Ok i started talking to this girl on msn and on the phone last week. but latley i cant get her out of my mind and i get depressed when ever i am not talking to her. i think about her every seconed of the day. i need advice cuz she is grounded till she is 18 and thats not till december 29 little over 9 months away. i need to see her but i dono how cuz of her parents. any ideas how i can see her? o yeah i live an hour away.
2007-03-14 09:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn, her parents need to chill-what the heck did she do to get grounded for that long! Try to see if u can get them to let her off by at least the summer. Maybe she can compromise.
2007-03-14 09:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a little obsessive in your thinking. What did she do to be grounded for such a long time????? The last thing she needs is to get into more trouble with her parents, who must have some valid reasons for grounding her. Be careful here. If you push it, they may even take her off msn, and your communication lines will really be down. You haven't even met this girl yet. Don't you think it's a little early to be thinking of her every second of the day? As grandma used to say, "Don't put all your eggs in one basket." Get out and explore other things and possibilities; who knows who else you might meet, and where?
2007-03-14 09:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your being lied too. The girls grounded for 9 months? Come on now if it doesnt sound right its probably a lie. If shes allowed to talk on the phone and msn how grounded is that? Tell her you want to meet her after school if she uses the Im grounded tell her that doesnt make sense and that your going to give her time to think up a better lie. Then dont reply or im her anymore. Parents dont ground their kids for 9 months come on now! Especially 17 year olds.
2007-03-14 09:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her parents wishes cause she must have done something for her parents to ground her until she turns 18 and trust me it won't last that long anyway so just be patient and don't try to rush into things. I mean you just met her and I know that the chemistry is there for you but does she feel the same way about you? Give it some time and just wait it out. It will all workout.
2007-03-14 09:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents need to be aware that you are in the picture, and be aware that you are honoring their wishes. I guarantee that if you do this they will have a great amount of respect for you.
The love you have for her will be there. It will seem like an eternity but it is only temporary. Wait it out.
2007-03-14 09:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by SONG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go against her parents wishes. If it is meant to be in 9 months you will be together. Use the 9 months to really get to know eachother.
2007-03-14 09:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe guys can meet at a local library in between the two towns . I assuming her parents would let her go to the library. But if not meet her at her local library. sorry that is all I got.
2007-03-14 09:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um is she so bad that shes gotta be grounded till shes 18?
maybe shes not worth it, after all u do live far.
2007-03-14 09:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be lying bout her age....
you never know when your on msn. Chat rooms and stuff like that
2007-03-14 09:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get enough nerve to go introduce yourself to her parents and find out how old she really is and then if she is almost eighteen i would ask for premission for you to talk to her in front of her parents...you have to earn their trust...you won't get nowhere if you try to sneak around
2007-03-14 09:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by La Rhonda V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋