if you've been cheated on, lookin back what clues were there that your partner was cheating?
2007-03-14 10:41:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Truthfully nothing, until i went over his house one night and found some skanks underwear in his bed and the worst thing about it was i couldnt even talked to my mom about it cause i snuck out of the house to go see him and thats when i found it so i had to make up a lie about why we broke up but i wouldve never guessed he was cheating on me if he had gotten rid of his bi***es skank a** thongs
2007-03-14 10:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I've been cheated on, but I will never know. Nor does it matter. What matters now is what's happening now. I believe though that there are signs of cheating. Distance, coldness, quietness, no bonding, no talking, no sex.....something is definitely wrong there. I think the number one way to have a happy marriage is to always TALK! Try and understand each other, figure out what the problem is. Find out the other person's fears. Have respect for them!
2007-03-14 17:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gone a lot and for long periods of time. Finding lame reasons for leaving the house. If they used to complain a lot but now they don't do it nearly as much,beware,they are not tripping on what's going on at home because they are getting their happiness elsewhere. But if they never used to complain about anything and not they find fault in everything,that is a sign too. Also suggesting doing something together that you have never done together and acourse a sexual position sometimes can give it away.
2007-03-14 17:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Followed the girl down to the graveyard after the bar closed.
Wasn't coming home til 7:00 in the morning
Dressed up better than usual. (instead of an old crappy tee shirt and jeans)
Started sleeping in a separate bedroom
Became mean to our daughter and me, started fights so we would leave.
Shall I go on?
2007-03-14 17:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by sunset 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first clue was he was always hanging or talking to other woman. The second clue was he was stupid and usually slipped a name or two. A cheater is stupid they always leave some sort of clue and will always be caught.
2007-03-14 17:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way too many to mention. Starting to pick arguments so he would have an excuse to storm out was a big one. Not wanting to be seen with me (we were married) was another one. Not wanting me to touch him in any way, Working later/earlier than usual, etc., etc.,etc.
2007-03-14 17:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by mazell41 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To many to name them all, sometimes he'd pick an argument for an excuse to leave the house, he'd be more attentive at times and he spent alot more money!
2007-03-14 17:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋