Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

but i dont want to make things wierd between me and him and say i like you and him not like me back wat are some signs that guys like girls wat do they do?.?.

2007-03-14 08:10:06 · 4 answers · asked by kity3angel1 1 in Singles & Dating

dont you hate single men who take advantage of a married women who has every thing to loose when she is drunk!

2007-03-14 08:09:46 · 5 answers · asked by machele 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I quit drinking alcohol and went back to pot. Pot is not as painful in the mornings. It's not like I smoke everyday, just 3 times a month maybe. It helps relax me, I personally enjoy it on occasion when I don't have to drive afterwards. LOL!

2007-03-14 08:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex and i were friends after breaking up in mid aug. then after awhile he was asking me out again i refused becuz i knew something wasn't right..i could tell he was hiding something so i went in his facebook account and got all the answers i needed.. he was cheating on me way before we broke up and i was really shocked that I had invested 4 years in him for this.. How do i get over this pain?? Will he ever call to apologize for what he did? I told him everything I knew from his facebook account and he was STILL in denial. please help. :(

2007-03-14 08:09:17 · 10 answers · asked by Fashionista 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl Saturday night. So like 4 days ago, and I think we hit it off pretty good. She gave me her number and told me to call her. How long should I wait? Is it to early only 4 days ago or to late.

2007-03-14 08:09:07 · 8 answers · asked by finestar12345 1 in Singles & Dating

She has been acting like as if I am a stranger. Yet when she needs her day to day material thing she would want me to provide her. Isn't it a torture. And there is nothing I can do because of kids.

2007-03-14 08:08:58 · 15 answers · asked by DilPickle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My crush knows i like her and when i passed her in the hallway she looked at me. I didn't see her smile but i saw her looking at me..it was pretty obvious. Was this a sign of interest? I kinda pretend she wasn't there, I hope she doesn't it take it personally.

2007-03-14 08:08:42 · 2 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, well I have this friend that I've known since the first grade and I kinda like her. Like okay I have this boyfriend and instead of me all up on my boyfriend Im all up on her, like if shes walking behind me and my bf then i will stop and wait for her. We do everything together, we always call and txt eachother. But I really like the guy Im with now, but i just dont know what to do.

2007-03-14 08:07:24 · 3 answers · asked by Bree 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends wife left him about 5 years ago and in that time he started going out with her best friend and now he swears he is in love with her though this woman doesn't feel the same way about him. He also claims to love his wife because of course she is the mother of his children. There is also another scenario in this story he is heavily addicted to chatrooms and will frequently be positive that he is love with the woman he is currently talking to and try to be with her only. In my opinion he is in love with the idea of being in love but I could be wrong maybe he is just a jerk? I would like to know what some other people think about this?

2007-03-14 08:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by mitchellhearts@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a freshman at Penn State. I started to like this girl who lived down the hall from me. She is everything i look for in a girl funny, beautiful, and very smart. She did things that showed me that she liked me such as always being in my room, seating everyone at the movies so we sat next to each other and visiting me over winter break. For valentine's day I got her a really good gift, tickets to a show she wanted to see in Philly, and we had a great time. After that she started ignore me a little and whenever i saw her she would give me attitude. Should I continue to persue this girl or should I give up and seek someone else? Also what could change this shift in her personality?

2007-03-14 08:07:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you ever have had to slap the crap out of a guy, how did you do it? by raising your hand or by drawing it back? which hand nailed him? just wondering if i'm in the minority or not. i got nailed on my left cheek by her right hand and she drew it back. just wondering which is most effective on us guys that's all.

2007-03-14 08:06:02 · 13 answers · asked by tripleoption3 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 50, shes 27. She lied she was university student for 2 years, then lied continuously to cover it, started an affair,it continued 6mos. under my nose while I trusted her stories, when i traveled she "couldn't come" then used my apt to screw him on my bed. Money dissapeared day before I left. When I returned I dumped her, then she started coming over for sex, I wanted it too. She became pregnant. I always wanted kids and family, especially at my age, so I offered to try if she stoped the lying. I she can't stop, still I catch her in lies big and small. When traveling I left cat with her two times, two different cats died under her "care". I have since found good woman my age, and left this cheating, lying, thief. But what about baby,I think she should pay for test,she cheated. I can not now be with such low character, but I fear for baby's upbringing.Legal fight's possible, but I'm 50 yr old man and not so rich to pay for legal battles, she has no money,lives with mom. We're enemies

2007-03-14 08:05:56 · 19 answers · asked by Nick N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im just wondering...

2007-03-14 08:05:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like him and i dont want to break up with him cuz i no theres a solution to this problem. SO what kinda of things can i talk about and say

2007-03-14 08:05:28 · 2 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I hope to never have this happen to me if I am working with a female collegue. I would seriously get beat up by the husband for it. I do not understand this. Just because you can not have that certain. You feel the desire to go after them.

2007-03-14 08:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'd first like to say that divorce isn't an option, so please don't throw that out there. We live on one income so I can stay at home. Going into this (I used to work), we knew we'd have to cut back and live with less, but it's not working out. Here's the situation. We want to buy a house in the next year. We have no savings. We do carry some credit card debt, a couple thousand. We live on the basics...no cell phones, no cable TV, no fancy clothes. He, spends $100 on cigarettes & beer a month, and if there's extra money, it's as though it hurts him to watch it sit unspent. I pay the bills each month and he isn't very "budget savy", but he is quick to check the ATM. If it says there's $$, he thinks there is and spends. (lots of overdraft fee's) A couple months back, I got a separate checking acct, so I didn't have to worry about him withdrawing, and when he found out I had a separate acct, he accused me of being sneaky. I'm going to add more..............

2007-03-14 08:05:09 · 9 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 08:04:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there was a guy that was my lab partner he started talking to me i thought he was HOT and thought about how he would never be interested in me im probably NOT his type noway..but then he started to talk to me more and told me he wants to date but after i noticed he was interested I WASNT INTERESTED and made excuses to not go out claiming i was so busy with college and work..but he still waited so i finally went out with him to get it over with since i promised,. on our date he was happy and enyoyed it then insisted on taking me home i told him i been going home alone b4 i met him but he said now its diff and i should call him when i get home he'll be waiting. i never called him the entire summer then saw him in lab he only said hi and went to speak with his friends in lab..then i was thinking he looks kinda HOT in that tan and i stopped myself..whats wrong with me? why did i do that why do i do that?

2007-03-14 08:04:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i got married just two months ago, last week i found that he still continues to be in contact with his girl fren. he says that they are just frens now, though before our wedding they had physical relationship too. wht shud i do, im in a real trauma, even i tried to committ suicide but was not successful. I am unable to trust him. He says he will stop phone conversation with her now, but since she is just 20 miles away i don't trust that they will leave each other. But im in a dilemma, can't leave him as i love him, but can't tolerate any other women in his life too. what shud i do? plz help, its really urgent, i want to save my marriage.

2007-03-14 08:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, this is kind of lengthy so please bare with me. I live in Georgia, I have been married 10 years and I have a 12 year old daughter. Clara and I have been seperate 3 years not legally, I just moved out. 5 years ago Clara and I filed Chapter 13 bankruptcy and everything was included, house, cars, furniture, credit cards, etc. This cost me $320 a week and I still have been paying for all this even though I moved out. It was in both our names but I was the only one working at the time and it comes out of my check. I haven't been giving Clara any extra cause it's all I can do to have that out of my check plus pay for my own apartment now. I now want to file for a divorce cause I know we will not get back together, I talked to a lawyer last October about this, I told her I did not want anything, Clara could keep the house, the cars, everything, I just want divorced. I told her about the bankruptcy and she said that was ok, what they would do was look to see how much I had paid

2007-03-14 08:04:27 · 3 answers · asked by Andre 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I moved in with my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We had not been seeing each other for very long before that. He and I have talked about marraige and kids, but are wanting to wait. He has been married twice; his child is from the first. His child hasn't seen him mom OR his previous stepmom since august, 2006. When he calls me "mommy" I do not say anything. I do not know what to say. It makes me feel good, and I would love for him to call me his mom (since the one he has is too busy taking care of her other 3 younger kids), but i am more worried about his psychological health rather than my feelings. His father hasn't objected or complied with this; it seems like he's leaving it all up to me. We live like we are a family, and my boyfriend and i plan on being together for a very long time. I just don't want to confuse his son (since he's already had two "moms" at the young age of 6. Any suggestions?

2007-03-14 08:04:26 · 12 answers · asked by Thinking 5 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been going out for at least 3 months.. he has this friend (a girl) he hangs out with after school with sometimes. Whenever him and I talk he always seems to mention her or say something about her when we aren't even on the subject about anyone else. I don't want to be selfish and say he can't have any friends that are girls, I figure thats mean on both mine and his part and I also feel I can't do anything about it since he's known her longer than me. She says that shes not really looking for relationships. Maybe its just me overreacting but I just don't seem to like it when he mentions her so much. I feel really bad because I feel like I'm being selfish but at the sametime I feel worse when he talks about her... like he thinks about her all the time or something... but like I said I could be overreacting but if anyone could help me out I need alittle advice. Thank you.

2007-03-14 08:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 08:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by chica 2 in Singles & Dating

We all know adult guys check out teenage girls, so do adult women check out teenage boys?

2007-03-14 08:03:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys that are labled mentally ill are a drain on national reasorces, not of their own making. But adding insult to injury by assessing that fellow $30,000 in child support can only increase that drain, by making it even harder (imposible?) for that fellow to get a job and keep one, let alone found a business. Additionally, it is a secret court that decides whether or not that "mentally ill person gets disability; and presumably a court did not do that fellow a favor by labeling him nuts in the first place so how likely are they to "help him out" - when the other side of the child support coin is forced labor in prison presumably rhetorically for fraudulently representing himself as "mentally ill" in order to escape child support? Maine prohibits child support to be assessed the mentally ill by statute; but the courts ignore the statute by saying out of both sides of their collective mouths "the guy is both mentally ill and not yet proved mentally ill" - untill given SSI or SSDI.

2007-03-14 08:02:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi what do you think of this and would you like to recive it from a guy?

love is a thing shared by two
love is a thing for me and you.

love wonders searching for fun
love tells me you are the one.

love is experienced by all who dare
love lets me know when you are there.

love is in my heart only for you
love will keep me faithfull and true.


please give me your honest opinion.

2007-03-14 08:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at work that i think is so hot. when ever i talk to her i become this total dork and can't figure out what to say. recently she has been dating this guy in her department and asked a friend of mine if i liked her. of course he said yes to her and she told him to tell me she wasn't seeing anyone serious. problem is i know her boyfriend. what shoud i do?

2007-03-14 08:02:01 · 3 answers · asked by glue stick 2 in Singles & Dating

I 'm Asian so I need to learn more American Culture.
I know this guy for two months and we like each other ( because he told me that). However, we can't move to the next step because he is my instructor. He kissed me when I went out to a bar with his friends. He told me everything that he likes me for a long time and finally kiss me. I think he did that because he was a little bit drunk. After that day, I reassure him that he will not get fired, so dont worry about our relationship. He told me that I shouldnt have kissed you but he told me also that I was glad that it happened. So, i told him if you feel good to kiss someone and you can make that person feel good, just go for it. Should i kiss him back? Why he kiss me? How can I keep him innterested in me until we can pursue our relationship? Does he still like me? I'm so confused!!!

Thx!!!

2007-03-14 08:01:45 · 15 answers · asked by seira 1 in Singles & Dating

This is not something that has happened to me but I would be interested to hear other peoples thoughts. Supposing they needed money to feed their habbit? If you found out they had stolen from you?

2007-03-14 08:01:21 · 22 answers · asked by becks 2 in Friends

My fiance and I are getting married 5/5/07 and we each have three attendants on each side. All three of my girls have gotten their dresses for the wedding and are raring to go. Two of his groomsmen have done the same with their tuxes. The problem is that the third groomsmen. We've tried numerous times to get hold of him and he never returns phone calls or answers his phone. The wedding is less than two months away and my fiance is starting to wonder if his friend will be able to stand with him at all. The guy is a long-time friend of my fiance's but my fiance is worried the guy won't tow the line in time. Should he start looking for another groomsmen or wait?

2007-03-14 08:01:04 · 11 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Weddings