I hope to never have this happen to me if I am working with a female collegue. I would seriously get beat up by the husband for it. I do not understand this. Just because you can not have that certain. You feel the desire to go after them.
2007-03-14 08:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i believe that single women go after married men so they can have what the wife has, they see a good thing, perhaps a man married many years, and maybe her love life has not gone anywhere, so she sees someone who can give her the things she needs from life. she also may have a low self worth, and just want to see if she can steal him from his wife. but i think most of it is because she wants to be taken care of, and wants an easier life, at least i think this is why the other woman destroyed my marriage. i myself would never do that, knowing how it felt to loose my husband to the other woman.
2007-03-14 08:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband he told me he was legally separated and preparing to divorce because they had been on and off for years and he no longer loved her and she had a boyfriend she lived with in another state. As we both believed, and so does his ex that if 2 people are separated and living their own lives then it isn't cheating. I felt some guilt but my now husband kept reassuring me it wasn't cheating and his then wife was with her boyfriend so who knows.....now, if the couple is living together and seemingly happy then it would be different, wrong by all means and I would never do that!
2007-03-14 08:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with wanting what you can't have. We're all a little arrogant and think we can be better to/for/with a person. A lot of single women really want to get married and settle down so when they see a man that is willing to make that commitment, they want that for themselves. A lot of men aren't willing to make a commitment to be with one woman for life so when a man does so, he becomes more attractive to other women because they know that he has the same goals as they do.
2007-03-14 08:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its almost always insecurity and low self esteem.....who the heck would feel that having to share someone else's man was fulfilling? And don't say "Just for sex"...because MOST women get too emotionally attached when it comes to having sex!
2007-03-14 08:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason is the single woman get sex then send the husband home to his wife, they dont have to put up with the crap,
2007-03-14 08:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋