Good luck =)
2007-03-14 15:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what you did but he is oviously trying to see how far he can push you waiting a month to discuss your relationship is ridiculous while you are sitting around feeling guilty and waiting hes out having fun with the boys dont let him control you this way if he wants out he should just be a man and say so that way you both can move on
2007-03-14 15:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personaly give it about a week and if I did not hear from him or see him, I would try to call him once and if nothing then I would do my own thing. Go out with girlfriends and just have a good time. If he really wanted to be with you he will call be for then
2007-03-14 15:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by PIGPEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my guy "friends" plays this **** all the time. and the fact is that guys NEED to wear the pants and be in contol all the time... guys are dominate and they need to feel it. dont go crying to him because then he is winning the game!!! i did it time and time again and now, we just ended our friendship (today actually) because of all the lies, confusion, and misunderstandings!! dont fight for something that wont come to you and want to work it out... its a waste of breath!
2007-03-14 15:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Saritah Bonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might have to explain what you did. He may not think it's minor. Like kissing someone else, or even flirting. If it's not something like harming him or his ego, he may just be possessive.
2007-03-14 15:30:53 · answer #11 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋