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I feel so fat around my boyfriend...I know I am not fat, and I know he thinks I am pretty (he tells me all the time), but he is really, really, really skinny naturally and he plays a ton of sports, and he runs almost every morning. I love him but it's a struggle to keep my weight down...I am 5 feet 4 inches tall and I weigh 113 lbs...he is 5 feet 7 1/2 inches tall and he probably only weighs 120 or so...what can I do to make myself feel less fat? I diet all the time and I exercise two or three days a week. I don't know, I love him but I feel chunky around him! Help!? What can I do to make myself more worthy of him? He's so perfect!

2007-03-14 10:42:23 · 6 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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ur fine just the way u are. im going through the same problem. but ive talked to my boyfriends and my best friend and i asked him for advice and now im telling you the exact same thing he told me. just be urself, relax, and have fun. dont worry, ur boyfriend obviously likes you and hes happy with you, you should be happy with you too.

2007-03-14 10:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by rachi 1 · 0 0

Please. Obviously, you know, in your heart, that you are thinner than most anyone you see around you. Think of your friends and who you know: Which of your friends are your best friends? The ones that MAKE YOU FEEL GREAT! I bet it doesn't matter to you whether a friend you have is 10, 20 or 30 lbs more than they should be. You love them for how special they make you feel and how nicely they treat you. If you are making your boyfriend happy and you treat him nice, that should be IT. If he only cares about your weight: DROP HIM. If you are just too self conscious, you need to change how you feel about yourself.

2007-03-14 10:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda B 1 · 0 0

u sound perfect

i wonder when you first started thinking you were not ok just the way that you are

2007-03-14 10:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by lowroad 1 · 0 0

u r so NOT fat omg and hes with u and he likes you so u shouldnt have to change so yea

2007-03-14 10:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tori 5 · 1 0

You are fine. He is just skinny.

2007-03-14 10:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

your fine like you are .. i feel thesame with my boyfriend

2007-03-14 10:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0 0

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