Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's strange, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you almost every weeknight, it was only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me. I also remember that you told me I obsessed over you. I guess I did and I'm sorry, but what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose

2007-03-14 10:14:33 · 1 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

i've been together with a man in a long distance relationship for over a year. He's nice, sweet, caring (the quintessential nice guy) but has a tendency to take things too easy i'm afraid. I on the other side am an extremely hard working woman. We both are divorced, but he went to live with his mom after his divorce left him depressed and broke. It's been 2 years now and he hasn't moved a finger in order to find a place for himself. He doesn't have a car, and lives by a string of part-time jobs. When he has time on his hands, he takes naps. He doesn't care about hitting 40 this year. He just wants to take it easy. Now, is this guy depressed? Could he be on drugs? Isn't 2 years way over average time to get back on your feet?
We decided to get together this summer, but i'm thinking it might not be worth it.

2007-03-14 10:13:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where in the world can you see the most breathtaking sunset/sunrise viewed from the beach. Now i know that some of you might be biased towards your own country but please try to be neutral as you can as i genuinely would like to know many thanks

2007-03-14 10:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with this really pretty women that everyone in the office would like to be with. I'm fortunate that she's interested in me, however, while talking with her today in my cubicle I noticed she had a couple of long nose hairs sticking out of her nostril. I was kind of turned off because I saw her in a different light. I want to go out with her but I can't get past the hairy nostril. What are your thoughts...and don't say tell her about it, because none of you would as that would embarass her and it would make you look like a jerk.

2007-03-14 10:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok their is this boy i really like and we avoid each other but at this ball his mate kept on saying ask him to dance with me and that he says im having a good time but i said i dont want to ask him to dance and his mates keep on embarrassing me around him, but the thing me and this boy neva lyk talk to each im not sure wht this means, ive said hi hi to him and he responds but we never go up to each other and talk, do you think he fancies me or hes not intersted? he knows i like him and his mates embarrass me in front of him and he doesnt do anything. and his mates talk about him to me when i go up to them. and another thing he talks to other girls more but when hes around me he doesnt talk to me that much i feel left out and sometimes he says oh i like her as a mate but im shy around, and evrytime i see him he looks down or allover the place, just dont know what it means can you help. he never been out with a girl before and everyone says i should move on that he doesnt fancy me.

2007-03-14 10:12:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also, how can I ever get over a crush when I see her every day? I have tried reducing the number of times I see her in school by avoiding her in the halls, and not looking at her in class, but I still can't get over her. She's beautiful and I can't resist, but I really want to. It's killing me thinking about her, and how I will never be with her.

2007-03-14 10:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Instead of our dad. Well he hasn't been in her lfe like that, but he has always been around me. Even still don't you think she should let him walk her down the aisle instead of her brother? She was going to let dad do it, but her and her mom got into an argument on why would she ask my dad to do it instead of her mother's husband. Well the thing is she doesn't get along with her mother's husband b/c he tried to molest her years ago and her mother didn't believe her. So to not cause any confusion she chose her brother... Do you think she should choose dad or her brother? And if she does choose her brother, should she tell dad the reason why? My fiance told me not to sweat it cause I'm "daddy's little girl" and he would be happy just by walking me down the aisle. But I can't help but be upset b/c I feel like he should be the one to walk her too.

2007-03-14 10:11:55 · 33 answers · asked by Mrs. Hester 3 in Weddings

get him to get a vibe? He loves me and i love him but hes shy schould i make a move or what???

2007-03-14 10:11:12 · 16 answers · asked by Flame B 1 in Singles & Dating

He is 18 years old, and a total asshole. He calls his mom "the c word" and yells at her when he doesnt get his way. He has pushed her a few times, and over the summer he kicked my girlfriend and he got arrested for it. I had to restrain myself from beating the crap out of him when he came home the next morning, instead i brought her back to my house and she lived with us from july til february. My mom said she cant stay forever and in february suggested she go live with her grandparents. She was going to and then her brother said he doesnt want her to be afriad of him and he is sorry he hit her, and was acting nice to her. We were getting along fine, then one day he pissed his mom off by saying offensive stuff and she slapped his face, so he called the police on her. Then he was back to being a dick again. Now i guess he has been calmer for the past couple of weeks, but i dont know when he will flip again. It is inevitable he will again, any ideas?

2007-03-14 10:11:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My crush thinks I'm super freaky smart, like genius smart just because I'm passing all of my classes. How can i get him to see that I'm really not that smart. This year I've did the best in grades..normally I make straight B's and a couple of A's..but now i'm making all A's..

2007-03-14 10:11:05 · 10 answers · asked by <3 Jennie <3 2 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months and we never fight about anything or disagree i was wondering if theres something wrong with us or does anyone else have a boy/girlfriend like this? and also he never calls me unlees he wants to make plans to see each other which is like everyday but still o and were engaged and im only 14 but were truly in love nd out of all my relasonships and his we never loved any of or ex's just each other

2007-03-14 10:10:35 · 9 answers · asked by jennalee813 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, a deep belly laugh that makes you yelp like a wild goose, or drown in hiccup-like sounds? lol

2007-03-14 10:10:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Please help. He is sending me pictures of his genatles. I don"t know he is doing thiS. HOW DO I TEL HIM TO STOP!

2007-03-14 10:09:37 · 17 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well me and my step cousin been together for a while and everywhere we go everybody say we are a cute couple and to let u know my family found out and we got seperated for a while but we still talk and we can't let go it's like we really love each other and I don't think his mother and my uncle goin to stay together so I don't know.

2007-03-14 10:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i hav dis frined and i think she hates me. she liked to flirt with the guy i used like and she and she told him sumeting bad about me to make her look good/..but she was the one who told him i like him..

2007-03-14 10:09:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so i met this guy when i went over my cuzins house and hes good friends with my cuzin. soo he told my cuzin he thinks im cute and i like him too. we talked for like 2 weeks and then last weekend we went to the movies. he brought my cuzin along with him and i brought my best friend. i dont know if he likes my friend or not but he was being extra friendly and nice to her and they talked more then me and him did. it was sorta weird. i wanna know if he likes me or my friend or not but i dont know how to find out? i mean if he likes my best friend i dont have a problem with it. what shud i do?

2007-03-14 10:09:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bff are the best together! ... but we have one probleme ... we are always always fighting! she says it makes us stronger together but it does not!

2007-03-14 10:08:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey gentlemen i need some relationship help ok, well theres this guy and he said that he has liked me since he had first saw me and we would have been together but i had a boyfriend. well me and this boy would talk all night long and he would just talk about sexually doing stuff with me and what would i do to him and he also thinks there a possability of falling in luv, and he had a girlfriend wen this was all happening and then i started going out with someone then right now me and that guy dont even talk..but he calls me and always wants to meet up but him and the girl he was with just broke and i dont want to be his rebound chick idk if he still likes me can u help me plezz...

2007-03-14 10:08:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do you like head for?

2007-03-14 10:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will soon be planning my wedding and want it to be rememberable and want everything to go as smooth as possible. Thank You

2007-03-14 10:07:49 · 8 answers · asked by mudpie 2 in Weddings

ive made out, ive under shirt, and done fun stuff with my fingers. what else is there for me to do for her without going all the way. doesnt have to be serious, just something new for when we're alone. something sweet, fun, pleasing, or even kinky. any ideas are appriciated

2007-03-14 10:06:56 · 7 answers · asked by Rob D 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend got married to this guy after just a year of getting to know him.Now they have been married for about
A year & few months. He is never home and is always too busy claiming to be at work. He is never also avaliable during weekends. I mean they are newly married. She comes complaining to me all the time. But i never seem to know what to tell her i just try and listen to her. But i remember telling her before getting married to this guy to take it easy and don't rush into marriage but that's and old story now. I can never believe that anyone can be that busy all day long and the entire week. I mean i don't think I would live with a man like that.... My question is whatzzz up with guy and how can he treat his wife like this?

2007-03-14 10:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

I can't seem to get my heart to listen to my head.I know my ex is not good for me. But after being together for 14 years, my heart still loves him. My head knows it's over, I just wish my heart would catch up with it. Any ideas on how to do this, so that I can fully move on from him?

2007-03-14 10:06:29 · 3 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Singles & Dating

preferably in wool

2007-03-14 10:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by pigsblood 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me that he is not happy in our relationship. I have been really needy of him recently when he asked me to give him some space and time to sort out his job situation. As a result of this i started to worry he stopped caring and this made him upset. But there are other situations that made him question our relationship. He told me that after so many problems he is not enthusiastic and motivated about us anymore? He said he has tried really hard but nothing has improved and he is tired of that. Do you have any advice on how to make things better and how to get his motivation back please?

2007-03-14 10:06:24 · 8 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my wife are getting a divorce.We both go to court next monday for temp-custody.No one has custody of the kids,but my wife has a(court order)to pay child support because the kids live with me 5 nites a week- Plus my wife left the home for a affair and she live with her parents .There was a routine for the kids the last past 7 months.Her check got garnished in feburary,The last week in feburary she took the kid and won't return them.She won't even let me spend time alone with the kids.Then file court paper saying the kids live with her now and she want child support.She telling the courts since their no custody award to no one she don't have to pay child support and that why she took the kids out of the routine . What are my chances of the judge going back to same routine or giving me custody?

2007-03-14 10:06:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Besides a restraining order what can be done? or what type of restraining order? he is a heavy meth user with all kinds of garbage and junk in her yard. He leeches off her for probation fees and takes her money. She is just puzzled and doesnt know how to treat her own grand son? Any ideas? Any answer is a good one here.. thanks...

2007-03-14 10:06:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

heres my situation

thers this girl that ive liked for ages, n we have prom in like a monh or 2, i didnt know if she had a dat or not but cos i get on rlly well wiv her best freinds i asked her, turns out she had been crying cos no1 asked her 9im surprised cos she is a nice girl and pretty), well i asked her to go wiv me n she sed yes.

she still deosnt know i fancey her at this point, i been trying to get to know her more seeing ans right now i barley do, anyway i have thius other freind who knows i fancey this girl and she being the ***** she is shouts it out and the girl i fancey hears and kinda goes red.
i told her it was true, and well now she dont talk to me much, what i need help in is,...

how do i get her to talk to me?
she barley answers me and i have no idea what to do

2007-03-14 10:06:05 · 2 answers · asked by Kevin s 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any guys that arent TOTAL PIGS?!?!?!?!?!

2007-03-14 10:06:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ((ex))boyfriend and i are absolutely crazy about each other, but his mom made him break up with me. It's a long story but she was either gonna call me but he decided to do it himself. But he loves me and almost couldnt do it. He kept apologizing but its not his fault he had to. He was crying cuz he didnt wanna lose me. I keep crying on and off and i miss him. His mom wont let me call him or see him. What should i do? I dont know if we can get back together or not...we love each other but i dont think we can be together. it sux alot and i want to be with him so bad but that it hurts. Help please!

2007-03-14 10:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by Nicole Pruitt 1 in Singles & Dating