ok their is this boy i really like and we avoid each other but at this ball his mate kept on saying ask him to dance with me and that he says im having a good time but i said i dont want to ask him to dance and his mates keep on embarrassing me around him, but the thing me and this boy neva lyk talk to each im not sure wht this means, ive said hi hi to him and he responds but we never go up to each other and talk, do you think he fancies me or hes not intersted? he knows i like him and his mates embarrass me in front of him and he doesnt do anything. and his mates talk about him to me when i go up to them. and another thing he talks to other girls more but when hes around me he doesnt talk to me that much i feel left out and sometimes he says oh i like her as a mate but im shy around, and evrytime i see him he looks down or allover the place, just dont know what it means can you help. he never been out with a girl before and everyone says i should move on that he doesnt fancy me.
2007-03-14 10:12:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 long..i quit readin after the 2nd sentence..sorry
2007-03-14 10:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by ToddMan 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Oh, you are so cute! I think your mates are wrong...I think moving on is not what you should do. It seems really obvious, by the way he acts around you, that he likes you, but probably is so shy that he does not know how to act around you. His behavior is pretty typical of someone who has a crush on another. It sounds like you both are in the same boat: you like each other, but you just don't know how to take the first step. The fact that his mates embarrass you and tease him, does not help the situation; in fact they might be making it more difficult for you two to finally talk. Maybe writing him a letter, telling him how you feel, might make things easier for you, and may clarify what is really going on with him. If he really does like you, then you have put the ball in his court and it will give him the opportunity to respond. If he does not like you that way, then at least you took the chance to find out and you can let go. Either way, you will have a clearer sense of what is going on and you won't feel like you are being left out. Good luck sweetie, and God bless!
2007-03-14 10:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by windsorbins 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever you decide to do, do it when his friends and yours are not around. Tell his friends to bug off.. if the guy likes you he will let you know. Keep saying hi to him and smiling. He just may be too shy to act. Just try not to put him on the spot in front of other people. He might not be interested in you and doesn't want to embarrass you in front of the other kids. Don't push him, but at the same time , let him know you are open to a friendship. Invite him to join you and a group of friends in an activity...like getting a drink or a bite to eat after a sporting event. But what ever you do, leave his joking friends out of the picture. They are not on your side.
2007-03-14 10:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he likes you. Trust me though, if you dont do anything about it (like ask him out to the movies are something) he will never get the courage to ask you (cause he's never had a girlfriend and he's nervous about the whole situation). But I bet if you try and ask him out (try to do it when hes alone and not around the rat pack) he'll probably say yes. You have to take the first step
2007-03-14 10:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by inmaniak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but it sounds to me like he's stringing you on and having a laugh at your expense. He knows you like him and his mates are enjoying teasing you and winding you up about him. If you really liked you he'd pay you some attention, even if it was just on the quiet to avoid embarrassing himself infront of his mates. I'd say look, but don't touch. You'll end up flat on your face if you do, then you'd have the embarrassment. Trust me, I've been there too many times.
2007-03-14 10:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Spottie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's avoiding eye contact hes maybe shy or he doesnt fancy you.
try going up to him and asking him if he fancys meeting up sometime just the 2 of you, and when you ask him make sure hes on his own.
If he makes excuses why he cant then i would take it as a hint he doesnt fancy you.
And if he doesnt then it is his loss, theres always someone special for everyone, theres all more fish in the sea as they say.
2007-03-14 10:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he likes you, but is too embarrass to ask you because of his mates. then again he does know you like him. what you should do atleast is write a letter to him telling how you feel, then don't talk to his mates again about him. if they all of a sudden start talking about him you should try to change the subject or just simply walk away. i wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-14 10:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by elizatinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its sounds like he likes you hes just probably too shy to tell you so he got his friends to break the ice for him so maybe when you see him again just go up to him and talk. the more comfortable he feels around you the better the chance that he will ask you out.
2007-03-14 10:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should take their advice because it seems like he doesn't like you not as a girlfriend anyway. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and this guy doesn't. If he can talk to other girls then he can talk to you if he wanted to. Don't be the fool and move on cause you are better than that.
2007-03-14 10:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol this is kind of cute, you dont' understand GIRL!!!! He like's you! He is very shy because he doesn't know what to say to you. I like a boy who is like that but we are both shy so we are trying to make it work lol... But it's just that he really like's you, the signs so far:
* He treats you differently
* When you look at him he looks everywhere and looks at something ( he may be happy that you are looking at him but too scared to look back)
* HE SAID HE LIKE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Talk to him if you like him , You have to start it make conversation, like find out what he like's and start chitt chatting..
Or sitt with him or something....
If you want to give him a chance and you like him back and don't want to break his heart so just go with him..
Ya'll may be the cutest couple..
2007-03-14 10:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not have to do anything here, just let the affair play itself out . You may find that a solution presents itself naturally. Good luck
2007-03-14 10:29:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋