I would have to say since my last relationship two years ago, every man I meet after a month of things going well I start lashing out and flipping for no reason and im on my third guy and I just want to know how can I stop doing this. For example: last night my current guy was taking too long to rub lotion on my back and that really made me mad but in the old days wt the hell would this make me mad for? I mean this is ruining relationships and I dont know what to do someone please help me.
2007-03-14 10:41:31 · 8 answers · asked by sparkleinureye021 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just wanted to add that I know its something inside me that I need to deal with but I mean are there free counslers out there? I dont have insurance.......
2007-03-14 10:54:10 · update #1
i think you should not have a relationship till this problem is fixed first of all or you will hurt someone that you really love...
me and my boyfriend have been dating for lets see like 3 months now and i used to be snappy all the time...i controlled him so bad so i decided to take a break and just fix myself by trying to deal with different situations you know? maybe just not be with a guy and just learn to take care of the situation as friends and stuff and maybe youll find that you can do it when your just friends...so you can do it when your partners....good luck
2007-03-14 10:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by love_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is a chance that you still think about the relationship that you had before, and your comparing everything to that relationship. I think that you need to just take a break and do some self searching and figure out your self what the real issue is. It may not even be the guys, it may be an issue you have to deal with inside your self.
2007-03-14 17:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by *Stacy Baby* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go on a double date with some close girls
they will tell you what is wrong and probably why you are acting how you are because they have probably gone through the same thing.
I would recommend you just tell the guy that you came out of a serious relationship and if that scares him ohh well
thinks will be better
hope that helps
2007-03-14 17:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must heal from your previous relationships you cannot go from one to another without reviewing what happened
sometimes we want to blame everything and everybody when
it is you that has the real issue, so give yourself sometime
between boyfriends/relationships seek some help then take it one day at a time, being friends first is better than rushing into something new, before its time
2007-03-14 17:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy...
girls dont have too much trust towards men...
my friend which is a really pretty lady got broke up with for absolutley no reason...
then me just today the girl ive been speaking to for 8 months ended it... using an excuse saying she needs to concentrate more in school....
I believe there isnt to much trust out there...
2007-03-14 17:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound trite but it is true - get counseling. Something is wrong since it happens over and over and over such petty things (taking too long to rub on lotion).
2007-03-14 17:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek counsling u obviously have some inner issues u need to work out
2007-03-14 17:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need help,that or ur a manhater,,u need to chill out,and enjoy the company of a guy..
2007-03-14 17:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋