Ok, here is the story. I met this girl, who I find is extremely hot. We got to talking and we clicked. All of our mutal friends say she is bad news. Which is true. She is on house arest. She has a son from her first marriage, and the father is a druggie and abuser. Her second husband is doing a stint in prison in another state. She claims she is getting a divorce, which she has not started yet. She has big dreams or ambitions and comes accross as a golddigger. I can provide for her, but not sure the baggage is worth it. Over the past few weeks i have gotten cheap on her, instead of getting a nice meal, I bring over Mcdonalds. Stuff like that, because she can not go anywhere. She also won't introduce me to her son, who she has custody of. i asked her where this was going, and told her what I thought. Now she is not returning my calls. She has read my emails but not replied. She did call my buddy, who is a lawyer, I am assuming it is about the divorce, but he has not called her back yet.
2007-03-14 10:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by desperadooutlawjc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you liked her, you ffed up. but theres plenty of fish in the sea. who knows she might call you, but dont wait on her
2007-03-14 10:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that its not worth it. There are other girls out there who are just as hot as she is and who have way less baggage. firstly she has already been married twice that says alot. what happend in both of those marriages? Second She is on house arrest. good lord you cant even go anywhere with the woman. It sounds to me like she is trouble and that she is trying to use you for everything your worth. Yeah she says she's going to get a divorce now but wait until her husband gets out of jail then what. She will leave you in a heartbeat. Thats usually how that works. My advice to you is hit the door running and dont look back. Thank god she didnt get a divorce yet so that you didnt marry her. I would take this opprotunity and get out and find another hottie preferably one who isnt currently on house arrest.
2007-03-14 17:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on Earth's sake would you want to be involved with such a person? isn't there any good looking girls out there without psycho, convicted felon ex-boyfriends who can go after you?
Why not try a girl without so much baggage? Maybe one that makes better choices? Also, if you feel she's a gold digger, why would you want to be with someone like that? do you not think you deserve a bit better than this?
2007-03-14 17:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you read your question you will get your answer. I am sure she is great but she obviously has some tendencies that will only cause you grief in the future. Don't get wrapped up in this one. Be polite and remember there are other fish in the sea, so keep fishing and throw that one back. best of luck to you and her and especially her son. Given time she may get her act together but she has to do it for herself and her son.
2007-03-14 17:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you another interest, this one is a serious drama queen
with baggage that you really don't need, she wants a co-dependent to save her from time to time when life gets to funky for her, and a friend with benefits that can bail her out as needed. Take this advice and run with it, Good luck
2007-03-14 17:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I missed the question - what do you want to know? Should you spend your money on her? Sure, if you think what you're getting is worth the price. Should you forget her and find someone else? Only if you have the self-respect to make that worthwhile.
2007-03-14 17:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different lifestyles can break up seemingly good relationships. You're attracted to her and you have a good time being with her. But, there's probably lots of women out there that have those 2 qualities, but you don't question their morals or what they want from you. Find one of those women.
2007-03-14 17:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many more hot girls without the mess. It's not only the mess it's also the fact that she wont include you in parts of her life...not cool. Get out now while she can't stalk you/
2007-03-14 17:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by S2k4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well umm go to her house and try to talk to her and ask her what is wrong and maybe she aint good for you then if she cant understand you may be she aint right for u
2007-03-14 17:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by santa paula gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're better off without her.
2007-03-14 17:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Spin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋