I know this guy (let's call him Carl) and he is the hottest guy I've ever seen. Carl so so hot, but on the inside he is a total jerk. He would make fun of (let's call her Mandy) Mandy because she has terrrets. He's never mean to me. He's actually really nice to me. But I'm not sure if he likes me. We went to the pool the other day (Carl, Mandy, and I) and we were swimming and he started with the whole mean act. Mandy went to the other side of the pool and I went with her. Then we came back and he did it again. Mandy went underwater and he smiled at me. She came back up and he looked mean again. Please help with this! I don't know what to do? Does he like me or is he just teasing me to get to Mandy?
2007-03-14 08:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, he sounds like a real jerk. . .sorry. Looks are not everything, I know. I have dated a few jerks. Why would you want to be with some one like that if he treats you good but others bad. It sounds like he likes you, but wants you to ditch Mandy. If he does like your friend and you are suspicious. I would ask her about her thoughts about him. Just watch her reaction. If there is something going on and he likes her and she like him, you will know from her reaction.
Ask yourself if he is worth it, despite his hotness? There are plenty of other guys out there.
2007-03-14 08:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If Mandy is your friend. Is Carl really worth losing her. Think about it...if Carl is around, Mandy would probably not want to come around. Get over him, he may be hot....but he's ugly as hell on the inside. Thats whats more important.
2007-03-14 08:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all : All guys are jerks!! well if mandy is your friend and he is making fun of her then i would forget about that jerk and go for another guy who doesn't make fun of your friend mandy for having terrrets. and secondly he is making fun of in a mean way or a jokingly way!! this is one that you really have to decide on your own.
Good Luck!
2007-03-14 08:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by lblondie15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a two faced jack ***. I wouldn't look twice at someone who acts like that. You can do much better, as you can tell its not on the outside that counts its on the inside too. If you weren't a decent human being you wouldn't be asking advise about this guy, you would already be dating him. I think you know that he is a jerk. Go with you instincts.
2007-03-14 08:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares how hot this guy is. he is a complete dick head. if mandy is your friend and the guy you like is making fun of your friend. you should not want to be with him in the first place. friends last longer than relationships with guys. especially ones like that. making fun of someone because they have a disease that they can't help just makes them shallow.
2007-03-14 08:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by h.b.i.c. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away.
Do you really want to go out with a guy who you KNOW has the capacity for cruelty? How long before he does the "mean act" to you...
2007-03-14 08:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by sanity_in_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pfft guys, wish they were easy to understand. tbh, this guy seems complicated and hes sending mixed signals. if hes alryt with you, maybe ya should say summit to him, and hint that you like him, however, ya mate might see this has backstabbing becos he bullies her, and ya know all bout that lol however, before owt try n find out if he likes ya, then take it from there, but i promise ya, it wont be an easy ride x
2007-03-14 08:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by NoName 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hottest thing going or not, a jerk is a jerk. Run in the other direction!!
2007-03-14 08:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by georgiagrits1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's just a d*ck. Ask yourself--Do you really want to be with someone who's that rude?
2007-03-14 08:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by It will eat you soon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a loser. Don't go out with him. Instead E-mail me and we can talk about it before you go out with him.
2007-03-14 08:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Alex K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋