Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

we've been goin together on and off for 2 and a half almost 3 years ive had to break up wit him 3 outta the 4 times we broke up...he never rly cheated on me but it just gets to be to much because he does sumthin stupid for instance choose another gurl over me but always comes crawlin back and i let him back...hes put me threw so much but i rly want it to work...and he says he does too idk i mean i love the kid...

2007-03-14 09:35:50 · 15 answers · asked by hot little redhead 2 in Singles & Dating

My last question must have offended someone since it only lasted long enough for 9 people to answer. So I'm posting it again right here.

Question Details: Do you boys agree that if you are dating a girl and break her heart that her Dad should get to
A. Choke you with his bare hands.
B. Repeatedly hit you with an axe.
C. Shoot you on sight like a wild dog.
D. All of the above.
I'm voting for D. It sounds more fun. It is this or maybe you kids should forget about dating until you get to college. Girls you should stop and think, is this the guy who I want to spend my life with. Think about his characteristics, his ability to support himself (remember girls you have to support yourself), will he be a good family man or do you just like his looks? These are questions you should ask yourself about every boy and boys about every girl. Then maybe we can stop these Does he/she like me, so-n-so broke up with me, what do I do questions.

2007-03-14 09:34:30 · 5 answers · asked by Quix 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 09:34:15 · 6 answers · asked by kellermaleintx2 1 in Singles & Dating

if u asked "whatever" which hand did she used, would she answer back "whatever!"

2007-03-14 09:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy that i really like and i want to lose my virgintiy to him but, i dont know weather he likes me hes quite flirty but i dont know weather thats just his personality or that he likes me, what do i do? x

2007-03-14 09:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by xXxJane & CescaxXX 1 in Singles & Dating

CAN A 90 DAY HAIR TEST GO BACK MORE THAN 90 DAYS

2007-03-14 09:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by evanstravasos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that I have known for years. Starting last April, we began to flirt a lot with each other. I confronted and ignored her a bit over the summer, but she spent times alone with me. I started to like her fall of last year, and I told her five times that I liked her. She just said that she did not want it to alter our friendship, but she never told me she was not interested. It came to a head as she continued to flirt, and I finally asked her outright how she felt. She said she does not like me and never did! Her actions have betrayed her for a whole year, and now, I feel hurt and confused. Why did she play with my heart like that?? What should I do about our friendship??

2007-03-14 09:33:09 · 15 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm curious to know what others think. I believe that in-love is just a state of mind we made up. When one says i'm in love in actually they're saying I'm infactuated with(involvement of feelings and emotions) or In lust with that individual. Love is love and there is no in-love stage. To me it's either you love a person or you don't. Love is an action not a feeling, but yoet we get love confused with our emotions and feelings. Love never fails, but our emotions and feelings does, and it will mislead us into making unwise decisions. You can compare saying i'm in love to wind. B/c you never know which direction the wind will blow and the same way with your feelings and emotions(which is like a roller coaster). So ask yourself the next time you use that phrase, "I'm in-love" if it's feelings (emotional attachment), or love (which doesn't involve feelings or emotions).

2007-03-14 09:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by unknown 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 16 months and I am only a sophmore in highschool. I am getting bored and i want to be single again. I dont want to go through highschool with the same boyfriend. I dont want to make a huge mistake and break up with though. What should i do?

2007-03-14 09:32:15 · 40 answers · asked by JAV 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 09:31:53 · 3 answers · asked by onesweetday25 1 in Weddings

My friend has told me that her mates boyfriend has made a pass at her several times when they have been alone together, coz he pops over to her house without his gf.
She has told him lots of times that it would never happen and that she respects her friend too much, but she asked me if she should tell her friend.

I said that she should but she is worried about losing her friends friendship, coz he has cheated on her before and she never believed it.

2007-03-14 09:31:50 · 26 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

make us feel unwanted because of the way wwe look or somethin like that

2007-03-14 09:31:07 · 17 answers · asked by ivette o 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to knwo all my friends wanna be first and i cant take it no more....

2007-03-14 09:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffany m 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex split up in august of last year, wheni had just found out i was pregnant. He is standing by me and the baby, nut he started seeing someone who is 14 years younger than him. I feel so hurrt by this as i thought we would have got back together eventually.

I miss him so bad and feel totally lost. I am 30 years old and will be a single mother of 3. We are extremely good friends but i cant seem to get over him. Our daughter is due any day now and i'm feeling so low in myself. My self esteem and confidence have virtually all but gone, i feel fat and really unatractive.

Please help

2007-03-14 09:29:56 · 8 answers · asked by ditched29 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me today that my date to prom "Thinks," I'm obsessive? I think it's werid because I barly talk to him. Text him every once and a while, but that is just to see how his day is?

I like this guy and I want him to be able to talk to me. BUT I've never had a BF before so?? I need help =0( What should I do? I'm new to all of this.
Please help
♥ Becky

2007-03-14 09:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

above says it all.

2007-03-14 09:29:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 09:29:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 16 and I work with this man who is 39, we get on really well and we are always flirting, it has always been a bit of harmless fun, until the other day when he suggested we have sex. I really like him and I think if i don't have sex with him he will ignore me or be nasty at work, and will be really akward as I am with him 7 days a week. Help me please.

2007-03-14 09:29:16 · 64 answers · asked by Janey-Wayney 1 in Singles & Dating

Bridesmaids are in mintgreen, Groomsmen/Ring Bearer are in cream & the Bride is in white

2007-03-14 09:29:14 · 30 answers · asked by journey 1 in Weddings

when i like a guy he likes me we're together but when he becomes possessive i get grossed out and want out of it. does this mean i dont like him? cuz now that im married and my husband does that i laugh about it and dont mind it but infact think its funny or cute or im not sure what but i kinda like it..so why did i get grossed out b4 when i had BF's..

2007-03-14 09:29:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it cheap of me to want a one night stand?

2007-03-14 09:28:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i get my boyfriend over the fact that i've been with another person when we wern't together?

the story:
me and this guy dated for a year and a half before we broke up and stopped talking because of constant arguing and unhappiness. we didn't talk for an entire two months, and we both did our thing. he started talking to this girl, who he had sex with, and actually had feelings for. they wern't mutual however, the girl just considered him as a lay buddy. i however had sex with a guy that used to like me when me and my boyfriend were dating, but i never acted upon it. i also made out with a couple other guys, but just for fun, nothing serious.

the thing is, he keeps bringing it up, and he tells me how he can't get the picture of someone else touching me out of his mind. although he did the same thing, i'm not as worried about it. how do i make him realize that he's the one i want to be with, and to get his mind off me sleeping with another guy?

2007-03-14 09:28:30 · 8 answers · asked by elaina jay 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and her husband are in the middle of a divorce, but he threw her out of the house. She's been spending the night at her friends house. Overnight, he went and took her car, so she was stranded at her friends house unable to go to work or anything. They have a joint account, so yesterday she went and took out $2500 so she can buy herself an apartment. today, he went and told the bank that she had no right to take that money, that she was stealing it from him, blah blah blah.
what's worse is they have a 2 year old daughter that he threw out with her and the daughter is staying with my friend's mother for the time being.
WHAT CAN SHE DO?! she's taking him to court to finalize the divorce and for custody of the child. but is there anything else that she can do?
Please help.

2007-03-14 09:28:23 · 11 answers · asked by brown_eyed_girl_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my school mates died on sunday and I am going to place some flowers where he was found tomorow, I want to write something tasteful in the card and not a cliche, for example " gone but not forgotten", dont get me wrong at a time like this I know everone this is how everyone feels i just want something original to say. One of my friends wrote "no-one should go alone" which i thought was very sympathetic and i would like to write someting similar, any ideas?

I'd like to keep it short as possible

2007-03-14 09:27:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is the best way to do this

thanks
cubs1002001

2007-03-14 09:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by cubs1002001 2 in Family

hi..ok so im jsut wondering...my ex n I were each others first loves n then we broke up after 2 1/2 yrs of being together. he then called me in july 05 (after 2 months of not talking) and we have been basically together since. we had lots of drama during our relationship n we both made mistakes that we have apologized for. we started getting serious in december but he is still not ready to give me a title of being his gf. he says that i can call it dating or seeing each other. he says that he is committed to me tho like there are no other girls n im his only girl. i kno he loves me n he is tryin but sometimes our arguements suck. he is going thru alot rite now wit his health and family and he is tryin with me but he says hes not ready for the title. we do everything couples do we are together. the problem is im goin thru this insecurity problem wit him like i feel real insecure and i dont know if its b/c i dont have the title. i always give in but he does his part 2. any advice??

2007-03-14 09:27:16 · 5 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine was fine..boring..school..How was your guys? whats on your mind?..Food and homeworks on mine.........=)

2007-03-14 09:26:34 · 24 answers · asked by little miss sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

She ignores me alot and always stares at me but I had someone tell her that I liked her and I don't know if she's doing that to ignore me or shes to shy.

2007-03-14 09:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seriously, my doctor gave me anti depressions it been so bad dealing with her. My mother is insane… she keeps throwing screaming fits about her dress not being good enough and other bull. She doesn’t want me to get married. She is a lunch lady and lives very modestly but screamed at me for making her buy a dress at David’s bridal because she didn’t want to wear off the rack…. Wanted champagne and saw a dress in haper bazer she rather has by Calvin Klein. OK, my mother buys all her clothing from Kmart right now… It’s been soo bad I just been avoiding her. I am 30 years old, this is my second home I owned and I have lived in PA since I was 24, my mom lives in NJ. I am getting my master right now and working full time. My mother just called one of my bridesmaids and told her she rather I marry someone else…. Was returning her dress to the store… that my fiancé controls me and makes me live in PA…. and I am wasting my BFA by pursing a master for a teaching degree???? She also told my bridesmaid that my fiancé drove around without car insurance…..which is a lie because the real story is he got dropped for car insurance and when he went to pay his bill he found out they illegally dropped him a month ago. He of coarse got car insurance that day! It’s so strange because she always acted like she like my fiancé but not hates him?? She even comment she would have rather I married this Rob “who was nice to hear” but verbal abusive to me??!!! And she hated Rob when I dated him… She is being off the wall and so insane….. She isn’t giving us a dime but told me I bought my dress in a **** hole and why didn’t I go somewhere better?? She keeps comparing herself to her cousin which I don’t get and pointed out several times to her…. Lynn paid for her whole daughter’s wedding so therefore she gets control. Now she is driving my bridesmaids’ nuts with the shower because it’s almost like she wants to ruin it.

Ok here is the question- what do you do?? Do you try to talk it out with an insane woman who can’t get through a conversation with without her screaming about some random thing? Or should just ignore her for now and pray the god that it goes away??? I am afraid she is going to start at Easter in front of family………..

2007-03-14 09:26:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok, my boyfriend an i havent been getting along lately and his birthday is today, i bought him 2 coogi sweaters last monday, but i took them back yesterday and got a hair weave with the refunded money, and today he calls me and now we're cool again, but i dont have a gift for him neither do i have any money to get him the gift what do i say when he come over tonight

2007-03-14 09:26:19 · 6 answers · asked by DAYUM I 1 in Singles & Dating