you guys will prob think this was nothing but i just had class im an18 year old girl in college and we were sitting in a circle so everyone can see each other...and for some reason i like this kid that i HAVE NEVER TALKED TO! lol but i think hes hot and we made eye contact and i looked away really quickly and it was soooooo embarassing for me cuz im shy as hell and selfconsious of my face (cuz i have a birthmark) so i was looking down most of the time and when i looked up i made eye contact with this kid and i wanted to die i was so nervous so i looked away and moved in my seat!!! lol im soooooooo retarded i have never even talked to this kid and i think he lives in my dorm so...lol i feel so stupid cuz hes hot and he must think im the weirdest person in the world...please help and dont be mean lol
2007-03-14 10:41:31 · 16 answers · asked by Katelyn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my question is does he think im weird for doing that? why am i soooo weird to be obsessing over this?? he DOES NOT like me i know that for sure we have never talked he was just glancing my way or whatever and i got nervous haha im soooo shy and self conscious lol
2007-03-14 10:49:53 · update #1
what the hell is wrong with me??i shouldnt even be obsessing about this lol i think im really bored so i get these crushes on guys for fun and then i like psyche myself out plus i pretty much have no life!
2007-03-14 11:00:16 · update #2
What is your question?
2007-03-14 10:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was looking at you still after you put your head down, he probably likes you. Don't be shy and talk to him. He is probably just as shy as you. I'm a pretty shy guy and used to kind of be like you, but as I've gotten a little older I've realized we got nothing to loose, you know? If you don't talk to him and see what happens, you will never know. And that sucks. If he doesn't like you, so what. There is always another, and another, until you find your guy. Just go for it. You got nothing to loose, only to gain.
2007-03-14 10:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by allknowing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don´t worry, nothing to be embarrased. Next time you cross eyes with him, just smile and continue with t whatever you were doing. He may approach and become friends.
Why should you be selfconsious of a birthmark, think of it as a sexy spot that none else has! take it to your advantage.
2007-03-14 10:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by copita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, looks like we've got a crush! Now, he may be hot, but looks don't mean everything, doll! You should get to know him before you jump on the poor thing. Mabey he does like you, or mabey he was staring at you because he thought that you were someone else. But, you should introduce yourself! Get over that fear; it'll get you no where in life! If you're scared, here's an excercise you can do:
-Go to your mirror, and stand in front of it.
-Think of 10 positive things about yourself, lookwise.
-Think of 10 positive things about yourself, spiritulwise.
-Repeat those things in your head.
-Say to your self, 'I am fine. I can do this.'
It sounds Corney, I know. But it helps me and my friends all the time! Good luck, and may you get that guy!
2007-03-14 10:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by DramaChic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax its all right these things happen well if he thinks ur weird well then too bad you had a right to act like that you were nervous and if he cant understand that then too bad. And you must understand that it takes time to get over nervousness but with determination you will get over it. be proud of who you are. And make sure he understands that you were shy and that is the truth, but that it is ok to feel like that.
2007-03-14 10:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ziren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should start talking to him,I mean thats if you really like lol i can see that you do so try to get over your shyness and just start talking to him!!
2007-03-14 10:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by christine l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and talk to him, get to know him and if you like him ask him out. Making eye contact with him isn't embarrassing.
2007-03-14 10:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by wana help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must love you because he keeps looking at you.
2007-03-14 10:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats realy harsh but just act like you don't know what they mean if they talk about it
2007-03-14 10:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by stupidblond94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll see your shy and were nervous, you have nothing to be worried about.
2007-03-14 10:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋