She has been acting like as if I am a stranger. Yet when she needs her day to day material thing she would want me to provide her. Isn't it a torture. And there is nothing I can do because of kids.
2007-03-14 08:08:58 · 15 answers · asked by DilPickle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont think this counts . You actually have to go and file for a legal seperation . Either through a solicitor or at the courts . Sorry about your situation cant you sit down and talk there might be something that can be put right .......
2007-03-14 08:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be considered seperated you must have had no contact with her for 2 years,no phone calls,no meetings no nothing basically...The fact that you sleep in seperate rooms in the same house does not mean you are seperated....There is something you can do,serve divorce papers on her for mental cruelty.That will change her attitude towards you....
Give her a wake up call,stop letting her treat you this way,she only does because you let her,STOP her!!!!!
2007-03-17 01:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by freddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to her and try and sort some thing out. Maybe she is feeling the same way right now and does not know how to talk to you about it. You are married and you should be able to talk things through or move on in your lives. I must be so hard for you and you are a good man still to be with her as a lot of men would have walked by now. Communication is the best things really.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-14 08:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your wife some questions. This cannot be healthy for your children . If there isn't any communication other than what she needs from you, you need to draw a line. This is no way to live. Life is precious- your kids deserve better and so do you. If your wife is secretly suffering in some manner like depression- she needs help. Don't waste anymore time living like this.
2007-03-14 08:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by sis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Legally you have to have been operating separately financially and physically for it to be considered separated(even in the same house). No cooking for each other, basically living as totally separate people but under the same roof.
If you are looking to get a divorce based on being separated for 2 yrs or more then you're going to have to start doing things differently.
And if you're not looking for a divorce then you need to start talking to your wife-pronto!
All the best either way!
2007-03-16 05:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is communicate - ask her to sit with you and talk - without the kids around - try not to raise your voice or get overly emotional - ask her if she is unhappy ( gently gently tactic ) - what does she WANT from the relationship - then tell her your lonely and miss your friendship ( DONT lean on the intimacy angle she will get the hump and think that sall your interested in - *be subtle*) ..... at least at the end you will know what is going on in her head. If she has any respect for you she will be honest. If you need to seperate its sad but life DOES go on. ...talk....you only live once and you dont want to be unhappy if possible....Goodluck
2007-03-14 08:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by celebrityhandbags 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds bad but if your really unhappy and there is no way back for the both of you, you need leave ! talk to her all women go through this go to counselling if she isnt prepared to meet you half way and try to sort your marriage out you need to think about moving on with your life ! i know you have kids but you cant stay there if your unhappy ! i know if i was faced with losing my partner i would be willing to over come any problem i had with help to get things back on track, GOOD LUCK x
2007-03-14 11:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by maddie xx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont stay married just for the kids... u must have some love or u would not put up with this .....sounds like she pissed at u for some reason... talk to her it may be hard but talk, listen and communicate with her...no matter how much u dont want to this may be the one thing to help ur marriage(only if u want to stay married)
2007-03-14 08:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by machele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really need to talk to her about this, if it is that she no longer wants to be your wife then you both need to come to an arrangment, if she is just depressed or you two could possibly work it out then it's worth a try.
2007-03-14 08:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because being separated means you live in a diffrent house or apt and not under the same roof
2007-03-18 07:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋