I need the help of guys who have sex with women to answer this question!!!!
2007-03-14 08:14:37 · 52 answers · asked by Emma P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Breathe. He'll get the idea.
Look at him. He'll get the idea.
Walk around nude in front of him. He'll get the idea.
2007-03-14 08:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Iron Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up!! I mean, he's your husband, for crying out loud! I'm sure that whenever he wants to have sex with you he has no problem asking, so why should you? Marriage is a two way street in which both persons have the same privileges as well as obligations. Sex is neither of these, sex is pleasure and the highest expression of love. Why being afraid to ask? Have a good one.
2007-03-14 08:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by gaban24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your husband is blind, the easiest way outside of hitting him over the head and screaming scr** me you idiot, is to walk out right in front of him stark naked and ask him if he gets the idea of what you want. You could also be very coy about it and leave him a trail of notes from the front door to the bedroom telling him supper is being served to him in bed and it's getting cold by the minute. Now if you're looking for romance, that's something you may need to work with him on. Either way he evidently needs to be shocked a little bit to begin with so try the direct approach first.
2007-03-14 08:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry.................are you asking how to have sex with your husband because he is not interested or because he is busy and never home?
I don't get it because we guys are the ones who most of the time want to have sex....in fact not most of the time but all the time!!
If he is not interested either he is sick or has another woman!!
I would point blank just get naked and tell him to jump you because you need it so badly that if he does not perform his duties you will have no choice but to find someone and make it sound like you have a female friend who asked you to try something new......
If he gets angry just say before I do try I want to be with you because is all I want but if you don't come true I will try with her.......Don't let him be involved because then just shows how selfish and dirty he really is.......most likely is having sex with another woman but he would like to join you and that friend of yours!! If he implies that leave him!!!
I am sorry that you are not able to have sex with him......I am picky but if you are really cute and sexy I am willing to fill his shoes!!!
e-mail me!!!
2007-03-14 08:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he married you, that means he must like the sex (part of the reason, not the whole reason he married you). Also, I don't think a man is going to come up with excuses like, "I have a headache". All you need to do is approach him about it at night and don't worry about the rest, it'll happen.
2007-03-14 08:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Chris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to ask.
What is the problem there are things your not telling.
Youn should be able to just bend over and get it from your husband I do and we've been married 11 years and have 3 kids and he has a bad back too.
2007-03-14 08:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to ask him to make love to you. Why he is your husband he should understand your feelings doesn't he. Just go ahead and tell him how you feel, and that you want to make love to him and he had to take same time out for you.
2007-03-14 08:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ashisweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're married and you don't know how to ask you're husband for sex?!?! I'm married and I definitely know I don't have to ask in fact he gets more turned on when I come on to him rather than him initiating it or asking for it.
2007-03-14 08:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by tawnee_santa_paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even ask. Light a candle, put on some music and put on the sluttiest lingerie you have and just start pulling his clothes off when he comes in the room.
2007-03-14 08:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him. For a solid week, bring him the remote. Hand him a beer. Make his fav foods. Dress like a total ho. If he doesn't jump you by then, get out, he's obviously gay.
2007-03-14 08:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your husband you don't have to ask. That's part of the contract. Just push him down on the bed as soon as he walks in the door. Sit on top of him and begin to take off his shirt. Slide your hand down the front of his body and grope. Unbutton his pants and pull it out and stroke it. Do I need to go on?...........
2007-03-14 08:18:09 · answer #11 · answered by Rick 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋