Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

I really care about Beth, she's 19 and I'm 28 and I know there's a part of her that still cares for me, but I feel she's afraid of gettin hurt. The last time I really felt I was gettin close, she pushed me away and I asked her if that was it and she said it was. She is pushing again and doesn't call me and I've asked her out and she said she doesn't know and she just wants 2 be just friends, but I feel that's one of her ways to attempt 2 push me away. She said she always pushes everyone away, it took her last bf like 4 months to actually break through. I've known here for over a year, but we hadn't talked for almost 5 months in that time. The one thing that I feel really screwed things up, is she thought I was still with my ex, cause my ex call and said she loves me and misses me and Beth just up and left. I want 2 keep pushing, cause I want 2 get 2 her. I started 2 see a part of her, i never had and she pushed me away and blocked me out again...what should I do

2007-03-14 10:45:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So , i really like this guy, (Johnny) I mean, more than i've liked any other guy! But my friend decided to tell him that i like him. so johnny asks my best friend if it's true that i like him and she says yes. Johnny says he doesn't like me like that. So, he's in my math class and everyday he's flirting w/ me like crazy
( i gotta admit, i luv it) ne ways, he acts like he's in love w/ me, but he does flirt w/ other grls, still not as much as he flirts w/ me. . . HELP!

2007-03-14 10:45:10 · 11 answers · asked by LivexYourxLifex 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's strange, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you almost every weeknight, it was only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me. I also remember that you told me I obsessed over you. I guess I did and I'm sorry, but what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose

2007-03-14 10:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a problem
there is this girl i like
she knows i like her
i talk to her like a friend
she flirts with me and stuff
but i just cant ask her out
why and what should i do
there is this other guy i think she likes
help me some one i cant take it anymore!

2007-03-14 10:44:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Now everyone is going to think I asked them. And I hadn't even read them.

2007-03-14 10:44:01 · 2 answers · asked by Gustav 5 in Friends

There is this girl and in the beginning she totally liked me i think. She would flirt with me her eyes would glow shed act like a crazy drunk around me, she would fiddle with stuff. But now she acts all shy and slightly sirly with me. She still acts sort've the same but she now acts all flirty with another guy in my class. She never acted like that around him before. Has she stopped liking me? Does she like him now? What the f*** do I do?! Its driving me nuts!

Additional Details
Shes beautiful. And it wasnt flirting it was deep conversations. And she would look me in the eyes really deeply. They would sparkle. And she was really sweet I dont know if it was just flirting. plus I caught her lookin at me and lookin away when i saw her the other day.


Oh yeah I am 14 and in 8th grade

2007-03-14 10:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online and we have now been dating in person for a few weeks. I'd like to know if anyone has any ideas as what to do for his birthday? I'd appreciate all the help I could get! Thanks!

2007-03-14 10:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by Amber W 2 in Singles & Dating

We are lighting a unity candle outside, and plan on buying globes for candles. The wedding will be on the mountains in June, so it will be windy I am sure. What is the proper way to light them? When do the mothers light them and when will we light our candle?

2007-03-14 10:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

I feel so fat around my boyfriend...I know I am not fat, and I know he thinks I am pretty (he tells me all the time), but he is really, really, really skinny naturally and he plays a ton of sports, and he runs almost every morning. I love him but it's a struggle to keep my weight down...I am 5 feet 4 inches tall and I weigh 113 lbs...he is 5 feet 7 1/2 inches tall and he probably only weighs 120 or so...what can I do to make myself feel less fat? I diet all the time and I exercise two or three days a week. I don't know, I love him but I feel chunky around him! Help!? What can I do to make myself more worthy of him? He's so perfect!

2007-03-14 10:42:23 · 6 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever met a guy that was not a Jerk?

2007-03-14 10:42:05 · 21 answers · asked by lblondie15 3 in Singles & Dating

if you've been cheated on, lookin back what clues were there that your partner was cheating?

2007-03-14 10:41:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello! My name is Jackie and I'm 18. I'm a senior in high school and i had posted this earlier on my sister's yahoo answer's name. I really needed help with something! I realized after i wrote it that they way i had written it was a bit immature so i will start over again. I apologize for the length of this.

I am graduating this year and i feel like this is the year i have found my "best friends" Lets call these friends Person #1 Person #2 Person # 3 and Person # 4." true colors. Sadly enough there colors are black and not a pretty color like orange or green. I am looking for advice as to what i should do in this situation. I hope that someone will be able to help me understand what's going on. Thanks a million :)

-P.S. I REALIZE THIS IS VERY LONG I DO NOT WANT EVERYONE TO READ IT ALL you would be here for days all i ask is that you at least try to read ONE PLEASE! I'm VERY UPSET and i really need help!

-PLEASE HELP please! it would mean so much to me!

2007-03-14 10:41:52 · 2 answers · asked by Julie S 1 in Friends

I would have to say since my last relationship two years ago, every man I meet after a month of things going well I start lashing out and flipping for no reason and im on my third guy and I just want to know how can I stop doing this. For example: last night my current guy was taking too long to rub lotion on my back and that really made me mad but in the old days wt the hell would this make me mad for? I mean this is ruining relationships and I dont know what to do someone please help me.

2007-03-14 10:41:31 · 8 answers · asked by sparkleinureye021 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you guys will prob think this was nothing but i just had class im an18 year old girl in college and we were sitting in a circle so everyone can see each other...and for some reason i like this kid that i HAVE NEVER TALKED TO! lol but i think hes hot and we made eye contact and i looked away really quickly and it was soooooo embarassing for me cuz im shy as hell and selfconsious of my face (cuz i have a birthmark) so i was looking down most of the time and when i looked up i made eye contact with this kid and i wanted to die i was so nervous so i looked away and moved in my seat!!! lol im soooooooo retarded i have never even talked to this kid and i think he lives in my dorm so...lol i feel so stupid cuz hes hot and he must think im the weirdest person in the world...please help and dont be mean lol

2007-03-14 10:41:31 · 16 answers · asked by Katelyn S 1 in Singles & Dating

He is always getting mad at me and thinking that I am calling someone when he is out.I always have men flurting with me,I like to flirt but so does he.I know and trust that he is not cheating on me.I can tell, trust me.I have been cheated on before and can ALWAYS tell.I love him and want to find a way to reasure him that I am not cheating on him.Should I stop flirting? What can I do?I am lost!

2007-03-14 10:41:01 · 12 answers · asked by INLOVE4EVA 1 in Family

well, it seems as if he always turns his head to the side and trys to see if i look at him...and of course i do...but he could just be looking somewhere else.
When i look at him, he looks away or down even though i know he knows that i am looking
and then in my third class with him...i will look at him across the room where he is sort of looking down and in a daze, but then when i look at this other cute guy, i can just feel that he is staring at me again..
gym time came, and he gets really close to me in basketball but then gets embarassed in a way and leaves
now, dont get me wrong, i never JUST look, i mean we have talked before......but we never get the chance to
With all this going on, does it mean he likes me or is wondering why the heck i look at him so much?

i swear that the girl sitting behind him knows my secret by now, but im not sure if he can notice it. Girls catch on to girls intentions while guys are just so clueless

2007-03-14 10:40:59 · 5 answers · asked by kat 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend is 13 and she drinks smokes and does things with boys. How can i tell her that i dont wanna be friends?

2007-03-14 10:40:19 · 14 answers · asked by Gods gurl 1 in Friends

how long does it take before you start to fall in love with a girl?? And what makes you fall in love??

2007-03-14 10:39:16 · 17 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 12 and boys my age (and older) act like idiotic 5 year olds!!!! why are boys my age so stupid?????

2007-03-14 10:38:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he likes to flirt alot

2007-03-14 10:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by Kira K 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well this guy comes up and sits next 2 me in the library my friend wants me 2 talk 2 him what do i do

2007-03-14 10:38:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is the story. I met this girl, who I find is extremely hot. We got to talking and we clicked. All of our mutal friends say she is bad news. Which is true. She is on house arest. She has a son from her first marriage, and the father is a druggie and abuser. Her second husband is doing a stint in prison in another state. She claims she is getting a divorce, which she has not started yet. She has big dreams or ambitions and comes accross as a golddigger. I can provide for her, but not sure the baggage is worth it. Over the past few weeks i have gotten cheap on her, instead of getting a nice meal, I bring over Mcdonalds. Stuff like that, because she can not go anywhere. She also won't introduce me to her son, who she has custody of. i asked her where this was going, and told her what I thought. Now she is not returning my calls. She has read my emails but not replied. She did call my buddy, who is a lawyer, I am assuming it is about the divorce, but he has not called her back yet.

2007-03-14 10:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by desperadooutlawjc 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 10:37:34 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Im getting married next year and am my future husband loves anything to do with the sea and he says getting married with him is getting married with the sea, so im looking for a ring which represents that

2007-03-14 10:36:52 · 7 answers · asked by Karen P 1 in Weddings

Look I am young, 12 i really like this girl at my school. She seems like she hates me. I do not want to show any affection towards her so i am just trying to act like a guy walking past.If i say anything to her its always " shut up"

2007-03-14 10:36:35 · 10 answers · asked by Salgoud R 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you attract someone who "likes you" but is going throughg difficult things in his day but you dont want to loosehis attration toward you.. help????????????????

2007-03-14 10:36:24 · 5 answers · asked by Graveyard Queen™ 4 in Singles & Dating

We met at work and he pursued me for about a month.we didn't date for 2 months after that. We had sex on the 1st date and i am pregnant. It was obvious he was really into me at some point but we fought alot over stupid things and kinda broke up a couple times. We got back together and he was more happy than me about having a kid together. He was looking at baby clothes and engagement rings. He has 2 kids and he actually just got out of that relationship when we started going out. I have issues with him having kids and he has issues with me still being friends with an ex. I no longer work with him. About a week ago we hit a major rut and he told me he would rather be single then fight all the time. He also told me he didn't think having the baby was a good idea. We didn't talk for a week,then he showed up telling me he missed me and was just showing alot of affection and love. we had sex. A few days later he told me he thought he loved me but he reallly doesnt and to have abortion. What

2007-03-14 10:35:43 · 14 answers · asked by brownthing 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend (16) gave me her (dirty) underwear. She told me I know what to do with them, i no she doesnt want me to wear them. so then what do i do with it.

2007-03-14 10:35:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know what i mean when he get's a b.o.n.e.r

2007-03-14 10:35:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sis is in fifth grade and she is in love with a 7th grader she has drule 3 times already i need advice for her

2007-03-14 10:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by Honeybun 1 in Family