Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

Ok here is my story. My bf and I were in love (or so he told me). I went on a vacation for 2 weeks and during that time I missed him BADLY. But also during that time he found out he had gallstones so he was hospitalized for a few days. I got home from my vacation a couple of days after he got out of the hospital. I was excited to see him cause I missed him so much. But, the first day I got back, we only talked on the phone for 10 mins until he 'had to go'. That entire week, everytime I tried to call him he wouldnt pick up, when i tried to talk to him about feeling ignored, he got upset, he told me he was going through a lot of pain & was very busy & that he had to 'put me aside' for a while. I felt so neglected but also so bad at the same time b/c I was worried about him & his gallstones & he wouldnt let me console him. & although he told me he was busy & that he couldnt even respond to my text messages b/c he was in so much pain, he still found time to see his friends. At one point

2007-03-14 09:18:07 · 4 answers · asked by haley l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 09:17:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, did it turn into something better?

2007-03-14 09:17:41 · 21 answers · asked by Melissa *aka Memê 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do the not understand that their man is "cheating" if they are watching porn. In fact, it's worse than if he were actually having sex with another woman. If that were the case at least you can actually do something to seduce your man from the arms of another woman. How can you compete with point, click and jerk?

Are women so egositical and self-absorbed that they cannot see this - as long as if he isn't ACTUALLY having sex with another woman it's ok - That's not a very high standard of fidelity.

2007-03-14 09:17:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok this gurl has cheatid on me and idk what to do should i get back with her bc she whants to gety back with me what shouls i do ?

2007-03-14 09:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by 21_thomas _21 1 in Singles & Dating

When she is already with someone else now, even though she won't tell me and I already know. She says she's not but I'm not dumb. Why does she care so much that I need to forgive her, I told her I'm not ready to forgive her right now. I'm still angry and mad at her for leading me on the last 7 months. Funny thing is I broke up with her, and then after she led me on I tried to get back together with her and she stabbed me in the back and kicked me when I was down. What is it with women? I would just love to find one that sticks by you during hard times. It seems hardly any of them do! They say do, but "girls just want to have fun". Like, I really hate her sometimes i just get so angry and mad at what she did, why should I even forgive her. For what purpose? I try to get her out of my head, but somehow she keeps slipping back in. I wish I could just erase her from my memory.

2007-03-14 09:16:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres a girl named dylan yes a girl and i kinda like love her cuz ive known her a long time and i asked her out she sado no i have half a mind to stop liking her and move on but the other says just wait and maybe shell like me what should i do

2007-03-14 09:16:40 · 5 answers · asked by killingthought 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a girl say u were cute and she start stareing at you but u dont do noting but when u stare back she stare right in you eyes then next week her firends stares at the girl then at you her firends smiles at me and her firend looks at me alot and the girl stares at me i stare rgiht back in her eyes she stares back but i just go back to sit what does this mean?

2007-03-14 09:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy at school who likes me but i really hate him. He's very annoying because he constatly pokes me, begs for my screen name (which i wont give to him), etc. I tried ignoring him and i yelled at him a few times to shut up (when i got frustrated), and finally, today i just told him i didn't like him. However, he still bothers me and repeatedly asks me "why am i annoying? how am i annoying? huh? why won't you tell me? how am i annoying? i'll change. just tell me. How am i annoying? c'mon tell me how am i annoying." the thing is i don't want him to change because of me. That would be being someone who you're not. But he won't give up and stop bothering me until i go out with him. To make things worse, I'm in EVERY SINGLE ONE OF HIS CLASSES and my locker is right next to his! What should I do?

2007-03-14 09:15:01 · 1 answers · asked by Alice 3 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends who has known my bf since 1st grade said that my bf smokes pot...i have no idea if that is true but imma bout to get to the bottom of that if i find out that he does should i dump him?

2007-03-14 09:14:37 · 2 answers · asked by Audrey♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

The exact words he used were, "she's cool peeps, but I'm still kinda messed up from my last relationship". What does that mean? How am I suppose to take that? I just got out of a bad relationship myself a year ago and don't want to be hurt again, either. He knows what happened to me, but I don't know what happened to him and his best friend doesn't have all the details either. We're always together, just on chill mood. And I've fallen in love with him. And he knows. But, I really don't know how to take this last statement. I'm not sure if I should just leave him alone, just be his friend still, or see where things could go. What should I do?

2007-03-14 09:14:20 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Nana♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 09:14:15 · 9 answers · asked by miharox 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

BABY Boomers or Adult Children Please if you don't mind.

My Mother is very ill and is almost 78 y/o. She is suffering Heart Failure and CHF as well. She has a damaged Heart Valve now and 2 other Heart Valves are malfunctioning. She also is suffering from COPD and I am told now has Pneumonia.

She has had 2 Open Heart surgeries and is a mess. She's now in the Hospital, and on top of this was abusing her Pain Meds with a needle intraveinously.

I feel this is the beginning of the end for her. I am her only son and have 4 Sisters 40 - 52 y/o. I am 47 and a Disbaled Veteran. My Mom has been my Buddy a lot in my life and we used to go fishing and gambling, and I love her deeply.

I'm not sure I am ready for this event although I lost my Father at 15. It didn't hit me as hard.

How do/did you prepare for this, and how did you handle the loss of your Mother or parent? How have you coped afterwards?

Serious thoughtful experienced answers only Please!

2007-03-14 09:14:07 · 9 answers · asked by The Sylvan Wizard 5 in Family

Ok i started talking to this girl on msn and on the phone last week. but latley i cant get her out of my mind and i get depressed when ever i am not talking to her. i think about her every seconed of the day. i need advice cuz she is grounded till she is 18 and thats not till december 29 little over 9 months away. i need to see her but i dono how cuz of her parents. any ideas how i can see her? o yeah i live an hour away.

2007-03-14 09:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Singles & Dating

what's up with stay at home moms suntanning in the yard? do they really want us guys to look or not?

2007-03-14 09:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i met the guy of my dreams on december 31 2006 ( new years eve) we been dating since then, he treats me really good we spend alot of time together he spoils me rotten. and this morning i got a a phone call from him that almost gave me a heart attack. He told me you know i love you and i really care about you i love your company and i dont want to loose you. Then he told me that he was getting back with his EX so he wont be able to spend as much time with me, but he still wants to see me because he loves me and this is hurting him also. Ive never been a situation like this before, i feel like i already lost him. Are any ladies in a situation like this?? please help. It's not going to be easy for me to just let go. What do i do?

2007-03-14 09:12:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 09:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My son is 22, never finished high school, won't get his GED, has had 2 great jobs as a heavy equipment operator, (very good at it) making really good money but lost both of them due to hanging out with his friends, coming in late to work and refusing drug test on the last one. His BF (23) comes from a wealthy family, married, 1 child and has never worked a day in his life, living off G-mother's millions, uses drugs. My son lives with him and his wife and they don't do a darn thing. I just can't accept the idea that my son won't work, never comes to see us, won't offer to help his father, but will break his neck to help his friend and his friend's father out. I am so hurt and angry at this. His father and I bust our butts working...(me-60 hours week). We've tried to set a good example for him. I just don't understand it. Yes he is his own man but I'm very upset over this. Anyone going through the same thing??

2007-03-14 09:12:25 · 10 answers · asked by luvnau 2 in Family

2007-03-14 09:11:48 · 27 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship - very open and loving. He's in Iraq now, and things started out great. Now, for the past two weeks all we've been doing is fighting. I recently turned 21, and lied to him about boys being around that night - i feel terrible for lying, but I wanted to steer clear of an unnecessary fights (obviously i only caused one). Then he saw a picture of me and a girlfriend kissing each cheek of one of the guys that was there. It was an innocent picture, but it upset him. We had been fighting about it for awhile, and we finally made up the other day. Now, out of no where, he tells me that he thinks that I am falling for another guy, and just keeping my boyfriend as a type of secrity net - which really offends me considering Ive been nothing but faithful for the 4 months he's been gone. Anyway, all we do fo rthe past 2 weeks is fight. I need to know how to make it better. he really is my everything - and I love him with all of my heart.

2007-03-14 09:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by beckyvincenzes 2 in Singles & Dating

Firstly, should i tell this girl i have Pectus Excavatum (sunken chest) before we start getting romantically involved, things get serious?

Secondly, will it bother her. Girls would it bother you, if you found out the boy you fancied had a deformed chest?

I don't want her to get her hopes up then find out i'm a physical freak, i would feel guilty for allowing her to fancy me, without knowing all the facts about me.

2007-03-14 09:11:27 · 23 answers · asked by YMe? 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship - very open and loving. He's in Iraq now, and things started out great. Now, for the past two weeks all we've been doing is fighting. I recently turned 21, and lied to him about boys being around that night - i feel terrible for lying, but I wanted to steer clear of an unnecessary fights (obviously i only caused one). Then he saw a picture of me and a girlfriend kissing each cheek of one of the guys that was there. It was an innocent picture, but it upset him. We had been fighting about it for awhile, and we finally made up the other day. Now, out of no where, he tells me that he thinks that I am falling for another guy, and just keeping my boyfriend as a type of secrity net - which really offends me considering Ive been nothing but faithful for the 4 months he's been gone. Anyway, all we do fo rthe past 2 weeks is fight. I need to know how to make it better. he really is my everything - and I love him with all of my heart.

2007-03-14 09:11:14 · 3 answers · asked by beckyvincenzes 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 09:11:11 · 17 answers · asked by kristymnwa 1 in Family

Here's the situation: Basically, my girlfriend is the busiest woman on Earth. She works full time and goes to school full time so basically the only time I see her is on Friday night and usually most of the day Saturday.The type of program she's in there is a lot of extra curricular activities and some weekends she has class all weekend. So we don't really get to spend any quality time together and it's really starting to get to me. Our relationship has changed since she started school and it's not that we don't get along. She is such an amazing woman and both of us are head over heels in love. But she just has no time for me. What can I do? What should I do?

2007-03-14 09:10:59 · 15 answers · asked by kungfumasterzod 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents are going to seperate and i'm only 14. Is it my fault?

2007-03-14 09:10:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-14 09:09:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anna C 1 in Family

2007-03-14 09:09:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-14 09:09:43 · 6 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Friends

I just came from Russia so Im not so good yet in spelling.

2007-03-14 09:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex wrote me an email stating for the past 6 years he had hated himself and that he had decided to change for the better. That he was tired of throwing his life away. In there he also threw something in about another chance and starting things new. Can a person truly change if they have decided to do it on their own in their best interest?

2007-03-14 09:09:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating