My brother was dating this woman for awhile even though she was married. I went to visit her and stayed with her for a few days and I think I realized that I love this woman. I don't know what to do with my feelings. I want to go see her again...like now. I am in Virginia and she is in California. I am a woman as well and I don't know how she will feel about these feelings I have for her.
2007-03-14 08:17:09 · 22 answers · asked by SNK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Got I hope you don't get a load of snarky comments here. Generally speaking (meaning prodied you are not unstable), we cannot experience a connection unless there is something to connect with that has the same energy. Imagine two live wires connecting.....zap. Now imagine if you connected a live wire to a dead wire..nothing. You would feel a whole lot less if she did not have some measure of feelings for you back. So say something.
I'm saying, there is no such things as one sided feelings. The feeling may however, be at a varying degree with both parties. Yes. Tell her. Don't try another visit unless you say something about your true intentions.
2007-03-14 08:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god lol the questions on here. lol . Well, do you think she likes woman first of all? Are you sure you can't just get over it and its just a crush or something. Did you get any signals to make you think she might actually have feelings for you too? If you want, tell her but I don't know how things will turn out. and then she dated your bro? That will be awkard.
2007-03-14 15:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's given u some idea that she might me into women I would proceed cautiously. And u may just have a fantasy crush. Why not talk to her over the phone awhile and see how she feels about u and women in that way.
2007-03-14 15:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by bubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think their is anything wrong with you liking a women I respect everyone decisions but the fact that she is the woman your brother has been seeing for a while, I think you should give it a second thought...I mean, I don't think you would like to hurt your brothers feeling, would you?
2007-03-14 15:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe what you are feeling is "infatuation" more than "love", after all, you've only known this woman for a few days. Have you talked to her since your visit? Maybe you should take it slow, get to know her, see how she would feel about a same-sex relationship before you decide that you are in love with her.
2007-03-14 15:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by georgiagrits1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should take some time and think about it and dont rush in to it think how you really feel this way you wont get hurt and if you find out that is the way you really feel then tell her it couldn't hurt and then you will know how she feels.But just take some time. People who do this dont offten think before they act do this Think then act.
2007-03-14 15:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which is more repulsive...that you are considering pursuing someone who is already married, or that you think it's morally acceptable to date your brother's ex?
The sea is huge, honey...go find a fish that isn't covered with someone else's stink.
2007-03-14 15:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoooooah, this women is married but dating ya bro? and you went and said at hers, and, whooooah this is messed up tbh. look dont even think of gettin involved, and btw ya have a women, wow, look just stay away from this women who is married, because, it will just end up causin trouble, bcos tbh it will do anyway, but u puttin ur bit in will make it worse. you will lose ya bro, lose ya women and lose ya respect....lose all that for a fling? trust me, keep away! x
2007-03-14 15:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by NoName 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two issues here one she might not be attracted to women and two that may cause issues considering that your brother was dating her trust me its probably more of a lust thing than loves it was only a few days
2007-03-14 15:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woahhhh.....i was thinking like the the whole time you were a guy..lol, thats awesome though, i think you should tell her, but you do have to be prepared that she might not be attracted to women so it might not go as well as you hope..but good luck
2007-03-14 15:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋