To all the People who are married..........?

Question

Are you happy?
Do you believe in marriage vows?
Have you ever cheated/been cheated on?
If so, have you forgiven?

Answer 1

Yes
Yes
No
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Answer 2

I've lived with my wife for 14 years and been married for 8.

Most of the time I am happy and I believe in marriage vows. I am tempted sometimes by other women and if the right set of circumstances came up I might cheat. But I haven't up to this point. I don't believe anyone who says they would never cheat under any circumstances. If I did cheat I would not expect the marriage to be the same afterwards. Whether we would stay together - who knows.

I think the key to happiness is never say never to anything and leave all options open. That way you don't feel trapped and are less likely to stray.

I would bet that at least 50% of the people who disagree with this will be divorced in the next year or so - they are only fooling themselves.

Answer 3

Are you happy? Yes
Do you believe in marriage vows? Yes
Have you ever cheated/been cheated on? No

Answer 4

I will be married 4 years next month. I am very happy. I love being married! Yes I believe in marriage vows or else I wouldn't be married! lol I have never been cheated on and I have never cheated.

Answer 5

Yes I am happy never cheated on husband and hes never cheated on me I take my vows seriously. We have came close to ending it a couple of times over things that were a problem to me that if he didnt change I was ready to walk out. But we are still here almost 9 years and looking forward to more years to come.

Answer 6

Are you happy? Sort of
Do you believe in marriage vows? No
Have you ever cheated/been cheated on? No
If so, have you forgiven? N/A

Answer 7

1) Most of the time, but happiness is not the benchmark of a successful marriage. No one is happy every day of their married life.

2) Yes. I made my vows to my wife before God and man. They were not merely words said in some ritualized ceremony, but a solemn vow that sealed a covenant between my wife and I and God that is for life.

3) No

4)Thank God this has not been necessary because of the answer to #3.

Answer 8

I am happy but wish that I could be happier.
I do believe in marriage vows.
I cheated on my ex and he also cheated on me. I would not want to cheat on the man that I am now married to.
I have never forgiven the first man who cheated on me. He got the other woman pregnant.

Answer 9

Are you happy? yes

Do you believe in marriage vows?yes

Have you ever cheated/been cheated on? yes to both in past relationships

If so, have you forgiven?yes because it doesn't matter anymore

I would divorce my husband if he cheated.

Answer 10

Yes Im happy
Yes I believe strongly in marriage vows
Neither of us have cheated on each other
Would i forgive him if he ever did? If it was an affair for weeks on end then No NEVER. If it was a one night stand then Maybe i would really have to think about it as it would kill me leaving him after all these years. But im about 98% sure i would walk and NEVER look back.

Answer 11

I am happy.

I believe in the marriage vows I took, but they didn't include concepts of fidelity. My wife can sleep with others, and I with others (my wife get's veto power on that one).

My wife cannot cheat on me. She has my permission to sleep with whomever she wishes, so that wouldn't be cheating (Cheating: to break the rules for personal advantage or gain).

I could cheat on my wife, if I didn't get her permission and slept with someone, but I don't wish to be dishonest or secretive.

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