2007-03-14 08:21:40 · 33 answers · asked by Crazykisser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gee, if you know about it...then duh......I guess she did get caught!!
Weren't you ever taught that two wrongs don't make a right??
Also, I am not saying you shouldn't "get back at her" but, remember also that revenge is a dish best served cold.
Another thing is...why did she cheat in the first place?
Remember, you can't lose a satisfied man.
Think about it and maybe try and figure out why she did it first before you go and do something stupid.
If you don't care for her anymore.....then get out of the relationship completely and let it go.
2007-03-14 08:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the saying "two wrongs don't make a right". Your hurt feelings will not feel any better by doing that and it will definitely create more problems. And why do it if you don't want her to know (self-satisfaction? You should have more self-satisfaction by knowing you DIDN'T do something stupid). If you can't learn to accept her mistake and move on, then you need to break up. Was it a one night stand or a long time liason? Is she repenting and trying to earn your trust back? Maybe couples counseling could help you or talk to your local pastor or a very trusted elder (like an aunt or grandparent) for advice. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-14 08:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not want to get caught. I say get caught and tell every one that you cheated on her. Add here is the key to the whole situation. When she breaks up with and she is all pissed off she will tell you that she cheated on you to try and make you mad, and all you say is "good now I dont feel so bad!"
2007-03-14 08:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting even with someone implies they will be aware of it. When a relationship reaches a state where the participants are cheating for the sake of cheating, and cheating for revenge, it's a good sign it's time to move on. Good luck.
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2007-03-14 08:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! that is so manly and so mature of you!! Wow I wish you were right here so I can just throw a pie in your face!
Why don't you do the "right" thing and leave her since she "cheated" on you dummy~
2007-03-14 08:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, it doesnt solve anything or make anyone feel any better. Just break up with her...... That will punish her more than you cheating on her. She will see what she did to herself then, you wont be the bad guy, she will......
2007-03-14 08:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not really "getting her back" if she doesn't know about it, is it? If you have a problem with your girlfriend, work it out or walk away. Don't add to the drama.
2007-03-14 08:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stoop to her level and cheat? the best way to get back at her is...........................break up with her. Why waist your time and hurt someone else by just cheating on her and getting someone elses feelings involved. Move on and forget about her.
2007-03-14 08:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if you know about it then she got caught. There's no point in retaliaton. Drop her like a bad habit my friend.
2007-03-14 08:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know how you get back at her-tell her BYEEEEEEEE! Don't cheat back thought that's dumb. Either stay with her without cheating or find someone else.
2007-03-14 08:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by kws504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋