My friend got married to this guy after just a year of getting to know him.Now they have been married for about
A year & few months. He is never home and is always too busy claiming to be at work. He is never also avaliable during weekends. I mean they are newly married. She comes complaining to me all the time. But i never seem to know what to tell her i just try and listen to her. But i remember telling her before getting married to this guy to take it easy and don't rush into marriage but that's and old story now. I can never believe that anyone can be that busy all day long and the entire week. I mean i don't think I would live with a man like that.... My question is whatzzz up with guy and how can he treat his wife like this?
2007-03-14 10:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No no one can be busy 24/7, not too busy for his wife. This guy sounds like he is giving excuses so he can go cheat. He seems like a cheater. Your friend should always remember, we are only "too busy" for the people we don't want to see and the things we don't want to do
2007-03-14 10:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you know the answer to this, but she allows him to treat her like this. First off, she needs to have her own life.
Interests, hobbies and such. Just because a person is married doesn't mean you lose your identity. So many people do this and its wrong. If she is that unhappy, then, she needs to help make some changes. It very well could be that she is always nagging at him...men/women hate that. Who wants to come home to someone nagging, right? She needs to tell her hubby that she needs more sex and to treat him like a man and not a child.
2007-03-14 17:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some marriages are ruled by one spouse and the other spouse friends get left in the cold.
2007-03-14 17:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of work does he do?
2007-03-14 17:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Edieseb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yea ,,,he can be that busy...cuz he prob has other wives or gf's to attend to,
2007-03-14 17:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋