2007-03-14 08:17:34 · 20 answers · asked by nomarsdude5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, so long as they both know about each other and are ok with it.
Otherwise, it's dishonest and just looking for heartache.
2007-03-14 08:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not really!
you are gonna end up with two very angry girls.
The one you're dating b/c ur thinking of another girl and the other one b/c you were trying to make a move on her or date her while you were going out with someone else which will probably give you a bad rep as well.
Sort out your feelings and think about why you like them both and which one you enjoy being with more. If you decide to break it off with the one you're dating, I strongly suggest that you don't mention the other girl and also that you don't start going out with the other girl within at least 2 weeks after you have broken up with that girl b/c that will give her time to get over you and not make her think that you're a player!
best of luck!! Make the right decision!!
2007-03-14 15:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by lovin' it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating several people is okay. In fact, I encourage it. Too man people rush into relationships without really learning about that person and becoming frends with them first. Dating is a great way to see the kinds of people you like, qualities that are important to you etc.
That bieng said, at some point you have to decide which you are going to pursue. If you are "going out" with one, but have feelngs for another, then that tells me you aren't serious or don't want to be with the person you are seeing. So be honest. Tell that person you still want to date and aren't looking for a seroius relationship right now. It's not fair to be with one person and start doing more and more things with them (including sexual things) but still be chasing other girls. That's disrespectful and rude.
2007-03-14 15:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to have a crush on someone else as long as you don't take any action towards it if you are currently IN a relationship. But if the girl ur dating is OK with seeing other people then it should be OK.
Just do us ladies a favour and don't cheat. It's not nice (those ladies who cheat need to do the men a favour and not)
2007-03-14 15:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Honestly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long you don't go out with the "one you like" while you're with the other. And this could only just be feelings of wanting another attraction. Sometimes when you're with someone for a while or a short time, you feel as though there is someone else for you and began to be attracted to other potentials. Keep your cool though and the one that you are with.
2007-03-14 15:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with liking two woman as long as you do not act on them both. Depends if you are in a commited relationship also. If not then you are not commited to anyone and as long as they know too. If you are in a relationship you better leave it as a thought and concentrate on the one.
2007-03-14 15:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its fine as long as you don't express your feelings for the one your not going out with. One of my bestfriends just broke up with her boyfriend and he was asking her ack out all week and then today asked her if he should go out with her BFFA. WHAT AN IDIOT!!! Now when ever she sees im he starts to cry
2007-03-14 15:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I guess it's ok if you like being slapped upside the head a few times and cussed and screamed at and oh yeah and if you like a lot of drama...then....yeah go for it!
2007-03-14 15:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not ok if the one you are dating now and she thinks you are together then someone is going to get hurt so make up your mind and choose.
2007-03-14 15:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its prob. going to get messy. people don't like feeling picked over, especially if it's for someone they are friends with. just be as honest as you can, and if you decide to go for the other girl, prepare for drama.
2007-03-14 15:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋