OK, here's the situation. I used to turn down most invitations, because when I would ask my girl to go with me, she never wanted to go (she is shy). Well, I've come to realize she has no intentions of making any attempts to get over her issues, and we always fight about the fact that she doesn't want to know the people in my life. Me and my cousins made plans to go to Big Bear over a weekend, but for her a trip like that with strangers would be quite uncomfortable. If she took the time to get to know them in the beginning of the relationship, it wouldn't be so uncomfortable. So my options are to a) go without her, or b) skip out on trips. Anyways, after she turned that invite down, I promised I would never turn an invite to go out with friends or family again. I will always ask if she wants to go, so far, she still always rejects my invitations. Now, she is mad at me because I spend more time with friends than with her, and that's not the way a relationship should be.
2007-03-14
09:48:34
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