maybe some of you have had read my post about the guy that i hooked up with who left his phone number on a post-it note.
well, i've decided that i do want to keep this guy around for friends-with-benefits sort of thing, since i do like regular nookie but do not have time for a relationship.
he's coming by later today in the evening, and i wanted to ask:
EXACTLY how do i bring this subject up and ask him, without sounding too crass?
2007-03-14 08:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by caraibes_cate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him straight out so no one gets confused if your friends with benefits or dating. He'll appreciate your honesty.
2007-03-14 08:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost ill probably get a bad rating but.... You need to grow up! You have time for some regular nookie but not a relationship i think you are affriad of attachment, commitment issues so to speak. You dont want friends with benefits. To many risk of disease and jealousey so to speak! Why dont you buy a vibrator and save the making love to people who actual care about another person!
2007-03-14 08:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him u dont want anything other than to get laid as offten as possiable. cause u dont have time for a relationship but u do have ur needs. if hes ok with it great if not since hes there get it one more time and go find one that is.
2007-03-14 08:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it cause then you'll fall in love with him eventually and want a relationship and he'll only see you as a booty call! I don't know from experience but I see so many girls who do that....
2007-03-14 08:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. Say "I would really like it if we were just friends with benefits" And see how it plays out
2007-03-14 08:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him... he's an idiot if he refuse. (a girl asked me..if i can keep a secret? i said yes... and she told me to not tell anyone that she is now my friend... with a little bit more... so i said.... i appreciate that.... and when she left... i had the biggest smile on my face. :oD i still do.
2007-03-14 08:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just fool around and never mention dating, if he asks u out tell him y buy the cow when the milk is free!!!!
2007-03-14 08:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it while i'm making out with him, in between kisses, i tell him ,"baby you know i can't commit. you wouldnt mind if we just remain friends with benefits, right?" no man has every refused!!
2007-03-14 08:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by splenda sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are an adult. If so, just be honest with him. Most guys won't sweat it. Use protection. Good luck. :)
2007-03-14 08:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know butttt do you need another buddy?? LOL
2007-03-14 08:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋