My boyfriend told me that he is not happy in our relationship. I have been really needy of him recently when he asked me to give him some space and time to sort out his job situation. As a result of this i started to worry he stopped caring and this made him upset. But there are other situations that made him question our relationship. He told me that after so many problems he is not enthusiastic and motivated about us anymore? He said he has tried really hard but nothing has improved and he is tired of that. Do you have any advice on how to make things better and how to get his motivation back please?
2007-03-14 10:06:24 · 8 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he doesnt love you
you dont need him!
2007-03-14 10:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you should do is give him what he wants. There is a good chance that he is going to end your relationship and you have to just come to terms that you have no control over this part. I don't think there is anything you can do to motivate him at this point. Don't email him, don't text him and don't call him. It is always a possibility that this man might look at your relationship differently if he sees that you are respecting his wishes and you give him all the space he needs and you leave him alone.
What you do have control over is you and how you handle this at this point. You make yourself go out and enjoy what God wants us all to have, A FANTASTIC LIFE!
This s*** hurts and we have all been in your shoes. It is going to be hard but you are in control over you and nobody else. Who knows he may decide he made a big mistake and wants you back and now you have changed your mind!
2007-03-14 19:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can`t make him do anything all you can do is give him space and time. When you are together be upbeat and happy. No pressure.
Good luck
2007-03-14 17:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blimey some people have been quite abrupt!!
I would ask him if he truly loves you or is this his way of letting you down gently. So you know where you stand. Good luck.
2007-03-14 18:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by ljchalky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who obviously doesn't want to be with you???? Are you that desperate and needy??? More on and get over it!
2007-03-14 17:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its not going to work trying to manipuilate this man.
you sound angry with him because you have allowed your power to slip from your grasp,and you need to let go of the major resentmewnt you have with him and let him go
2007-03-14 17:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asked for space and time give it to him. if it's meant to be he'll be back...maybe you'll be around
2007-03-14 17:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* He doesnt care about you , he is going to leave you , move on *
2007-03-15 02:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋